I agree with that. It isn;t a universal rule all married women get fat. They may pile on a few pounds but I’d say thats somewhat down to being relaxed and happy after marriage (to some extent anyway). A lot is hereditary too. My mom isn’t fat, and neither are any women on my mothers bloodline (gran, mom’s sis etc). One of my sis is married and hasn’t piled on the pounds at all. If you keep working after marriage, then you’ll keep burning the pounds. Too many paki women just sit on their asses and don’t do anything apart from eating high fat foods. Therein lies the problem me thinks.
If any guy doesn’t want their wife to get fat, when choosing a prospective marriage partner, be sure to check the women in her bloodline and if they’re fat or not. Its always a good pointer jk
It’s okay Starsky…we know you are not kiddin’. I think that’s very sound advice:D. The most retarded idea that has emanated from this thread is that it’s the husband’s fault why the wives gravitate towards food.
Typical complaints hurled agaisnt the husband:
a) She has to cook tasty dishes for him and gormandize on the left overs.
b) He doesnt notice her enough:rolleyes:
c) he gains weights, so she follows suit:rolleyes:
Obesity is a disease and you cannot blame anyone but yourself for the disease. It’s controllable, unless you have some glandular problems, other than that you are to be blamed!!
All the women in my bloodline are slim n trim, my mother gets compliments incessantly - people are always horrified shes a granny of 3 and I in no way look anything like her.
A) You can cook tasty stuff and STILL be healthy, so I don’t buy that excuse either
B) If all the husband does is criticize and not appreciate or notice her enough, she’s not likely to start a healthier lifestyle with a good attitude. So his behavior and attitude definitely matters, I don’t c y u guys dont getit… With any disease you need your loved ones supporting you with everything you do and when it comes to eradicating obesity, it means exercising alongside, not keeping bad foods in the house, praising them for whatever progress they make. Why is this so hard to understand?
C) If he doesn’t take care of himself, why should she? What right does he have to criticize his wife if he’s not even making an attempt to keep himself attractive for her?
Also, genes do play a role, but I don’t think a very large role. if you’re fat that doesn’t mean YOU necessarily have to be, if you take propper care. My mother, and all the women on her side and my dad’s side, was very thin before she married and after a coupla pregnancies she’d filled out nicely, she was far from fat. It was only after my birth that she gained so much weight and became the typical women you guys r all criticizing here and calling names A large part of the weight gain came from the typical housewife/mother lifestyle. I might never be slim and slender, but I will never become a bulldozer . It’s all about maintenance. In fact, one of my friends who had two kids before she was 20 and is very tiny to begin with jus has a lil bit of flab said she’d love ot look like me when she’s 40
i used to make fun of my sister when she was young. i mean be really really mean to her (actually i was mean to everone when i was young ). everyone was sick of that. so one day, my sister cried and told my khala about how i treat her so my khala said to me, “tum jitna itraati ho abhi. jab tumhari shaadi hogi tau tum phool kar KUPPA ban jao gi dekhna” i asked why she said that. she said cz i hurt my sister so much now i feel so bad for hurting my sister all the time but i havent married cz i dont want to be a KUPPA
im talking abt my younger sister who isnt married. i used to make fun of her cz she was bit erm… healthier. so my khala said she would not become fat after marriage cz she has a healthy body whereas i would cz my slim body would become a KUPPA
jk
A large part of the weight gain came from the typical housewife/mother lifestyle. I might never be slim and slender, but I will never become a bulldozer 
. It’s all about maintenance. In fact, one of my friends who had two kids before she was 20 and is very tiny to begin with jus has a lil bit of flab said she’d love ot look like me when she’s 40 
i asked why she said that. she said cz i hurt my sister so much