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Some. I can't speak for all of them. :-/
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I think everyone is flipping out for no reason. So candy is angry at the gents from her motherland. Ok. Great. Let's move on and continue living. If the gents from the motherland are indeed good people, instead of keechar uchaaling on her and other women here, they will say ok, candy apple, best of luck, hope whoever you find is good to you, and sorry to hear you're jaded with our people, ok, have a good day! bye bye!
Oh if only, people were more open minded. Some people flip out over Pakistani men, because of what they've seen and read. I don't blame them. The stats are unfortunately putting Pakistani men in the red.
Yes, there are good people out there. Lots of men who are good. But open the TV channel man, I wonder which Pakistanis are left that are good these days.
Hahahahah, some people really are living in a bubble, aren't they.
You know what? Why don't you go out on the streets and say exactly what candy_apple said, but then about hispanics, or blacks or whatever ethnicity/race you want. Then we will see how open-minded non-pakistani people are. If the reactions on this forum are overreacted according to you, then you are going to have a heartattack when dealt with the real sh!t.
Or better, do it at work. I am sure your boss and others will say: "oh sorry PCG, best of luck, hope whoever you find is good to you, and sorry to hear you're jaded with our people, ok, have a good day! bye bye!" (sarcasm).
First learn the definition of 'open minded' and then be bothered about the lack of it.
Oh the twisted thoughts some people have here. Worse than that is the fact that these people really don't see that they are in the wrong.
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Although as a rule generalization is not an acceptable way of thinking but some posters here are countering the argument that Desi men are not jerks by displaying appalling jerky behavior..how ironic..lol
Hey, Shawns is back!
LOL pcg wishing people were more open minded.
Comedy at its best.
Lepak I think its just a matter of developing a thick skin.
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LOL pcg wishing people were more open minded. Comedy at its best.
Lepak I think its just a matter of developing a thick skin.
Right eh.
If somebody wants fresh rottis every day tau bardaasht nai hota, but at the same time asking to be open minded for racist comments.
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Pakistani men suck. Pakistani women suck. Pakistani traditions suck. Paki-everything suck.
Nothing new :/
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^well said, Agreed..
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Funny thing in these threads from many guppans is , yeah, Pakistani men suck except the one they are married to.
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Clearly generalize g against a whole set of people is wrong. Whether that set is Punjabi Bengal I or Tamil. And that country is Pakistan India or Bangladesh.
Most of what candy said rings true in india. In both countries I think majority treat their spouses just fine. But ones life experiences can color ones judgment.
On the other hand those who put down an entire set of people with whom they hardly interacted - those are bigots IMHO.
Speaking of generalization from personal experience , I wouldn't trust Indians.when it comes to money matters. They simply make stuff up. Seen enough instances to conclude they just have different set of rules. No ethics.
Conclusion drawn based on experience with close relatives.
So yes one can be hard on one's own community based on one's experience.
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^ Ok you wouldn't trust Indians when it comes to money matters, based on personal experience.
But you don't hate all indians and they don't make you vomit. Or do they?
So stop trying to justify bigotry.
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^ Ok you wouldn't trust Indians when it comes to money matters, based on personal experience.
But you don't hate all indians and they don't make you vomit. Or do they?
So stop trying to justify bigotry.
Of course not. I have clearly stated in an earlier post that candy was wrong. She went overboard. There is no debate on that issue.
Stop throwing accusations of justifying bigotry. Unless that suits your agenda.
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Of course not. I have clearly stated in an earlier post that candy was wrong. She went overboard. There is no debate on that issue.
Stop throwing accusations of justifying bigotry. Unless that suits your agenda.
Political correctness is a complicated issue, almost everyone gets away with dissing the white folks especially Americans and the British, African Americans use the hated word on each other frequently but are not labelled as racists. Women of all races dish it out to their men all the time, The rule seems to be that criticism of people in power and trust and historically charged with cruelty and abuse of power are required to be a lot more open to backlash and criticism. We do owe the women on historical and in some cultures present exploitation and abuse a heart felt apology. Let me be the first to apologise
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Of course not. I have clearly stated in an earlier post that candy was wrong. She went overboard. There is no debate on that issue.
Stop throwing accusations of justifying bigotry. Unless that suits your agenda.
I don't have an agenda. Maybe you have one.
Yes, you do say that candy was wrong, and then you come with examples and arguments stating how you can understand why one can be hard on one's own comunity.
What's the point of that then?
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Hate, spite, ignorance (including in the form of generalizations) or a lack of compassion, forgiveness or empathy are their own punishment. He or she who wrongs another person or group with their actions, words or in this case posts on a board, suffers the consequence of that themselves.
We've all got very strong opinions and none of us are without bias - that is our own failing and one that we live with. Whether we continue on that path or try to better ourselves is a personal choice and struggle - we can't be led or even shamed to a course of action unless we choose change. And the same way we live with our biases and the consequences coming from that, we also live with the consequences of our reactions to another's words or actions.
Kisi ka dil dukhaana is something our conscience has to live with it - that's the beauty of having the zameer Allah (swt) graced us with.
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Political correctness is a complicated issue, almost everyone gets away with dissing the white folks especially Americans and the British, African Americans use the** hated word** on each other frequently but are not labelled as racists...............
Huh? What a misleading comment.
Yes they can be and they are.
You are mixing comedy or sarcasm with hateful comments, which are rightfully considered as racism or even treated as crime.
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I bet all these posts really made candy-apple change her mind.
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^well said, Agreed..
Does that include Pakistani food, Poetry etc?
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I think everyone is flipping out for no reason. So candy is angry at the gents from her motherland. Ok. Great. Let's move on and continue living. If the gents from the motherland are indeed good people,** instead of keechar uchaaling on her and other women here, they will say ok, candy apple, best of luck, hope whoever you find is good to you, and sorry to hear you're jaded with our people, ok, have a good day! bye bye!**
Oh if only, people were more open minded. Some people flip out over Pakistani men, because of what they've seen and read. I don't blame them. The stats are unfortunately putting Pakistani men in the red.
Yes, there are good people out there. Lots of men who are good. But open the TV channel man, I wonder which Pakistanis are left that are good these days.
well said PCG.