Women our culture DO put up with a lot more crap (unnecessary restrictions, sometimes the fear of “log kya kahain gay” and society’s double standards about the genders making it difficult for women to get out of toxic marriage as well) from in-laws compared to western culture, for example. Although I also agree with Pixie…don’t think X2 meant it in a way to put women down.
100% perfect balance can’t be achieved because you can’t compare your wife to your mom. The two relationships are different…the requirements, rights, expectations are different…one can’t replace or compensate for the other. Even the fear that “you love your mom/wife more than me” is ridiculous when the roles are so different. I think when all parties fail to understand or even reflect upon this…it leads to the saas-bahu jhagray.
i feel for those men who are labelled ‘mummy daddy’ by the wife and ‘joru ka ghulam’ by the mother, yes between a rock and a hard place indeed. why put them in that awkward position in the first place? why the pressure on them to choose sides? oh yes there are sides.
I am only concerned about women’s requirements from other women.
I completely agree women put up with a lot pof crap, and mostly from other women
so if women are the victims, women are mostly the perps as well
just because you dont see guys whine non stop dpoes not mean they dont have a lot of expectations to meet, as i just noted something as simple as the guys who are stuck behind two warring children err i mean their wife and their mother type of situation.
guys also dont usually go around talking about sacrifices they made or are making for others, because a sacrifice where then you go and whine about it is not mardangi.
and yes, what i wrote was not an insult to women, as red velvet and others understood also. I did not realize that the ambassador from female gender will find it inappropriate, for which you have my…sincerest…apologies.
stop reading webmd its not good for you
CAD at 24 ys of age cuz of mild obesity ? what r u smoking
esp with a perfect lipid panel
less than 25 is horribly skinny i wud have divorced her if she stayed that way trust me it wasnt easy a lot of threats made her eat those steaks and icecream
All I can say after 4 pages, POOR MAN, jutiyaan usko hi parthi hain, kasoor uska ho yaan na ho. Ek taraf ma baap, ek taraf biwi. One thing I can say for sure. Some people said emotional blackmailing by the parents. Who is blackmailed in this case? The poor son, the poor husband. But it’s not only the parents who blackmail, everything has two sides. Agree or not, biwi does blackmail her husband emotionally in this case instead of lending a crying shoulder.
Can someone of the opposite gender tell me their definition of a Mama’s Boy?
And yes, women need more maturity! Women keep their nose so high here and in real life, jaise wo hum mardon pe barra asaan kar ri hain! What have you done for us except leaving your household, parents, siblings? Mostly fassad dalty hain aa kar.
I don’t think it’s maturity if a woman does things so that “dusro na boleyn, yaan bateein na baane”.
Not one of you women can give a exact defintion? Do you fear that someone could break down your arguments?
ek masaal hai, sunni ho gi
maa, biwi or beta kashti meyn bethe hain. Kashti leak hogey hai. Beta siraf ek ko save kar sakta hai. Biwi yaan maa ko. Beta dilemma meyn parr geya hai, kisko save karoon? Maa ko jisne mujhe paala, barra kiya, saare mere nachre utayya, yaan meri biwi, meri khushi, merir new life? Beta/husband sochta re ta hai, lekin biwi ek dam se kethi hai
“Suniye, aap maa ko save karlo. Dusri biwi miljai gi, Maa dusri naheen mili gee”…