Why do you need a maid?

[S02]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

@JustARegularGuy

I meant that the guy probably works long hours so that he can afford a maid among other things.

Perhaps, but I doubt that is really causing a change in his work routine.

[wishkamar]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

I don't think I am in the state of commenting on this situation since I would have no idea about their household, family, income etc. However, I sure do wanna say if the husband, or other family members for that matter, has no problem with having a cleaner over, then why are you fretting over this? Guy isn't asking you to pay for the maid/cleaner, is he?

[Fayz]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

You should get a maid if you need it not because you want it. Women appreciate a maid more than men will ever do. I usually hire a maid before inviting important guests.

[amelie]

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if you can afford it why not get a maid????? it frees up time for me to spend with both my daugther and husband....lets me have some flexibility and things get done (deep cleaning) that i'd never do...

[Sara516]

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if i cud have a maid just for everytime the strainer in the sink needed to be emptied. Thats the yuckiest, nastiest chore

[mizzrani]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

erm isnt this like none of ur business if the dude wnts to provide his wife with a maid that's their business im sure they have good enough reasons , and even if they are nt good enough reasons dt shud nt concern you.

so tell me erm why do u have a head , i mean i surely dont think u need it

[The_Prodigy]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

Ok this is purely opinion of mines

Nothing is more important to me then a beautiful saaf suthree wife when I get home…..the last thing I want to see is my jannus nails or hands messed up because she was doing a tub load of dishes after a party or something….or her feet hurting from all the kaam….or her being upset because of all the kaam…..she should never be tired or aggravated by any of these things…..when I come home I want a good convo some nice tv time and maybe go for a drive….a happy and beautiful looking wife is a serious matter to me…

Now
If one can afford a nani/maid/mausi or whatever…then all the power to him… and if the guy does work hard and still provides for his wife with a maid….then he really loves her and that’s a real man….he keeps his woman happy and I am sure she keeps him happy…..its a give and take…and an awesome one at that!..

And finally…..

Sheila is the lady that helps us around the house every Friday…and I refuse to call her a maid or anything of the sort because she is someones daughter mother and wife…..she is a very classy woman and a nice hard working trustworthy individual…I respect her as if she was part of the family…best of all she’s in the wrong job field because she should be a model :biggthumb

PS
If financially it isn’t doable to have a Sheila then sharing the house work works out best!

now back to what im good at
:desimunda:

[Munni]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

I've spoken to quite a few women who do this work. And many of them have said they depend on such work for their livelihood, because others wont give them a job. The women I have spoken to tend to be older and dont necessarily have the educational qualitifcation or work experience to do other jobs.

[Lusi]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

He is source of employment for someone in need, why are you fretting over it.

[X2]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

@AnGeL_EyEs

I can name a couple reasons why :halo:

please do explain, i dont understand.

@adrasteia

Those costa ricans are Hawt

really? I did not really notice.

[Iconoclast]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

@Sara516

if i cud have a maid just for everytime the strainer in the sink needed to be emptied. Thats the yuckiest, nastiest chore

Ask ur husband to do it

[Code_Red]

Re: Why do you need a maid?

@ashtray

I help my wife a lot around the house, like after dinner i push my plates towards her so that she doesnt have to come around to my side of the table to collect them. I save her trips to the kitchen by telling her what I need when she goes there to get something for herself. I do not leave things here and there but instead call her over and hand it to her so that she can put it in the right spot. Sometimes I love myself so much for being such a helpful husband ke I wish I was a woman and married myself.

hain? kya?

maids are quite hassle. They ask me to lift feet when I am sitting on sofa reading paper. They turn on the fan in winter and turn it off in summer. Damn, Why cant they do their cleaning stuff without disturbing me ?

[Sara516]

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@Iconoclast

Ask ur husband to do it

i'd rather hope that he just doesn't throw food/garbage in the sink--you know fix the problem rather than put a bandaid on it

[Iconoclast]

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Our previous maid has left coz of problems with her daughters health. I am looking for a new one. My 6 yr old son is trying to impose himslef about selection and his criteria is looks. Couple of days ago one came to our house along with another middle aged women. And my son was saying about the young one, "Mama, ye jo neeley kaproun maiN hai, is ko rakh lo". Today i went to an agency and was looking at the cv's and her put his hand on one clad in jeans and tank tops and said, "this one". I ignored him and started looking at others, he pushed the cv again towards my face and said, No, this one.