I am sorry to say but our desi girls get emotionally attached too soon. If a relationship passes 2 dates then for them, its a sign of long term commitment or the guy was just using them. I say that either go back to arranged format of marriage, or if you want to find your own partner then you have to be emotionally stronger than that. You are not open enough for a guy to understand in 2 dates. you (desi girls) have layers upon layers and its not easy for any guy to understand you. Give him sometime and even then be ready for yes or no.
Why do they disappear without talking? Simple answer. Why do you disappear on a car salesman or a gym staff who was pressurizing you to make the long term deal, right there and then?
Lesson to be learned for girls out there. Never talk to you family unless guy has talked to his. This will save you from being deer caught in headlights …
I was gonna say something similar to what TLK wrote … Is it too much to ask the lady folk to become emotionally attached after marriage? If there is physical contact before marriage or too much informal interaction too that is an act of putting oneself at risk of heart break …
You have made the above comment twice. If someone has to show off/brag about being Allah-fearing…then are they really that God-fearing and that great of a Muslim? I see it more as a negation. Something to consider. I think that a person who sincerely fears Allah would be more humble.
How about after a year, when the guy keeps bragging that he is Allah-fearing & promises marriage & stuff! 
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