Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Because, apart from stirring daal, that is all we can do. 
Another problem with desi women. They pass judgement at people without even knowing any dumb thing about them in the first place. Thanks.
I think this is a bigger problem !!!!
back biting is in there blood honestly I cannot find a single women who dont do burai..
If I look I will find few men who mind there own business but women never..
desi women's spend at least 3-4 hours a day watching Indian Dramas or reading stupid stories..
what do u expect ????
To back up a step - no one has a problem with your reminding us that gheebat is a gunnah. No one will deny it and unfortunately, despite our best efforts, most of us partake in it on occasion. We can and should seek to improve ourselves and our aamal. But, reading your comment above - you make it sound as if:
1) Desi women sit on the internet all the time 2) Desi women do nothing but backbite 2) Married women are not productive since they spend all of their time online - they are neglecting their children 3) They only say negative things about others
These are insulting generalizations that desi women will take offense to.
Be careful what you say if and how you say it.
My only concern is the gheebat. Gheebat destroys relationships and it does whatever I wrote down earlier. Spreading false rumours about people is not good. Especially if those rumours means that they are isolated and annihilated by everyone. Those are generalizations to the extreme, but sometimes true.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
whatever helps you sleep at night. 
Why is this stereotype only confined to Desi women? It's quite common in women of other races as well. Yeah, people will talk about their interactions/experiences with others during socialization.........because these interactions and their affects from a huge chunk of our lives.
Yeah it's one thing to gossip/backbite (and there are exceptions to this issue as well)....but generally speaking....people will spend some of their time "talking about others"....whether that "talking" is positive or negative is another issue.
Redvelvet, if you are desi. Would you talk about goris? If you are a desi on a desi forum, would you talk about goris? Obviously it is regarding desi women because it is what I wish to discuss.
I dont give a damn about the "talking" bit. I give a damn about when someone talks false about someone else, they backbite, spread rumours and hurt the person's reputation and self esteem and humiliate the person so much that they are not able to return to being normal. These stupid aunties and gals who are so farigh and do backbiting just love to ruin a person's life.
You stole my line sveety. I was going to use it for you. 
Saraaaaaa!! 
It’s not desi women, it’s women in general.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
sweefey! 
I think this is a bigger problem !!!!
back biting is in there blood honestly I cannot find a single women who dont do burai.. If I look I will find few men who mind there own business but women never..
desi women's spend at least 3-4 hours a day watching Indian Dramas or reading stupid stories.. what do u expect ????
Same here. I completely agree. I am forced to do burrai about desi women because of waht desi women have done to me. Anyway. Men are more forgiving and understanding than women. Women are just meow. Catty.
Oh yeh. All that soap opera influence is sure getting to their heads.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Mods, isn't there a no flooding rule here? I need only serious replies. No bongi replies with smileys please. Thanks.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
NEWS FLASH: Desi men talk too!
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
No, we are cool so far. When we see the floods, we shall stop 'em. Please continue.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Am I discussing desi men here? or even men here? No. I am discussing specifically our fine specimens of a desi women here
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Niksik aunty can you please check post number 47 and 48. it is completely random and off topic. please do something about that.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Cos we can:aisha:
Cos we can
Cos we can 
Na’m, sayin. 
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Infertile jee, I'm OK with them. Post 47 makes a statement that women in general are like that. Post 48 shows a woman picking her nose...possibly while attempting to do gheebat...totally demonstrating what you have been saying all along.
So it's all good my friend. Btw, welcome to the forums, especially Life1. Aap sey mil key khushi hui.
hmmm nahh you’re alright.
you’re going on about desi women this and desi women that…stop generalizing and get your facts straight…all I said was that it’s women in general, how is that offtopic/random?
you’re wrong and stop over hyping like a drama queen. please do something about that…thanks.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Niksik aunty don't need to welcome me or even try to be nice to me. Thanks.
Sweet i.f - that's off topic since i specifically want to discuss desi women here. oh and their problem of being too farigh.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Listen ranting and raving - people gossip. Be they women, men - desi, goree, kalaah, and every other colour of the rainbow.
Why do they do it?
1) nothing better to do with their time
2) it gives them a emotional buzz and a ONE UP on the other person
3) It helps them socialise and "bond" with others
4) Its current topic and hot news - and this is what life is all about in a close net community - sadly enough (unless you isolate yourself on a mountain top somewhere)
5) Poor understanding and lack of Horizons
6) Jayaal (lack of education)
7) No empathy
8) Too much traditional - boxed in values
Above are the reasons why people gossip/back bite. Regardless of gender, creed or class.
As for if you have some sort of problem with Desi women. Or women in general. I suggest you take that up with your local psychiatrist.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Infertile, I was just doing my job 
Btw, pls let the mods do their job. You stick to your topic. Thanks.