Re: why do men marry at all?
1) if the guy is not fulfilling his obligations, does it mean his wife should not either? 2) if he was the best son and the inlaws still scolded the bahu then what?
so lets look at all moving parts here independently..whether or not he does what is right, the wife has to do what is right.
regardless of his relationship with his parents, if they are not acting properly, then she needs to take a stand and sort it so their communications are right.
right now it seems like one of those situations, that the compalinign wife has absolved herself of any and all personal responsibility in this matter.
is she going to do anything to fix things.
heck, I would expect a mature and sensible girl in this situation to actually try and not only have good terms with her inlaws, but try to help mend the relationship that the son has with his parents.
But that may be too much to ask.
i appreciate your positive out look of the matter. but the thing is parents instead of confronting their son for his behaviour , expect the bahu to take the weidht of all relationships on her shoulder. the son is simply interested in property...how could anyone pull along without complain when there is no appreciation from any corner.... its not easy to be goody two shoes(aka star plus ki tulsi) all the time. bahu has some rights too, who will feel for her?????