why do men marry at all?

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We do men marry at all :hmmm:

Well some stupid do like sex with commitment … :clown:

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meyn soch samajh ke galiyaan nikalta hoon...I know that every word I say has an impact, bad or good, but if you or anyone of the so called "educated" girls wanna bash men I'll be your greatest enemy...The burden is on men's shoulder, not on the women...is meyn AACHI NIYAT KIA HAI? DAMN ITTTT, TELL ME? AACHI NIYAAT SE POOCHA JAYA JAATA HAI YEH SAWAAL??????????????????????????

AACHI NIYAAT????????????????????????? R U SERIOUS??? IS MEYN AACHI NIYAAT KIYA HAI? WHY DO MEN MARRY AT ALL? AACHI NIYAAT??? WTF???? YOUR VIEW OF THE WORLD HURTS ME!

WHY DO WOMEN MARRY AT ALL???

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numb your reply and reaction itself says a looot abt u!!!!!
if u don't like it don't comment..stop wasting other ppl time.....
kindly read the whole thing and then comment. aap islamic lectures kay leay aapna thread challa lain...OK!

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mamta kay leay mama hain na???/

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meyn soch samajh ke galiyaan nikalta hoon...I know that every word I say has an impact, bad or good, but if you or anyone of the so called "educated" girls wanna bash men I'll be your greatest enemy...The burden is on men's shoulder, not on the women...is meyn AACHI NIYAT KIA HAI? DAMN ITTTT, TELL ME? AACHI NIYAAT SE POOCHA JAYA JAATA HAI YEH SAWAAL??????????????????????????

AACHI NIYAAT????????????????????????? R U SERIOUS??? IS MEYN AACHI NIYAAT KIYA HAI? WHY DO MEN MARRY AT ALL? AACHI NIYAAT??? WTF???? YOUR VIEW OF THE WORLD HURTS ME!

WHY DO WOMEN MARRY AT ALL???

** Jinaab achii neeyat ..well dats because thats what they have seen around..and it hurts..agar her larka wife ko khush rakhta tu phir hum loog complain na kertey.and achi neeyat istarah se k ounki asli neeyat larkon ki burayaan kerna nahi..per society ko aware kerna hai k jaagoo dekhoo kiya horaha hai..and alsoo knwoeldge hi mil rahi hai na..people r sharing tehir bad experiences here...jinki nahi sunnay ..ya aprdhnay woh kuch aur pardhlain...
Fikker not mr...
CANADA MAIN kkaafi LaRKIYAAN AB SHaadi nahi ker rahi ..and woh itni educated hain k soch samajh k ine cheezon ka faisla kertii hain:)

waisay bhii...u need to b kool abt everything..u r so short tempered...najanay agay kaisay zindagi guzarain gaye..!**

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app MR NUMB...FEEL FREE to OPEN THIS THREAD "WHY DO WOMEN MARRY AT ALL"

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Actually, I think he does have a point. I don't particularly know him but what he's saying is fair. I don't know if you girls have intentionally done it, but the title of this thread is just so generalizing against men. I mean, here you are in this thread talking about this specific 'MAN' and how he treats his parents/wife.. then why on earth put up "men" in the title? And then to ask "Who do men marry at all?" - I do understand why that would make a guy angry. Think about it, the way you've worded your posts - it paints all men with the same brush, which is just so not fair. Anyhow, I don't think it's about being short-tempered either, because I'm sure if a guy had put up a thread about all women in general and then mentioned he did it because of ONE specific example, all the girls wouldn't feel so good about it.

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I do agree k jisnay topic banaya ..words kaafi galat choose kiyee..
Likan it was to grab reader's interest shayad..
likan...YES I DO AGREE not all MEN R EVIL ya are BAD!..
PER This topic is concerning those men jo shaadi kertey haina ur biwi k saath acha slook nahi kertey..:)..if u r one of those men jo bura slook ekrtey hain apni wife k saath they need to change:)..coz unki behn k saath kal unka naseeb waisa kerskahta hai ya unki beti k saath:)

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per jo bhii hoo...Noone has de rigth to USE ABUSIVE WOrds here..:)..we all as individuals deserve respect koi galat hai tu miss chipkali ki tarah bol day nicely:)..we will understand..,:)
koi gaali dey ga tu he will lose his repsect humara tu kcuh nahi jayega na..so uss shaks ki hi behtari k liyee kaha :)..plz dont lower yrself in our eyes by abusing here

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It doesn't say anything about me...Humans aren't judged by their tongue, but by their deeds. First judge yourself you girlies, then come and judge a man who has the right to defend himself and his fellow brothers. At least one girl is admitting I'm right and then Babul Ki Gudya comes up with "yes, baat to sahee hai lekin phir bhi..."wtf???

Aapne aapna Islamic Thread challayaa hai, kaafi hai hamare liye...

Stop wasting other ppl time...hilarious! I think you're wastin' your time opening discussion which have no sense, no head, no feet! I'm the only male saying STOP that, because the others fear you, fear your replies, they r pussies or they simply don't care, because they give a damn anyway about you girls...

they say why should I waste my time, I only wanna ride for life, no relationships, only lust!

No offense Babul Ki Gudia but you and the threat, errr, thread starter already have a low position in my eyes...

Babul Ki Gudia, couldn't the thread starter open the topic "men who don't keep their whife happy?" instead of grabbing the readers ANGER??? My ANGER!?

Meyn Zindagi kaise guzarr ra hoon? Well I'm married happily, I have a whife who loves me and I love her...Uske binna zindagi naheen guz regi! She takes care of my parents, talks to them, laughs with them while I'm tryin' to drag her away all the time :D...See I have a happy life...don't worry, meri Zindagi bot aachi tarran se guz regi, don't be so judgemental!!!

have a nice one

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MR> NUMB we have to look at both sides..nahi apsand koi baat tu chup rahain and yes a person is judged by hIS tongue...if NOT then why do u care abt what we have to say abt men.
LISTEN WE CAN USE THE SAME WORDS TO EXPRESS OURSELVES>.please dont lower yrslef like this...aur kitni cheapness baaqi hai?

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oh zabaan doesnt matter den let me use my wordss to express some stuff.
I HOPE N PRAY THAt jisssay apki shaadi ho woh bilkul app jaisi hoo deeds ka patanahi par zaban app jaisi hi ho:).

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OH BTW..just for yr infoo..itnay larkoon ne mujhay kaha hai khud k ..."MEn r jerks....not all but majority of dem"

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I don't know if you're blind, but I already wrote I'm married happily to a great girl, mere jaisi, piyaari, loving, caring, devoted, tongue bi piyaari hai uski mere jaisi, aapko kyun yeh tongue dikaoon?

meyn kyun chup rahoon agar mujhe ek baat passand naheen? Aap chup raho gi or anyone else in this Forum?

Where is the connection between my tongue and what you say about men? meyn gali nikaali, you bash men, where is the difference you ANGEL ON EARTH??
you're tongue is like mine with the difference that I sweared...Oh sorry...

jitni cheapness aap orteyn dikaari ho na or dikao gi, itni male kabhi naheen dikayen ge...Don't call me cheap if you're the same...

P.S.

jo men ketha hai na Men are jerks, he is the biggest jerk...Baat to bataao ek, wo naheen aapki nazron meyn girra when he sweared and said Men are jerks? Naheen, aapko to ek confirmation milli naa...

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lol..jee nahi he justw anted me to b careful with life..so dat i dotn get trapped by these men ...jo sirf use kerna jaantay hain..lol

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numb bhai... i understand that this thread offended u..its understandable, but i dont think the person who opened it meant it in a offensive way

as for ur anger towards 'babul ki gudiya' i think u misunderstand her also... i read ur posts and i feel that u cudv phrased ur words in a more appropriate manner (sorry just my opinion) if u want people to lisen to u then speak nicely..remember our Propher saw spoke in the most beautiful manner even if sumthing displeased him...

so what ur saying mayb correct but if u want people to understand what ur saying then u must express urself in a good way not thru swearing and anger

sorry if i offended u!

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aacha achaa, to yeh hai tareeqa kisiko bataane ka ke "be careful with life"...masha'allah, great! I'm lovin' it!

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you're absolutely right!

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Good point, but sometimes mama's live somewhere else too!

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1) if the guy is not fulfilling his obligations, does it mean his wife should not either?
2) if he was the best son and the inlaws still scolded the bahu then what?

so lets look at all moving parts here independently..whether or not he does what is right, the wife has to do what is right.

regardless of his relationship with his parents, if they are not acting properly, then she needs to take a stand and sort it so their communications are right.

right now it seems like one of those situations, that the compalinign wife has absolved herself of any and all personal responsibility in this matter.

is she going to do anything to fix things.

heck, I would expect a mature and sensible girl in this situation to actually try and not only have good terms with her inlaws, but try to help mend the relationship that the son has with his parents.

But that may be too much to ask.