By posting on this forum you're clearly demonstrating how masroof you are...
Another problem with desi women. They pass judgement at people without even knowing any dumb thing about them in the first place. Thanks.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
I assume you are way younger than me that's why you call me aunty, so bachchay, lemme tell ya...I'm not really sure what the purpose of your thread is...is it to announce that desi women are backbiters or is it to warn desi women that if they don't stop backbiting they'll burn in hellfire? Pls clarify.
And btw, how are you OK in passing judgement about desi women? Huh?
iām going to gheebat bout infertile now 
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
I think that's an unfair generalization and frankly one that's been said way too many times. Everyone, regardless of their gender, age, and race talks about others. Yes, some talk more than others and every individual is different.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
It has nothing to do with hell fire. I am not some preacher sent from god to save women from hell fire. This is to announce that desi women are backbiters and are farigh women who have nothing better to do than to talk bad about people, they have this innate quality that if they talk bad about someone, spread rumours, talk gossip, it will bring them happiness. They love to throw dirt at people and then they love to see them get humiliated. If they did anything productive, they won't have the time to do all that.
So, desi women, stop wasting time online and stuff. Go out and do something productive instead.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Desi...unkil aunty..... unlil aunty desi
DESI uncle aunty desi desi DeSi De$!
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DESI desi.........
WHY THE HELL DO I even step in life one???
Another problem with desi women. They pass judgement at people without even knowing any dumb thing about them in the first place. Thanks.
And you've no idea about all desi women either - yet it didn't stop you from making sweeping generalizations and passing judgement about them.
Kisi aur pai tanqeed karney se pehlay, hummay apnay khud ki khaamion ko duroost karna chahiyay.
It has nothing to do with hell fire. I am not some preacher sent from god to save women from hell fire. This is to announce that desi women are backbiters and are farigh women who have nothing better to do than to talk bad about people, they have this innate quality that if they talk bad about someone, spread rumours, talk gossip, it will bring them happiness. They love to throw dirt at people and then they love to see them get humiliated. If they did anything productive, they won't have the time to do all that.
So, desi women, stop wasting time online and stuff. Go out and do something productive instead.
Aap bhi jayiyay aur samosey kahiyay :@:
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Sorry canadiandesigirl. I am not talking from generalization. I am talking from experience. SOLID baap re baap.
And you've no idea about all desi women either - yet it didn't stop you from making sweeping generalizations and passing judgement about them.
Kisi aur pai tanqeed karney se pehlay, hummay apnay khud ki khaamion ko duroost karna chahiyay.
Actually I do.
As for the tanqeed business, maine pehle bhi kaha mai koyi farishta nahi hoon aur na hi mai koyi peghambar hoon jo alah ne mujhe bheja hai zameen par aurtoon ko bachane ke lye. mera kaam tha ek issue ko agey lana aur thread kholna jo maine kardeya. wasie bhi sehrysh sahiba, yeh ek online forum hai, aur yahan pe tu koyi bhi cheez count nahi hoti na? don't take it to the heart luv.
mujhe apni khamiyan pata hai, aur tumhe tumhari. i'll take care of mine, and u can take care of urs.
It has nothing to do with hell fire. I am not some preacher sent from god to save women from hell fire. This is to announce that desi women are backbiters and are farigh women who have nothing better to do than to talk bad about people, they have this innate quality that if they talk bad about someone, spread rumours, talk gossip, it will bring them happiness. They love to throw dirt at people and then they love to see them get humiliated. If they did anything productive, they won't have the time to do all that.
So, desi women, stop wasting time online and stuff. Go out and do something productive instead.
Infertile, that's such a generalisation. Not all women are like that. I'm assuming you're male, are your mum/sisters/female cousins/auntys/other female relatives like this?
Granted, there are people who post some silly things in these forums but for the most part the posters on here are genuine and don't display the bad qualities you have mentioned. Browse the recipes portal, you could find some great recipes to try out on there, do something productive with your time :)
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Infertitle - total crap. Either you are gossip monger or you are not. It has nothing to do with being desi or productive.
My secretary (who is not desi BTW) - one of the most productive women in the company talks non stop about everybody's business. Who is getting promoted, demoted, had child, got plugs, got a transplant, whose's child ODed. Very very productive -- very very entertianing at the same time.
another people I have seen that talk alot about other people are nurses. But they still take care of their patients...
Aap bhi jayiyay aur samosey kahiyay :@:
samosay mere health ke lye burre hain. aunty give me something healthy instead.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Gee Infertile, I thought you were leaving GS? ;)
its not our faults that some career--oh sorry SAHM--has dragged u into some mess. ;)
Infertile, that's such a generalisation. Not all women are like that. I'm assuming you're male, are your mum/sisters/female cousins/auntys/other female relatives like this?
Granted, there are people who post some silly things in these forums but for the most part the posters on here are genuine and don't display the bad qualities you have mentioned. Browse the recipes portal, you could find some great recipes to try out on there, do something productive with your time :)
Oh love if only i can tell you the real faces of the some of the women on here. They are so two faced. From the outside they seem nice but only when something happens do their true colours show. Anyway this was and has nothing to do with the forums. I am just talking about desi women wasting their time in general. Especially those that are married. Backbiting and gossiping comes under the wasting time.
Gee Infertile, I thought you were leaving GS? ;)
its not our faults that some career--oh sorry SAHM--has dragged u into some mess. ;)
Sara my favourite person on the whole forum, how are you mate? Jee I thought I was talking about desi women and aunties backbiting and stuff. Never said anything about me. ;)
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
better a gossip than a liar. :)
Desi women har waqt net pe bethi rehtein hain ya aurton se burayi kerne bethi rehtein hain.
Can desi women do something other than backbiting? Ya dosro mai keeray nikalne ke ilawa bhi kuch kaam waam ata hai ya nahi?
they should do sthg productive like join the gym n loose weight or educate thrmselves, get a job or sthg.
One word describes desi women best, MEOW. Kuttay billiyon ki tarah logon se larne lagti hai. Par kyon?
How can a married woman spend so much time online? Especially if they have kids? Bacho ki dekh baal nahi karni? Aurtoon ko sirf ek kaam ata hai, and that is talk bad about others. That's it.
To back up a step - no one has a problem with your reminding us that gheebat is a gunnah. No one will deny it and unfortunately, despite our best efforts, most of us partake in it on occasion. We can and should seek to improve ourselves and our aamal. But, reading your comment above - you make it sound as if:
1) Desi women sit on the internet all the time
2) Desi women do nothing but backbite
2) Married women are not productive since they spend all of their time online - they are neglecting their children
3) They only say negative things about others
These are insulting generalizations that desi women will take offense to.
Be careful what you say if and how you say it.
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Au contraire luv. Whatever makes you happy and gives you a smile on your face, is fine with me. I personally like liars. They are better than gossip mongers and backbiters! :)
Re: Why do desi women spend half their lifetime talking about others?
Why is this stereotype only confined to Desi women? It's quite common in women of other races as well. Yeah, people will talk about their interactions/experiences with others during socialization.........because these interactions and their affects from a huge chunk of our lives.
Yeah it's one thing to gossip/backbite (and there are exceptions to this issue as well)....but generally speaking....people will spend some of their time "talking about others"....whether that "talking" is positive or negative is another issue.