Why are most girls attracted to the “Bad Boy” Persona and why do the Nicest of the guys finish last? That sure is so unfair.
What are your views…any experiences?
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hmm well, immature girls go for bad boys. The mature ones know what to look for
So, i sorta disagree with that. Also, I know for a fact that all the nice guys in our circle were taken well before anyone could get a chance to even think about looking at them.
Even know, when i look at the married men, i think the girls are very lucky Mashallah to have such lovely hubbies (including me)
Re: ==Why Do NICE GUYS finish Last??
Girls want to experience the "wild aspects of male energy" from guys in a relationship and nice guys dont seem to even have that energy. Its all in vibes .......
Re: ==Why Do NICE GUYS finish Last??
Ask99, whose the "nice" guy?
Re: ==Why Do NICE GUYS finish Last??
I don't know ask a girl.
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You just got "we will still be good friends" didnt you?
You just got "we will still be good friends" didnt you?
haha good one!! reminded me of my first relationship :D:D
Ask99, whose the "nice" guy?
Hez talkin about me :D
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Depends what you mean when you say 'nice guy'.
If you mean someone who is very shy and almost always lets the girll have her way, i.e. she walks all over him, then I don't think that's a nice guy. He's a guy who'll always be "just a friend". Unfortunately, every woman wants typical masculinity - so this kind of "nice guy" just won't do.
hmm well, immature girls go for bad boys. The mature ones know what to look for
So, i sorta disagree with that. Also, I know for a fact that all the nice guys in our circle were taken well before anyone could get a chance to even think about looking at them.
Even know, when i look at the married men, i think the girls are very lucky Mashallah to have such lovely hubbies (including me)
I agree but if you see overall...Most ...I mean Most Girls Buy into the "Bad Boy Persona"...more of which I think has to do with the Female Nurturing instinct of Being able to "Convert" The bad boy to a Nice guy.
You just got "we will still be good friends" didnt you?
:D...:D
Depends what you mean when you say 'nice guy'.
If you mean someone who is very shy and almost always lets the girll have her way, i.e. she walks all over him, then I don't think that's a nice guy. He's a guy who'll always be "just a friend". Unfortunately, every woman wants typical masculinity - so this kind of "nice guy" just won't do.
I guess thats what my definition is...
What do you you mean by typical masculinity? Being Possessive, aggressive what is it that you define that as?
I agree but if you see overall...Most ...I mean Most Girls Buy into the "Bad Boy Persona"...more of which I think has to do with the Female Nurturing instinct of Being able to "Convert" The bad boy to a Nice guy.
i still reckon its immaturity. Its ones way of feeling better about themselves. to know that you have been able to convert someone per se.. i believe its something girls go through.. and guys know it too. They can reel a "good" girl in.. get her to listen to their problems blah blah blah.. but nothing really comes out of it..
at the end of the day (most girls) want someone nice to look after them. Be sensitive to their needs. Cuddle them and all the rest.. the other thing, i think this "bad boy persona" is over rated... most bad boys are nice guys neways.
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Ask99, It's about acting manly. It does not mean that you have to show aggression or be possessive, but just that you should hold your ground. Manlihood demands responsibility, argumentative power, articulation and little indifference at times. Let women be in charge of the finer things in life, and give them the kindness and respect they deserve. However, women knowingly or unknowingly seek protection, and thus look for men who are gentle yet a bit strongheaded.
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I agree but if you see overall…Most …I mean Most Girls Buy into the “Bad Boy Persona”…more of which I think has to do with the **Female Nurturing instinct of Being able to “Convert” The bad boy to a Nice guy./**quote]
That’s true 
“bad boys”:jano:
the bad boy sounds very fun and appealing
but once you get a bad boy there will come a day where he directs his badness towards you.
so watch out girls. it is not as great as it seems.
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Ask99, It’s about acting manly. It does not mean that you have to show aggression or be possessive, but just that you should hold your ground. Manlihood demands responsibility, argumentative power, articulation and little indifference at times. Let women be in charge of the finer things in life, and give them the kindness and respect they deserve. However, women knowingly or unknowingly seek protection, and thus look for men who are gentle yet a bit **strongheaded./**quote]
That’s exactly what I meant, thanks Initiator. :halo:
the bad boy sounds very fun and appealing
but once you get a bad boy there will come a day where he directs his badness towards you.
so watch out girls. it is not as great as it seems.
not all bad boys are "bad" its just the act they put up. like mine, rock band/long hair/motorcycle, but when it comes to me, he makes me the center of his world, but no one else in this world knows that side of him.:@: