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OK. I stand by my position. You guys have a field day.
I support your position, some people think being mean, aggressive and abrasive is a many quality.
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OK. Pile on.
I forgot I needed your permission.
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it's interesting to note that the OP has been BANNED but his thread is alive and well and kicking! :D
@Candy Apple:
if you aren't HAPPY with Pakistani men then consider Indian men? have you ever thought of that? :D :p :)
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^And all of a sudden, Candy's heart sees the light and recovers its lost love for Pakistani men.
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I forgot I needed your permission.
Ok. Don't forget next time. Or do. I could care less. Cheers.
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I support your position, some people think being mean, aggressive and abrasive is a many quality.
True that. Case in point in this thread. Pack of hyenas.
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a doglike carnivore of the family Hyaenidae, of Africa, southwestern Asia,and south central Asia, having a coarse coat, a sloping back, and large teethand feeding chiefly on carrion, often in packs.
Hyena | Define Hyena at Dictionary.com
An apt definition of Pakistani/Punjabi men Mr. Southie. I salute your honesty 
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Educate yourself. Become familiar with figure of speech. Then come back.
Hyenas hunt in packs. Wouldn’t you say that’s happening here? IMHO it is. Comparison ends right there. Kapish?
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Ok. Don't forget next time. Or do. I could care less. Cheers.
True that. Case in point in this thread. Pack of hyenas.
Educate yourself. Become familiar with figure of speech. Then come back.
Hyenas hunt in packs. Wouldn't you say that's happening here? IMHO it is. Comparison ends right there. Kapish?
And you could care less
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And you could care less...
Looks like you have comprehension issues. My could care less was wrt whether u forget or not. Kapish?
And I could care less if you Kapish or not. Kapish?
Cheers. You can have last word.
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Looks like you have comprehension issues. My could care less was wrt whether u forget or not. Kapish?
And I could care less if you Kapish or not. Kapish?
Cheers. You can have last word.
You say I have comprehension issues, then go onto say kapish three more times and then tell me delightfully that I can have the last word.
And you could care less. Right buddy. Lets see if you give me a third reply or not.
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When I see ganging up, in my mind I liken the act/behavior to a pack of vultures. This is how I read Southie’s comment. He’s referring to the behavior which is now outdoing even Candy’s aggression. He hasn’t made an attribution to the entire race. So, why stretch it that far?
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^And all of a sudden, Candy's heart sees the light and recovers its lost love for Pakistani men.
my job, in favor of Pakistani men, accomplished! :D :)
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True that. Case in point in this thread. Pack of hyenas.
Although as a rule generalization is not an acceptable way of thinking but some posters here are countering the argument that Desi men are not jerks by displaying appalling jerky behavior..how ironic..lol
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it's interesting to note that the OP has been BANNED but his thread is alive and well and kicking! :D
@Candy Apple:
if you aren't HAPPY with Pakistani men then consider Indian men? have you ever thought of that? :D :p :)
Some girls like girls...
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Although as a rule generalization is not an acceptable way of thinking but some posters here are countering the argument that Desi men are not jerks by displaying appalling jerky behavior..how ironic..lol
How so?
If a poster is making a crass post lambasting all men in pretty rude terms do you expect only one person to criticise it and the rest to sit back, yawn and twiddle their thumbs so as not be called a 'pack'?
This is a forum.
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Generalization such as the ones you've listed indicate a preference for gori women but not necessarily a hatred for Pakistani women. And a very decided hatred that refuses to budge is not healthy.
None of us here are above making stereotypes/generalization about various groups of people even though we may have not expressed them on GS. All of us are aware of both the positive and negative tendencies in our culture. For example, we know that our culture is generally lax with time/punctuality. A positive generalization would be that we tend to be a hospitable culture. It becomes a problem when your mind is not even open to acknowledging the good characteristics that exist. In lectures, scholars advise that the best way to negate the the poor image that Muslims have is to act in a way that contradicts the stereotypes rather than confirm them. That said, for people who are already biased against a race, they are likely to harden even more if we respond in accordance to their perceptions/expectations of us. We don't realize (and this includes me) that our pattern of actions not only lead to development of stereotypes about our race/religion/etc....but that they also lead to assumptions about things on a much a smaller scale such as our family and upbringing etc. I am not defending Candy's comments; I don't agree with her posts....but this is another perspective to look at the issue from.
I think everyone is flipping out for no reason. So candy is angry at the gents from her motherland. Ok. Great. Let's move on and continue living. If the gents from the motherland are indeed good people, instead of keechar uchaaling on her and other women here, they will say ok, candy apple, best of luck, hope whoever you find is good to you, and sorry to hear you're jaded with our people, ok, have a good day! bye bye!
Oh if only, people were more open minded. Some people flip out over Pakistani men, because of what they've seen and read. I don't blame them. The stats are unfortunately putting Pakistani men in the red.
Yes, there are good people out there. Lots of men who are good. But open the TV channel man, I wonder which Pakistanis are left that are good these days.
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Am out of this debate. But it occurred to me I used the wrong phrase. Meant to say
I couldn't care less.
I am sure my good friends couldn't care less. (Added this to demonstrate correct use of this phrase).
Cheers!
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As others have mentioned on this thread, not all Pakistani men are bad. And if it makes some of the women here feel any better, my family knows two Pakistani women who are married to non-Pakistani men. One married a Lebanese businessman and the other an Iranian police officer (her dad was Pashtun).
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I wonder which Pakistanis are left that are good these days.
Only the ones in your family of course.