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why do muslim guys do this?
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"CUZ THEY ARE CRAZIEEE"
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[quote] why do muslim guys do this? [quote]
"CUZ THEY ARE CRAZIEEE"
in a sexy sort of way, haina?
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I wonder if some of the people reading this thread do the same thing. hoonh
Anyway, its nice to receive/give a Salam, not to mention, there are blessings in it. It's like encouraging someone to do good.
Oh, and I donttt wanttttttt a hugggggggg. uffh
grin
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it's about how we percieve muslim and non muslim cultures, from tv and personal experiences. With non muslims, u always see them hugging/kissing on the cheek ect when they meet/depart..so when u in the company of non muslims you tend to do they same......but when with muslim girls u tend to behave in a similar way as u would when u visit a distant relatives house...like if they have a grown daughter ure expected not to make eye contact with her....and in most cases u sit in different rooms......when with a muslim female friend at Uni, it not that extreme....but it's from what we've been taught since we were little...that theres a certain distance u have to keep between ure self and a woman.......the only thing is, we seem to only apply that to muslim women (wives excluded). Also...almost all muslim girls have this thing...called a BROTHER...generally more than 1, almost in all cases theyr'e very over protective....and then theirs honour and respect. Even though ure friendship is totally innocent, they might not see it that way. also we have sisters, and we wouldn't want multiple guys hugging our sisters...like someone said before, it can get u a reputation.. and that can cause big trouble for a muslim girl, so we keep that distance..its not personal but a cultural thing.....its not acceptable in paki culture where there's no problems with non muslim girls as its seen as harmless in western culture..........and yeah, some guys do have motives behind all the hugging........its only natural...but god will kick their asses later on......................
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"Oh, and I donttt wanttttttt a hugggggggg."
YEEEAAAAAHHHH........and i hate ferraris.....wouldn't take 1 if u gave 1 to me....
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I would not hug a guy, nor would I want one from a guy, unless he was my hubby wubby. smile
This thread is really about the act of saying Salam or acknowledging a fellow muslim, not really about hugging. If the muslim guys here want to hug someone, that is their business. They can be told that its not Islamic, but my guess is that they already know that. Again, the issue I am focusing on is the act of acknowledging a fellow muslimah. Something that some of the guys (and even girls) here have issues doing. But then there is this whole thing of its not necessary for a girl to respond but it is for a guy, from what I hear, so I dunno.
I will readily say Salaam or acknowledge you with a smile or something, if I know you are muslim. Just as I say hi and acknowledge non-muslims. Okay, I understand the guys who dont acknowledge the muslims or the non-muslims, but not the ones who go around being all friendly with the non-muslims and wont even nod when passing by a muslim. Like its taboo or something. I see that I am repeating myself. hehe Maybe I just am not getting it why guys do that. Do guys really think that muslim girls dont want to be acknowledged? This is school, and not a mall or something. We see these guys every day pretty much. It’s not like we are total strangers.
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Ashtray ...you are really weired and CREEEEEPY..in a total creepy way
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hubby to samajh aaya, yeh wubby kon hai??? 
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PS: in between the lines it says hug me if u can :D
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We don't hug Muslimah's because we respect them, they usually have respect for their bodies so we would feel guilty getting all touchy feely with them and getting turned on by it.
Kaafir girls on the other hand don't have any concept of Izzat so they let us hug them and a lot of us take advantage of them in more ways than just hugging, which is wrong.
I'm not saying all Muslim girls are angels and all Kaafir girls sluts but I'm just talking about how it is at our college.
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^^ Thats when the glass is half full.
If you wear hijab, Sometime they don’t want to associate with muslim gurls because then they can be viewed as muslims and there is a “muslim-phobia” out there - ppl are afraid to be openly call themselves muslim. Hence, they have low self esteem.
Come to Canada … I will get you two hugs from Attia then you can buy me ice cream :chusni:
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me being a guy would feel ashame saying salam to a muslim girl or even saying hi to a non-muslim girl.....i dont know for some reason.... because if i do say it , they'll think i've crush over them...so y bother..
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I can understand that, but these people pray in the classrooms infront of EVERYONE that is sitting there, so I dont think they have a fear of being labelled.
Anyway, I dont want to say anything more about them than I already have. I already feel guilty for bringing this all up.
I just wanted to understand the behavior. Nobody is perfect, and I do plenty of things I shouldnt, but again, I just wanted to know why they treat muslim girls differently sometimes.
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Maybe American and Canadian Muslims have an inferiority complex but that is not the case in Britain, here Muslim guys make a point of showing their Muslim pride at college, even the ones who do every sin under the sun.
Over here there’s a lot of racial segregation compared to in America, so our people couldn’t care less what a white person thinks of them, it’s almost considered cool to be different.
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Lolz this reminds me of “the sisterly brotheR” found in every single MSA :chusni:
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only thing missing in MSA is muslims 
i too have problems with hijabans. they won’t sit / talk to a fellow muslim guy but they won’t mind sitting and sharing their food / table with a non-muslim. i’ve seen too many hijabans doing this. how sad and bad. 
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I dont know about sharing tables, however I do see how you are pointing out that they will do one thing with non-muslims and not something with muslims, but perhaps muslim guys dont even attempt to sit at the table? I dont know.
My concern is something that I believe is a part of sunnah, and by that I mean greeting a fellow muslim. In my view this is a universally accepted thing, that muslims greet eachother. Therefore I am not asking them to behave unislamically. Either way, I am just focusing on skool instead. smile
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Simple, non muslims are used to this kind of exposure, and guys can greet them in anyway.
If a muslim guy says even a salam to muslim girl, guys think that if you say salam to a sister, she'll think that you're flirting with her or something.
Like i hope you get what im trying to say :p
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^ Ok if its the whole flirting thing, then I think its the grls at fault here for being really ummm whats the word, full of herself 
.. no really, not every guy who says “salaam” is flirting wiht you 