Re: Why do men freak out when women say “lets discuss it”?
No … When she cries - I don’t get emotional as well - but find the root cause of her concerns … and when she spends too much it is not out of hatred for me but to cure herself of an ache that I need to find out … If I let my attachments get the better of me then I will be unable to find the root causes and end up either trying to treat symptoms or reacting negatively to them.
But if I find there is some attacking happening then I should forebear it and be patient.