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A mature girl will take a steady, sweet and sometimes 'boring' teddy bear any day over a macho man who will temporarily sweep her off her feet. And she will take a teddy bear who sweeps her off her feet any second over the above two.
I think if you look around, not many 'bad boys' will be married.
I know its over rated but more and more girls I see are attracted to such sort of men..or maybe I can say..the Tough Guy image more then the Nice Guy charm. Its just so unfair though, because after the girls get treated poorly by the Tough dudes out there…they look for the nicer guy…but I feel sorry for the nicer guys.
Do you think the Nice Guys are mostly the kind that woman can walk all over. I think they are just a bit mild mannered…don’t fret over the small stuff but at the bigger things hold their ground.
hey am I describing the bad boy or the nice guy:konfused:
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Bad boys bad boys wat u gona do, wat u gona do when they come to u, bad boys bad boys.
ahemz
ayite i think bad girls chose bad boys and nice girls choose nice guys, simple is that.
ive never seen a nice girl with some trouble maker gangsta, or never seen a nice guy with a hooker, know wat i mean.
and also depends on wats ur definition of bad boy or nice boy is, and there are also ppl who fall in between, i mean they are neither bad nor nice.
according to me a nice guy would be whose well mannered, confident, knowledgeable, respect literally everyone, and has some morals. (not talking about nice as in behavioral way)
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In this thread, it seems as if Nice Guys are ones that can be walked all over and finish last because they allow a woman to step on their heart.
IMO, a nice guy is one that treats me very well but takes charge when I need him to.
A bad boy is just that...a bad BOY.
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We are not talking about our personal definitions of nice guys - we are discussin the ‘nice ones’ who finish last.
The nice guys who finish last vs. nice guy we all want to marry asap! Big difference between the two. Then there is a nice guy vs. bad boy. Bad boy, I agree, is for highschool girls.
Nice guy who finish last, can listen to the above advice by Initiator or he can blame girls for being immature and falling for ‘bad boys’ instead of him. :halo:
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Ask99, unfortunately sometimes if you don't hold on your ground on smaller things, you would face violent opposition trying to hold your ground on bigger issues. I think for every relationship, the norms and boundaries are established within the first few days. I wouldn't say that a nice guy means someone a woman can walk over, I guess that would be a 'weak guy'. Being nice does not mean you have to be nice at the cost of losing your self esteem/dignity. It just means that you give room to your partner and understand them, but be strong when there is a need. To keep it simple, you shouldn't try to be nice to everyone all the time.
Straight_up, I am glad you think that way :)
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Nice guys who finish last are ones that allow themselves to get walked on and lose some self-respect because they love so hard. They make it too easy and to a younger girl, that becomes boring as well as annoying. Who wants a "yes" man all the time? Ideally, it sounds like something anyone would want but in real life a man who stands his ground on certain issues is going to be far more respected than one who gives in all the time.
Love is blind...So what is this nice guys n bad boys thing?
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Marriage statistics ( badboy vs niceguy ) don't mean anything unless they consist entirely of love marriages as arranged marriaged are based on more important things than just attraction aswell as many people being involved in the partner selection process. But no matter what any girl says on here, in reality she would prefer her partner to be a 'badboy' to an extent, & i don't mean those idiots who hang about with their faces half cover with pakistan flag bandanas, oversized 9ct gold jewelery wearing fake thugs who go around calling each othe 'bro', ' blud' & 'cuz'.
A proper'badboy' has everything a girl would look for in a partner other than fidelity (in most cases), but even still most of the girls who are with these guys are willing to put up with such things as there are many benefits which come with such guys,
Now seeing as the point here is 'what girls are attracted to' & not who they marry then evidence gives the badboys victory everytime.
Lets look at it another way, someone mentioned that badboys are hardly ever married, that may be so, but if the 'badboy' was in the same situation as a 'nice guy' were by the'yd both been with a girl for a year, supposedly both couples having fallen in love, the girl is expecting marriage, but both the 'badboy' & the 'nice guy' refuse to ever marry, which guy do you think will lose his girl..........not the 'badboy', in a lot of cases, the 'badboy' cheating is known to these women but they tend to put up with it, can't have everything.
Lets not lie to ourselves, for most of us (NOT ME!!!), this world is about material things, how much we've got & what other people think about us, the more money you make, the more "friends" you make, it doesn't only apply to women but men also only in different ways. One 'wants' you, the other wants to rob you.
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because they are looking for someone to bring their wild side out.
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Waise guys I have seen this example too…Nice guys wanting to be all bad boys for their wives…ending up Losers:smack:
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I kind of always thought the opposite. I think most girls are attracted to charming guys and it's always the nice ones who bring that charm.
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LOL at some people's reality.
Have you guys seen the movie BACHNA AE HASEENO?
Till half of the movie - Main Character was the "Bad Boy"
The first girl's husband seekh guy (who put up with her for 12 years) - was a Nice Guy.
So girls, when you see me coming ... run and hide! lol
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**Nice Guys
Complex 1: Lack of initiative. Reason: Too shy to talk to a girl after all they are Alien.
Complex 2: Love is like Rocket Science. Reason: It requires a Rocket Launcher.
Complex 3: Desires of Perfection. Reason: Everything must be perfect or else I’ll lose her.
**
**Bad Boys
I wouldn’t call it bad boys. Its about either you’re an alpha male or not. What will you do when you’re faced off with a mob of 40 and you’re the only one standing against them, will you back off or move forward? Most think twice but not some… you can apply the same situation in an office full of corrupt people.
Ritual 1: Initiative. If you like someone, there is no reason for you to not talk to them.
Ritual 2: Love. Alpha male in love are absolutely like your nice guys, only 10 times more intense.
Ritual 3: Not Perfection. Its not perfection alpha male is after, because an alpha male knows his flaws so he tries to work it out as best as he can; rather then pretending to be someone else.**
Filmy version of a bad boy or alpha male is simply delusional behavior occurring in overgrown children, teens, pre-teens, insecure kids etc..
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i was just talking to my brother about this topic. its so weird girls always like the bad guy, even if we dont like to admit it sometimes. not gonna lie bad guys always attract my more than "nice guys", maybe nice guys come across as lame
Nice Guys Complex 1: Lack of initiative. Reason: Too shy to talk to a girl after all they are Alien. Complex 2: Love is like Rocket Science. Reason: It requires a Rocket Launcher. Complex 3: Desires of Perfection. Reason: Everything must be perfect or else I'll lose her.
Bad Boys *I wouldn't call it bad boys. Its about either you're an alpha male or not. What will you do when you're faced off with a mob of 40 and you're the only one standing against them, will you back off or move forward? Most think twice but not some... you can apply the same situation in an office full of corrupt people.*
Ritual 1: Initiative. If you like someone, there is no reason for you to not talk to them. Ritual 2: Love. Alpha male in love are absolutely like your nice guys, only 10 times more intense. Ritual 3: Not Perfection. Its not perfection alpha male is after, because an alpha male knows his flaws so he tries to work it out as best as he can; rather then pretending to be someone else.
agree 101%
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Alpha Male…
…thats funny…
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y there is a missconception that a nice guy has to be shy and a confidenceless creature.
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All the gals out there care to explain what a:
"Nice guy & Bad Boy means to you"?
