Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
So?
By that logic all indians are asshats because one sitting next to me on the train farted.
Very, very disappointed Southie. To make excuses for someone's errors means you are just as guilty as them. And lets face it, thats a weak excuse. Take ur shining armour off.
If I had a bad day came out and lashed, no one would say cc had a bad day. No no I just get called a rapist.
It has nothing to do with shining armor. IMO the message was delivered. To the best of my knowledge at the time of my writing the lady had not offered any rebuttal.
A there comes a point when one needs to say ok that's enough. Where that point is is subjective. From my POV that point was reached. If u disagree then by all means pile on.
Of course if the lady came back with a ridiculous defense of her ridiculous statement then I would say pike on tbick. Looks like that's just me. And that's fine.
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Oh boo hoo, cry me a river.
I don't like pakistani men. I have SEVERAL reasons for why I feel the way I do. SOME of those reasons have already been mentioned earlier in this thread by myself and a few others.
Are your egos so inflated that you can't take one female on gs stating that she doesn't like pakistani men? WOW. Besides you don't even know me, so WHY would you even care what I think?
I don't care to argue with anyone here. I really don't. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. You don't have to agree with me. But at the end of the day, it isn't going to change my view on pakistani men.
Youre probably just a man hater. The whole "pakistani men" thing is just a shield for you to hide behind and spit your venom from
Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
When a man says he prefers to marry a gori, and doesn't want to marry a pakistani girl because of all the gossiping/headache/politics she comes with/she isn't hot in bed/hairy woman/not fun/not adventurous/etc, how is that acceptable while candy apple's comments are not?
Um, yes, guys think that, hence why everyone is all ready to marry a gori larki over a Pakistani girl. So one pakistani girl comes out and says she really has no interest in marrying a Pakistani guy and has some other generalizations just like men would who marry gori women, and now she's the bad guy?
Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
When a man says he prefers to marry a gori, and doesn't want to marry a pakistani girl because of all the gossiping/headache/politics she comes with/she isn't hot in bed/hairy woman/not fun/not adventurous/etc, how is that acceptable while candy apple's comments are not?
Um, yes, guys think that, hence why everyone is all ready to marry a gori larki over a Pakistani girl. So one pakistani girl comes out and says she really has no interest in marrying a Pakistani guy and has some other generalizations just like men would who marry gori women, and now she's the bad guy?
Generalization such as the ones you've listed indicate a preference for gori women but not necessarily a hatred for Pakistani women. And a very decided hatred that refuses to budge is not healthy.
None of us here are above making stereotypes/generalization about various groups of people even though we may have not expressed them on GS. All of us are aware of both the positive and negative tendencies in our culture. For example, we know that our culture is generally lax with time/punctuality. A positive generalization would be that we tend to be a hospitable culture. It becomes a problem when your mind is not even open to acknowledging the good characteristics that exist. In lectures, scholars advise that the best way to negate the the poor image that Muslims have is to act in a way that contradicts the stereotypes rather than confirm them. That said, for people who are already biased against a race, they are likely to harden even more if we respond in accordance to their perceptions/expectations of us. We don't realize (and this includes me) that our pattern of actions not only lead to development of stereotypes about our race/religion/etc....but that they also lead to assumptions about things on a much a smaller scale such as our family and upbringing etc. I am not defending Candy's comments; I don't agree with her posts....but this is another perspective to look at the issue from.
Rv most of us here realise that by behaving in a particular we would only be renforcing the stereotype.
The core of it is people dont give a S-H-I-T what these numbskulls think. The opinions people hold tells tales of their own ignorance and how much S-H-I-T they are actually full of.
So I would honestly rather give these dumb bimbos a taste of their own medicine, rather than exercise futility and try and show them some perspective. They dont deserve it. They dont have the capacity for it. Smaller creatures ya know
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Show me a society where all the men or women are either good or bad. If men outside pakistan are soo good then why divorce is on the rise in west ? Its not about pakistani men or american men,, Women are victims of violence in every part of the world.
Its my personal opinion that most men (inside and outside pakistan), are "BADTAMEEM" as compared to women. Looks like, you had a bad experience regarding pakistani men, and now u have issued a GOODNESS CERTIFICATE to all men execpt pakistani and pashtun men. (well, pashtuns are wonderfull people, They have never been conqured)
Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
The OP is right on point.
Pakistani men (especially Punjabis) rolls eyes have always had a sense of entitlement.
They think they DESERVE to be waited on day in and day out. They honestly believe that ALL they have to do in this life is go to work and make money. Their wives are expected to work (outside the home) and inside the home. Their wives are expected to do ALL the cooking, cleaning, child rearing etc. Some Pakistani men don't even think they have to get up off the couch to get themselves a glass of water. I blame the women too. They allow their husband's to treat them like a doormat. In all fairness some women do TRY to get their hubby's to help out but it goes in one ear and out the other.
Gosh how I hate Pakistani men. Actually I hate all men.....but Pakistani men....they just make me wanna throw up.
Oh and ANY girl that comes in here and says "Not all Paki men are like that....my hubby is great because he cooks and cleans etc" ...Please consider yourself VERY LUCKY. You are in the minority. Just thank Allah for giving you the exception to the rule.
Couldn't we turn this right back around to you? Please consider yourself VERY UNLUCKY. You are in the minority.
How come your narrow experience is sufficient for dismissing an entire nation of men?
You don't want to marry a Pakistani or a Punjabi, don't. But don't kid yourself into thinking that you know everything about them.
Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
no Southie never took a trip to your mind.
And i don't argue with gutterheads and obsessed stalkers like you.
Thread1: Why pakistanii men make worst husbands?
Thread2: Why pakistani men are bagerat? Great job GS.
Theres a lot more bullcrap strewn across the whole forum. Nobody ever saw that but now everyones Pakistani gairat wokeup. Suddenly. Some threads could be deleted or moved for whatever the reason but toxic thread like these are left behind to shine in full glory . Oh yes Tlk i know i am not Gs ka mama, and don't give a sheet to being one, so i shouldn't be saying this.
I humbly request everyone to rise to their feet.
Saray jahan say acha hindustan hamara
Hum hain bulbulay uskay
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Re: Why do Pakistanii men make the worst husbands?
no Southie never took a trip to your mind.
And i don't argue with gutterheads and obsessed stalkers like you.
Thread1: Why pakistanii men make worst husbands?
Thread2: Why pakistani men are bagerat? Great job GS.
Theres a lot more bullcrap strewn across the whole forum. Nobody ever saw that but now everyones Pakistani gairat wokeup. Suddenly. Some threads could be deleted or moved for whatever the reason but toxic thread like these are left behind to shine in full glory . Oh yes Tlk i know i am not Gs ka mama, and don't give a sheet to being one, so i shouldn't be saying this.
I humbly request everyone to rise to their feet.
Saray jahan say acha hindustan hamara
Hum hain bulbulay uskay
.....
Read first three lines. Realized rest of post is waste of time.
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Candy, love your post..... honey why dont we go and i feed you something sweet as your name indicates your sweet tooth? Something like a chocolate lollipop with a creamy centre...of pakistani origion?
Pm me babe.....cheers....
