Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
my husband agrees. everytime i talk to him about anything gossipy...he rolls his eyes and says yeh aurato wali baatein mujse mat karo.......
sometimes i will tell him soemthing really juicy like i saw such and such doing this n that etc and he will listen and say tumhe kya....
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My gender is of no concern to you. When a person is trying to tell someone something, you don't see if the person is a male or female. If what the person is trying to tell someone something has weight that should be accepted regardless of whatever gender/sex they are.
Again all I see is bitterness. Highly tragic that people love to bring up the past and rub it in other peoples faces and not see what is in their present and what they can do for their future. People do change btw. Most of the times for the better.
Sometimes people also regret what they have done in their past. No one is perfect, we all make mistakes.
my husband agrees. everytime i talk to him about anything gossipy...he rolls his eyes and says yeh aurato wali baatein mujse mat karo.......
sometimes i will tell him soemthing really juicy like i saw such and such doing this n that etc and he will listen and say tumhe kya....
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+1
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Wow. Someone's grown a pair!
it’s the multi-quotes. i believe in saying the most with the least words 
From the past you’re supposed to learn something. If you are too dumb and thick-headed to learn anything, then be prepared to ahve your past thrown in your face, covered in mud, again and again and again. Giving Allah ka wasta, saying things like “people make mistakes, lets forget the past” doesn’t do anything. It makes you look pathetic.
hahhahahaha 
oh and these so called women who don't do any job and spend all their day on the computer or talking to other people on the phone then criticize career minded desi women that they don't want families and kids and stuff. again too much time on their hands.
chillllll infertile jee.....tussi lai aayio gori ma'am :p saanoon desiyaan nu sukhi rehn deyo :K337:
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Its not harsh its true!
I summarised it for you in 8 points - and yet you still find it hard to percieve why Desi women or anyone in general gossips?
MEH! turns on her heel, swishes her hair and walks off
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How would someone who does not know a person know if they have learnt anything or not? This is just like judging a book by it's cover. No one is giving Allah ka wasta here and there is no need to as well.
This is an online forum, bitterness from people is virtual and it will end on one click of the mouse pad key. Oh and history has proven that no matter what and no matter how nice you are to someone who hates you, they can never learn to love you. If they form an opinion about you, it sticks in their heads and never changes no matter what you do. So don't talk about being dense and people throwing mud again and again because that is what people do best and love to do.
This is an online forum, bitterness from people is virtual and it will end on one click of the mouse pad key. Oh and history has proven that no matter what and no matter how nice you are to someone who hates you, they can never learn to love you. If they form an opinion about you, it sticks in their heads and never changes no matter what you do. So don't talk about being dense and people throwing mud again and again because that is what people do best and love to do.
True.
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Backbiting, meh. Lying on the other hand... liars get whatever's coming to them.
Its not harsh its true!
I summarised it for you in 8 points - and yet you still find it hard to percieve why Desi women or anyone in general gossips?
MEH! turns on her heel, swishes her hair and walks off
Um I wrote some points which were contradicting some of yours. This is why still in the predicament. You said lack of education but I said educated folks also indulge in gheebat. Got it?
Backbiting, meh. Lying on the other hand... liars get whatever's coming to them.
One hand of dua to Allah and repent with sincerity and lying will be written off. Backbiting and ruining someone's life and reputation, god does not forgive that one easily.
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Well why don't we leave all forgiveness to Allah. Like you said, this is an online forum so shall we stick to the topic at hand and not get into unnecessary stuff here.
Yes backbiting is bad and desi women are guilty of it. Do you think men indulge in it as well? At all?
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nikky don’t derail the thread 
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I was sticking to the topic until your mods came in and started derailing it. Talking about all the unnecessary stuff which I replied to without showing any sort of resentment.
I think men do but not to the extent of desi women.
:k:
Now this is a prejudice against the “desis” 
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They're even swinging! Amazing.
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I’m just doing my job 
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Backbiting n gossiping....eats up the society....i agree....but its not limited to the desi women...come on....i have seen many non desis n men too indulging in it....
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