Why so FAT after the marriage?

[Sara516]

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

@Mahru

WEll the answer is simple: all desi ugly bald husbands want to eat is rich, fried and heavy food so the wife puts all her effort in making that and the poor thing ends up eating it as well because she is so busy doing all the other loads of work required by the ugly bald husband and his family and does not have time to make healthy sensible food for herself.

There are only 4 reasons why a average paki man marries:

1. for sex
2. for good food
3. children
4. Take care for his parents/family

What do you expect after all this hard labor. Do you see anytime a paki woman has to giver herself???

Now, if the bald ugly thing helped out a little, maybe things would be a little different.

Larai hui hai?

[minah_pa]

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lol@atlanta .....

You wish I was fat and lazy.... and I'll tell you something else... my man has NO pot belly and NO baldness and helps once in a while, in fact some of the best times we have together is when we are working around the house side-by-side..... I keep myself the way he likes me to be because he is absolutely worth it... but if i was 300lbs tomorrow, he would still love me, because he does now for who I am....

He first met me when I was married and was undergoing chemo.... I was bald and I was bloated from the drugs.... if he could fall in love with me for the person I am then as opposed to the looks..... he will love me now matter how I look..... because he is a man with character....

also... lol... i don't make much less than he does.... if we divorced, no one gets anything extra

i really miss him.... one month left.....

[Sara516]

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Ah if only all women were as lucky as you :D You're just giving paki girls more reason to hate nondesi women ;)

[minah_pa]

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Sara

oh crud… just what I needed… that wasn’t what I was shooting for… I was hoping that others don’t settle, there is no reason too when there are soooo many guys out there like my husband… why settle for shallow??

[Fayz]

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

Minah, I am not gonna fight with you since I know I am gonna lose. Why don’t you just say “ok, I will try to take care of myself for my own sake”. Make it a priority..

@Mahru

There are only 4 reasons why a average paki man marries:

1. for sex
2. for good food
3. children
4. Take care for his parents/family

haha! this is funny and true to some extent…

1. Number one goes out the window after six months of marriage…hence the thread and the plead to watch what you eat.
2. Well, not many women know how to cook these days. Actually, I know a few who are proud of it.
3. That’s true if it was year 1300
4. With all the bitching that goes on, who wants to live with the in-laws these days

Now, could you give me four reasons why women get married.

[Muslim_Queen]

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

@babakhaan

Look at gori maims…despite having bachay every year…they are slim and tip top…as if they are not even married. Bilkul patli chikni and UN-Touch Shape.

why is it then with the pak girls that they turn into big fat aunties so fast?

Thx

^ You are living in lala land. Let’s compare obesity stats between gori maims and desi women. Then come here and inform us that desi women are over weight . Sheesh.

And no woman should have to look good for a man. She should do it for herself !!

[minah_pa]

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M_Q and Fayz..... lol, agree they should do it for themselves....

There is just an added lil incentive to have a man you love and respect look at you that way when you come into a room.... that one where the lil flutters in the stomach start because you know he's watching and will continue to watch you even if there are other girls there younger than you and prettier..... but you look good and he knows it too.... and he knows you did your hair the way he wants.... and you wear the dress he likes.... he appreciates it and shows it by brushing by you or touching your hand during the night....

Keeping yourself in shape and looking the best you can should be a given but also keeping the spark alive with your spouse should be an incentive also... but doing it to someone who doesn't appreciate it... is a waste of time.

[Sara516]

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Minah u giv me hope that luv is still possible in this day and age :)

[dope]

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@Atlanta

atlantaism no.278 begins.

Those women in here that are jumping on babaakhan for asking an honest and totally legitimate question are only doing this because they are fat and ugly themselves. Sara, PCG and other bachelorette woman in this thread is being defensive because they are fat and worry constantly about finding a husband who is willing to overlook their fatness. Minap and her married gang is being defensive because they don’t want to exercise for their husband due to the fact that they are lazy and they think that they already have a man, they don’t need to look good. Divorce in america is a biatch. They fully understand that their hubbies won’t divorce them because the amreeki court system will take half of their meager salary and give it to the fat arsed wife.

atlantaism no. 278 concludes.

Don’t bother replying to my post. I will not get into an argument with blimp-sized desi womens. You people aren’t good enough or shall I say skinny enough to talk to me.

Brought tears to my eyes.

[Orpheus]

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hi all.. nothing to add to the subject, just testing to see if this works!!!

[the_game]

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@Sara516

Er dont Pills make u gain weight?

I was answering the question. Yes.

[shahzad_f]

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wow you guys how provding mentaly satisfaction each other by emotional talking, who are not married they can get some sense.

[Sara516]

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@the game

I was answering the question. Yes.

Wrong thread?

[parissenoor]

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@Fayz

Minah, I am not gonna fight with you since I know I am gonna lose. Why don’t you just say “ok, I will try to take care of myself for my own sake”. Make it a priority..
haha! this is funny and true to some extent…

1. Number one goes out the window after six months of marriage…hence the thread and the plead to watch what you eat.
2. Well, not many women know how to cook these days. Actually, I know a few who are proud of it.
3. That’s true if it was year 1300
4. With all the bitching that goes on, who wants to live with the in-laws these days

Now, could you give me four reasons why women get married.

same, no? except good food!..I would say protection instead! and no even in 2005and+ people with moral and religious values get married before having children (and sex)…

[naina_wali]

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I wish you were a girl and every time u went to your maika, all your chachi maami,khala,nani,dadi,phopho wud say .."aii hai..kaisi peeli ho gai bachi..bas bachay chahiyay they ..lagta hai khaanay ko nahi daitay"

Then i wud ask u the same question you have asked.

[the_game]

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

@Sara516

Wrong thread?

The answer to the question was “Desi mard hazraat force their wives to take birth control pills. They don’t use condoms. So most desi ladies get fat.” Happy?

[shireen143]

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hey r u guys crazy not every paki women gets fat after marriage ..... its in hygene... if ur grandmom was fat than ur mom is also fat and if she is fat u must be fat.......its moving in family ok keep this is ur mind.... or the other reason is some paki women thought that no watch them or no one gave them imp after marriage thats why they stop taking care of them selves...... and here in US all moms are slim because they work here not staying in home all the life like paki women........

[Sara516]

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@the game

The answer to the question was “Desi mard hazraat force their wives to take birth control pills. They don’t use condoms. So most desi ladies get fat.” Happy?

Yeah but u quoted my original statement which was from another thread…

[chanlderbin]

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@PyariCgudia

If the husband doesn’t do a good job romancing his wife after marriage, and keep the love kindling…then that doesn’t give wifey much incentive to keep herself in shape for him, does it?

dont agree.women keep shape firstly for herself,then the others.

[Shak_killS]

Re: Why so FAT after the marriage?

@PyariCgudia

If the husband doesn’t do a good job romancing his wife after marriage, and keep the love kindling…then that doesn’t give wifey much incentive to keep herself in shape for him, does it?

Its such a typical pattern:

Marriage happens
1-5 years - couple is lovey dovey, excellent, in-shape, etc

Afterwards - especially with onset of first child …

couple loses interest in each other
all focus on the child - love life wanes
sex onwards is most likely done to make more babies

…

hence weight gain.

You’ll notice that a lot of these aunties are depressed.

I swear, most of 'em need psychologists. That’s how bad it is for some of these ladies.

You marry a girl, at least be smart enough not to neglect her. But no, desi men don’t care after getting married. If you want her to be smart and slim, then encourage her to go to the gym and take care of her health.

I don’t know WHY desi couples don’t excercise together??

It can be a good bonding activity. But noooooo.

Desi woman running on the streets? That’s haraam :nono:

what should a hubby do to inspire his wife to do bit of exercise to loose weight. while hubby is still of same weight after marriage and care about his diet and belly. wife is too tired to do excercise for one reason or the other. wife cant stay away from her favourite food. results >> wife is started to gain weight - nightmare started