kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay?
woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain…don’t force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home…
kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
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oh man this is going to be another one of those men are root of evil in our society topic..
whom are you blaming here? the husband? the inlaws? the society? the culture?
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kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay? woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain....don't force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home...... kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
Nahi , dada dadi ko pota poti bhee deena mard ka farz hay.
If your husband is not treating you right , you should ask for help about how to remedy the situation.
Instead of that you have started bashing all married men. There are lots of good husbands out there , in fact there are more good husbands than bad ones.
So go ahead tell us your side of the story first to let us decide who is at fault in your case.
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Another Man bashing thread. I am kinda sick of them now.
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aao maro hamay...
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Btw if girls think that we are so bad than why they marry us in the first place.
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Many men marry because they love the woman they are marrying. They want to make a home. They want to father children with the woman they love. They want to ensure a good life for their family and they want to share this with a spouse that they cherish. Mine is one such. And there are many like this.
Its just pathetic to remain in a marriage where its "me against him" when you can have all of the things I mentioned above OR you can have a good life on your own - yes even as a woman. If you educate yourself and dedicate yourself to the career of your choice, you dont NEED a man. So if you're thinking along the lines that all men are pigs....well, make a life for yourself without one!
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kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay? woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain....don't force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home...... kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
What about Men who donot live with their parents. I donot know your age but it seems like you are seeing men and women through one prespective...It may be your peronal experience thus the perception but do remember that People are not the same so arent the relationships:)
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kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay? woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain....don't force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home...... kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
there is nothing wrong in serving and caring elders
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kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay? woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain....don't force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home...... kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
Love them as you would you own parents, instead of making a big issue out of it.
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Not every one can afford a maid.
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^^^LoL!
Ok, I may not be the best person to comment on this situation since I'm not married. However, one of my pet peeve is women who have got nothing better to do than whining about cooking, cleaning, doing clothes etc etc etc specially when they are living with their in-laws. Reason? Well, would you not do these jobs even if you live only and solely with you husband? how many of those women can afford maid(s) who can clean and cook for them everyday? And, Did you never do these chores when you were living with your own parents? Doing these chores for your parents and siblings is just fine but it's a torture if you have to do the same for your in-laws? Ridiculous!
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kya mard ko biwi is leay chahey kay who ghar main us kay parents ki khidmaat karay? woh aap kay maa baap hain aap khud un ka khyal karain....don't force that poor girl who has left everything for u , to do your job. islam main tou man has to give his wife separate home...... kya biwi ghar main laa kar baytoon kay saray farz poray ho jatey hain?
Men marry for various and very similar reason(s) like any other gal. they are in love with the gal, she is the dream gal and they would like to spend their lives with each other. even arranged marriages do end up in " I am glad I married that gal/guy" but there are always 2 sides of the coin.
It seems very clear that ^^ were hurt or maybe some of your dearest friend got hurt...etc.
the post above me clearly states the obvious reasons, once you can get past the hurdle of "His parents work" and replace it with "our parents" things become sweet as a mango, and No I am not saying the bearing is upon one person here, you cannot clap with one hand. No wonder marriage is Compromise, Communication and Confidence in each other.
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Men have a very difficult task of creating a fine balance between their wife and parents, so if a wife is a little bit mature about things, she can ease the stress on her husband.
I don't think all men are bad husbands or that all women are bad wives. I think we are becoming more intolerant and want more rights than fulfilling responsibilities.
I just think of it this way, if my parents were living with me instead of my in laws, would I react the same way toward them or would I be more tolerant?
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Many men marry because they love the woman they are marrying. They want to make a home. They want to father children with the woman they love. They want to ensure a good life for their family and they want to share this with a spouse that they cherish. Mine is one such. And there are many like this.
Its just pathetic to remain in a marriage where its "me against him" when you can have all of the things I mentioned above OR you can have a good life on your own - yes even as a woman. If you educate yourself and dedicate yourself to the career of your choice, you dont NEED a man. So if you're thinking along the lines that all men are pigs....well, make a life for yourself without one!
"many women have actually....its not about male bashing, its about unrealistic expectations from wife......aap khud tou aapnay parents ko salaam bhi nahain kartay aur biwi say expect kartay hain kay woh gaalian sunti rahay"
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Hmmm, I hear that so much from certain ladies married to my cousins or just generally into our family. The first thought that comes to mind is that would all these wives who are complaining about having to look after their hubby’s parents be PERFECTLY fine with the same concerns if they were coming from THEIR sister-in-laws, as in their brother’s wives, about their parents? If not, desi double standards is all I can say. 
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Another Man bashing thread. I am kinda sick of them now.
don't reply then
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Not every one can afford a maid.
Haha
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"many women have actually....its not about male bashing, its about unrealistic expectations from wife......aap khud tou aapnay parents ko salaam bhi nahain kartay aur biwi say expect kartay hain kay woh gaalian sunti rahay"
lakin aap jawaab mean unn kay sath kabhi sakht lehjaa ikhtiyaar na kijyee ga.ur haan ager zindage mean iss tarah ke badmazge ho jaye too aap ko
bus khamoshi se aláag ghar mean shift ho janaa chahyee,islam aap ko iss ka pora haq deeta hay.