I'm talking about boys who were RAISED HERE, BORN HERE. Going back and seeking Pakistani born girls. It's retarded. Why ever would you do that when there are perfectly INCREDIBLE women here. I have a line of them that I know. Go look online on rishta threads and on rishta websites, and you'll find an endless row of "35 year old Anesthesiologist woman, looking for a college educated man". Do you know how many guys I've gotten messages from on these online networking sites - who are 40 year olds? They don't want to talk to the 30 year olds. They don't want to talk to girls with a good education and a successful career - they're frankly INTIMIDATED by it.
Is it fair to these girls? No. Does it encourage our society to get more educated and do better and more productive things with themselves? No.
Go to f'ing Coney Island, or Devon Street or some of these Pakistani ghettos in the US. They refuse to get with the times.
And it's because most of the ammas these days are un-pars and ignorant jaahil girls picked up from Pakistan who bring over their backwards ideas here and sprinkle our communities with our ideas.
I'll tell you what. A 35 year old Anesthesiologist will do a crapload better job raising more sensible kids than the moronic 21 year old from Karachi barely matric pass who figured she would nab an American guy so she can have her "mansion" in the suburbs of new york.
PCG, these girls aren't trying to steal men! Desi american men are going to them either themsleves or their mothers are. And what pakistani middle class family would reject a US citizen guy?
PCG, these girls aren't trying to steal men! Desi american men are going to them either themsleves or their mothers are. And what pakistani middle class family would reject a US citizen guy?/QUOTE]
Why not stay patriotic and accept a Pakistani born guy who wants to work in Pakistan and do good for its society?
Isn't running after a US Citizenship superficial? Or you guys dont see these things are materialism?
These Men and their MOMS are precisely who I'm angry at. Angry at Pakistani girls for being opportunistic of course, but angry that these same men will try to find rishtas here for their sisters, but go back home and marry girls from Pakistan to be their wives. What nonsense.
according to pcg, all girls abroad are perfect, and all boys carry STD ... but she still wants the STD infected to marry them and not women in pakistan...
thank you pcg ... i'll get the posters printed ASAP.
Oh no, you girls can have those STD infested men. I know a perfect darling who is 42, divorced 3 times and has herpes looking for a shareef girl in her 20's to marry. I can send him over. He has a Green Card.
That's BS. I know a row of girls who are excellently qualified, very sensible women, who are STD free, and never touched a man in their life. These guys want someone under their thumb, that's all. And as long as we women keep giving a truckload of ignoramuses to these guys and as long as they know the mothership is loaded with such girls, the more they're going to go back and find women when they could find perfectly nice girls here.
I can understand if you are a male immigrant, and you spent most of your life in Pakistan and you want to go back and find a wife there. But if you GREW UP HERE, then FRIGGIN HELL, marry one of your brown girlfriends, will ya? Or that's not part of your deen imaan?
I never said all american girls are whores or std infected, but I DO know some. But the point is, some people DO find better match in pakistan. I have seen it happen, and i did hook up one of my fiance's brother with a girl from pakistan because he coudn't find a girl in america even though he was born and raised there. So we have all had experiences with all kinds of people. But if someone is finding a match here, its NOT wrong.
Even if we agree with all the stereotypes being thrwn about, I dont see a problem.
guys who dont want to marry girls in US, they are not in the available candidate pool anyway. If we take your statement that these guys want submissive traditional etc etc from Pakistan, then well, let them, those are not the guys you will go for anyways. so the girls in Pakistan.. its not their fault to say yes to these guys. if the guys want girls from there, and those girls like the guys, then whatever each sides reason may be, their choices are their choices.
Even if we agree with all the stereotypes being thrwn about, I dont see a problem.
guys who dont want to marry girls in US, they are not in the available candidate pool anyway. If we take your statement that these guys want submissive traditional etc etc from Pakistan, then well, let them, those are not the guys you will go for anyways. so the girls in Pakistan.. its not their fault to say yes to these guys. if the guys want girls from there, and those girls like the guys, then whatever each sides reason may be, their choices are their choices.
read his words pcg ... a 3rd part perspective helps! maybe i just am BS-ing ... pffffff
Why not stay patriotic and accept a Pakistani born guy who wants to work in Pakistan and do good for its society?
Isn't running after a US Citizenship superficial? Or you guys dont see these things are materialism?
These Men and their MOMS are precisely who I'm angry at. Angry at Pakistani girls for being opportunistic of course, but angry that these same men will try to find rishtas here for their sisters, but go back home and marry girls from Pakistan to be their wives. What nonsense.
You think these middle class girls have a huge line of rishtas and they can pick and choose? Again they don't have the luxury of being so picky. They do as the parents ask them to or what they think is best. And these days, nothing beats US passport. not even canadian.
Everyone is opportunistic. If a girl gets a rishta from a guy in america, she should say "no thanks, you should go marry a girl back home in america"?
Oh no, you girls can have those STD infested men. I know a perfect darling who is 42, divorced 3 times and has herpes looking for a shareef girl in her 20's to marry. I can send him over. He has a Green Card.
Wait a minute, you just told us that most men who come to pakistan for rishtaa are the bad ones who are STD infested. So why do you care that they do? STD infested men are off your list anyway, right. Good riddance then.
Stop being so freakin two faced.
Funny how we blame the mothers for everything just because she gave birth to us
Anyways Zahra if you don’t want to marry someone from Pak, you don’t have to. There are exceptions everywhere. I personally refuse to marry anyone from outside the UK and I have my own reasons for that. No one can force you. Pray to Allah and stop stereotyping There are people in Pak who don’t want to marry girls from there because they want to live abroad. If guys from here want to marry Paki girls is because some girls here don’t really portray a good image. Just because of a few screwed up girls some of the others have to face the brunt.
Even if we agree with all the stereotypes being thrwn about, I dont see a problem.
guys who dont want to marry girls in US, they are not in the available candidate pool anyway. If we take your statement that these guys want submissive traditional etc etc from Pakistan, then well, let them, those are not the guys you will go for anyways. so the girls in Pakistan.. its not their fault to say yes to these guys. if the guys want girls from there, and those girls like the guys, then whatever each sides reason may be, their choices are their choices.
Wait a minute, you just told us that most men who come to pakistan for rishtaa are the bad ones who are STD infested. So why do you care that they do? STD infested men are off your list anyway, right. Good riddance then.**
Stop being so freakin two faced.**
if all of the abroad guys are going back to Pakistan it does become increasingly hard for the girls from abroad to find someone from abroad as well, and some families have been abroad for thirty odd years, have invited all of there family over here to the point where they have no networking back in Pakistan to find good rishtas for their girls (by good i mean someone who is a trustworthy individual, many of us know how hard that is in our day and society) so these people are kind of screwed both ways, are they not? Hard to find someone from here and Pakistan
if all of the abroad guys are going back to Pakistan it does become increasingly hard for the girls from abroad to find someone from abroad as well, and some families have been abroad for thirty odd years, have invited all of there family over here to the point where they have no networking back in Pakistan to find good rishtas for their girls (by good i mean someone who is a trustworthy individual, many of us know how hard that is in our day and society) so these people are kind of screwed both ways, are they not? Hard to find someone from here and Pakistan
to phir sab ko bulanay say pehlay sochna tha ... already girls are being accused of being opportunistic ....
and if girls abroad dont like guys abroad anyways ... then yeah! what can you do except for holding a danda :ASA: and beating the guys up till they are perfect for them ...
to phir sab ko bulanay say pehlay sochna tha ... already girls are being accused of being opportunistic ....
and if girls abroad dont like guys abroad anyways ... then yeah! what can you do except for holding a danda :ASA: and beating the guys up till they are perfect for them ...
So what? half of the family is suppose to be left behind for networking for future girls? really, are you serious? many people throughout this thread (and forum to be exact) stereotype and generalize a whole lot, there are girls out in abroad who are perfectly fine with the guys out there as well
There are people in Pak who don’t want to marry girls from there because they want to live abroad. If guys from here want to marry Paki girls is because some girls here don’t really portray a good image. Just because of a few screwed up girls some of the others have to face the brunt.
i agree girls are RIGHTLY accused