Why is it that when a Pak-Girl gets married, after a year or so she gets FAT, like sahi man-do-man ki baldozer. U know that typical auntie shape…jo aksar bahir nazar ateeN hain
Look at gori maims…despite having bachay every year…they are slim and tip top…as if they are not even married. Bilkul patli chikni and UN-Touch Shape.
why is it then with the pak girls that they turn into big fat aunties so fast?
what can be the reason?
please throw some tubelight.
Thx
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what is this… like the umpteenth post about fat (desi) women? Don’t you guys have any sort of life at all?
Come on… like beer bellies and baldness are treats for women 
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Yep....American Fat woman are as Fugly as Desi Fat women...Enjoy..
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You guys r so fking stupid. Get a life morons.
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Minah, us desi men dont get beer bellies…or at least this desi man has not. 
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Kaleem - then you are a prince among men truly.... and ok, not beer bellies..... pot bellies then :)
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Birth control pills. Not condoms. Really.
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Er dont Pills make u gain weight?
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If the husband doesn’t do a good job romancing his wife after marriage, and keep the love kindling…then that doesn’t give wifey much incentive to keep herself in shape for him, does it?
Its such a typical pattern:
Marriage happens
1-5 years - couple is lovey dovey, excellent, in-shape, etc
Afterwards - especially with onset of first child …
couple loses interest in each other
all focus on the child - love life wanes
sex onwards is most likely done to make more babies
…
hence weight gain.
You’ll notice that a lot of these aunties are depressed.
I swear, most of 'em need psychologists. That’s how bad it is for some of these ladies.
You marry a girl, at least be smart enough not to neglect her. But no, desi men don’t care after getting married. If you want her to be smart and slim, then encourage her to go to the gym and take care of her health.
I don’t know WHY desi couples don’t excercise together??
It can be a good bonding activity. But noooooo.
Desi woman running on the streets? That’s haraam :nono:
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Maybe women feel that they finally got the ambition of their life (that is to get married ofcourse! ) so why take care afterwards.. akhir ko ab to they dont have to take trays to the guests any more … so why worry?
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I have a male cousin who suddenly got into working out at a gym after a lifetime of McDonalds. Basically he didn't have an athletic bone in his body and was a little jiggly. One day he turned to us and said, "When I get married, I'm just gonna let it all go. I'm not even gonna try anymore."
His mentality was that he had to look good to get a girl, but once he has her his work is done. It may be somewhat true with Desi girls also. Couples get comfortable with eachother and for whatever reason lose the spark (if they ever had one.) Girls in our culture have never been encouraged to be athletic and if they are it's frowned upon. I think in Pakistan it's a new concept to be not just slim but healthy. For years the 'healthy' as in chunky look was considered most attractive. Now Desi women (especiallly models) are becoming anorexic. Is this Western influence?
So it's not fair to say that all Desi girls get fat after marriage. Baba I think you're just afraid of getting married.
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IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A GENERALISED STATEMENT BABA...IS IT TRUE??...
IF SO THEN ALL THE LADIES HITTIN HIM...
PLZ DONT HIT HIM ANYMORE...
BUT MR. BABA...tusi puchhyaa hi eddaan si ke kuryaan noo ag lag gai...
i guess...all that u ppl hav said is true for everybody, both sexes, n all GENERATIONS........
n girls!!!!!!!!plzzz...
dont be hatin'
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I don't think so. I know a lot of girls my age who've had kids and have been married some years yet still maintain a great figure. A year after marriage i take more pride in how i look than i did before marriage. So i guess its the individual... i dun think our generation would sit back and grow obese. We'll be at the gyms, counting calories and whatnots...you can see that in nearly most girl guppans here. Everyone is about looking good and maintaing a nice weight.
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Right now I'm pretty pathetic...but i'm workign on it and after marriage I'll be damn sure to be in the best shape ever, that husband of mine will want me and only me ;)
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They are a treat for women. Rubbing a bald head and a pot belly can be so much fun. We look forward to our men getting fat and losing their hair within a few years of marriage. It’s what we women live for. These days, more and more men in their 20s seem to be going bald and we love it. Also, let’s not forget about the hairy, ape-like chest. Desi men. :love:
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lastknightess - your husband will want you and only you because you are a fantastic person with a lot of common sense. Being smart, clean, having manners, a sense of humor, and being presentable are what most balanced guys look for.
SOME guys, not all, get so hung up on the looks thing that it is all they focus on and those kind women should avoid like the plague. And if a guy gets to the point where he is not only putting down women because of what they weigh but also putting down a race of women as compared to another.... well, he isn't worth the effort to look at seriously, no matter how pretty the package HE is. And the same goes for women.
Pretty packages ALONE don't take care of kids, work everyday, get along with both sides of the family, juggle the various day to day life things.... a balanced person does. And I think one who can dothose things and focus on their marriage is worth much, much more than a piece of arm candy alone.
Anyone that bitches and moans about one thing that means so little is pretty darn shallow themselves. And I truly wish the women would stop feeding into it, you're more than your body.
MehnazQ - lol, I love ya :) I love bald heads, but the man refuses to lose a hair, what can you do....
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Men don’t have control over baldness. 
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^^^ looks like you girlies have upset our dear Dr witch!
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As we all know men have two heads. Unfortunately, they can only think from one head at a time. We know which head is used in the bed..so if a woman is getting neglected, you know who to blame. However, if you are totally in love with the woman's personality then there is a slight chance that your real head may overpower your other one. Since this is an age of competition, my rights, my space and egos..it's rare to see unconditional love like Romeo and Juliet...back to the treadmill y'all :-)
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I think it depends on the women i guess..cuz i've seen some aunties who are slim and sexy looking even after having 4-5 kids! funny part is they don't even exercise or goto the GYM...so could it be genetics? Also seen rare species of aunties who do exercise and maintain their lifestyle etc... however, i do agree that majority of desi women blow up like bulldozer after marriage :)