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no hijab or scarf/ tonnes of makeup/ revealing clothes and a husband who shouldn,t bother much about these stuffs.:halo: …or did i miss something:confused: …
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But they're coming to America without the corrupt mind western desi women have.
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it all depends, it doesn't matter if you living abroad. Coz i have seen Familes in pakistan they do more then a desi girl & i know some ppl who are desi but very strict.
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I thought its other way round and more gals go to Pakistan (or taken to Pakistan) to get married than boys …dont you think so ?
It’s just a compatibility issue. There is nothing wrong with it. If one thinks that his/her marriage will work better with the guy/gal from Pakistan, what’s the problem in it?
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hussain87 you are so naive to make such a general comment. what gives you the assumption that there arent religious girls abroad...just by looking at the demographics of this board. your ability to judge is quite shallow nonetheless...
well good luck bud.
p.s for one I would not like to marry guys from pakistan, since I find the lifestyle in pak quite different from the west. insha'Allah.
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hehe…u love my corrupt mind! 
and i know ur being sarcastic 
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Cuz no one in the US wants to marry them. They aer usually the rejects taht cant find a rishta 
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wth? there are girls who wear decent clothes all over the world not just in pak…not because their husbands tell em 2 but because they choose 2. Open up ur eyes hussain there are decent girls out there in the west.
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more girls observe the PROPER hijab here in the west then the girls in pak ever will. I know first hand that people in pakistan make fun of you for wearing hijab. In pak the girls only wear hijab when they go out…but if non-mehrem guy come to their homes its ok…wth is that all about? that is not what i call proper hijab.
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Then why u ladies care so much about it…
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I dont.
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my apology …i know i made many generalizations …to tell u truth i m very shy guy more then even most girls :o …never had any girlfriend and never talked to a girl for more then 5 min and even that never alone…i just go for appearance of a girl …for example i see a paki girl without hijab then i know she is not my type larki so i would never bother to talk to her:o …it is stupid but i dont, think i will like to have a friend kind of relationship with a girl whos appearance is same as goris in the hope that it may lead to marriage …all my friends r very religious and they r not paki but surinami muslim(south -americans)and believe me though they have been living in a western country they r more religious then most pakistani boys/girls i have seen/met…and that is why i do hate would be strong word but dislike to have pakistani girls and boys around me …simple facts pakis here don,t give a **** about their religion.:halo:…
Ps i never said all girl here r bad but i hate to disapoint u …most girl do not bahave like what a muslim man would be looking in his honai wali wife:o …
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Girls who were raised here are usually hard working, because they had to be - their parents had no servants. Just make sure you know what you are buying when you go off to the shop.
Totally on the money! My husband is from Pakistan as are many of his friends. He and a friend of his married girls from here, while the rest married from back home. I am proud to say that me and the other American desi girl had the cleanest homes. The ones from Pakistan indeed did have the filthiest bathrooms and kitchens. I mean they were rank and repulsive! My desi jhatani is the same--mice in her home, ants everywhere, etc. My cousins in Pakistan that grew up with servants are the laziest brats in the world, while the simpler ones without servants and such exemplary homemakers it brings a tear to your eye. I even see the difference in aunties here. My mother comes from a poor background--but our house was always spotless, the dishes always done. The richer aunties always have greasy stoves and dishes in the sink.
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if you have nvr talked to a girl for then 5 minz…then what give u the right to judge the desi girls in the west? is that what ur mommy told u? rolls eyes
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omg so true.....ive met some ppl from pak (rich ppl) who came here saying "u dont have a cook and you have drive yourself" lol
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well then hussain bro, I applaud you for living in a bubble...because there all sorts of people in the walks of life. who made you the judge of someone's character by sheer appearance? I didnt observe hijab until recently..doesnt mean I didnt have hayaa.
open your mind, it will benefit you even after you get married to your religious wife.
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Hussain, you are making generalizations again. Perhaps you don’t know where to look for the kind of girl you want or are hanging out with the wrong crowd. She’s not going to be the one bringing attention to herself at a party with flashy clothes and flashy behavior. She’ll be the subtle one in the background. You shouldn’t insult an entire community because your tunnel vision allows you to only see the “shodhi” girls.
I think the Pakistanis in America are far more religious than many people I have seen in Pakistan. Go to any Pakistani city and it seems as if people are literally immune to the adhan–no one cares to read salat. Women in Pakistan find it fashionable to wear see through lawn shirts in the summer without any effort in wearing appropriate underwear. Many men have no concept of fidelity to their wives and visit prostitutes. This all happens in Pakistan. But does that mean Pakistanis are the worst people ever? No. Some people are bad, but most are good. Same with American desis here. Some people are bad, but the majority are good.
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no need to talk to her when u can see a muslimah from her appearance don,t u think? .:o …and i want my wife to wear a hijab/ no makeup/ no tight clothes and thas is what i find important esp the hijab part now if u don,t wear hijab then obviously u r not a girl who i would like to marry cuz in my book u r not religous and girl with whom i would like to share my life r almost impossible to find in a western country:halo: …
Ps sometimes i try to provoke a lil bit so don,t get angry at me 
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I don't know about hijab being a marker of modesty nowadays. Three of my cousins are like that: full on hijab, no makeup, baggy clothes, even socks on their feet all the time. One of them had a boyfriend for five years and used to hang out in his bedroom alone with him, the other had a boyfriend for six years and she was intimate with him before they got married, and one was with an Arab guy for a while before he dumped her (and then he announced to his friends that he thought Paki girls were "easy" because of her).
I don't wear hijab, but I never ever had a boyfriend, never attempted to get a boyfriend, never lied to my parents, and had a completely arranged marriage to a desi guy (mashAllah, we've been married for six years now). To me, hijab isn't an indicator of modesty, but just a distraction from bad behavior.
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^OK, my friends and close relatives have told me that only very few girls can resist the kind of temptations you have said above, the only factor that differs is the amount of time it takes for them to crack. But I have to say the Hijab a distraction of bad behavior is very wrong, and u shud retract that, cuz all the modest hijaban girls wud take that as a highly offensive insult.
From my experiences, I've noticed that most desi girls that are born and raised in the west act basically like white girls, and if u didn't know their names you wud assume that their brown non-muslims. I mean they think its okay to flirt with guys and have many guy friends. Thats my experience, I've also noticed some girls who don't associate with guys unless they have to and typically have a innocent demeanor. If I can find a girl like that I would happily marry her even if she didn't wear a hijab if she is in touch with her culture of course.