Re: Why did he do this?
Rather than praying to God to punish him, let go of your negative energy. Pray for God to help you move on, and then take practical steps to do that. negative energy just leads to more negativity. Positive steps will help you in the long run, with all aspects of your life. I’m not saying it’s easy, but it will help with your overall being.
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^So true..
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Okay having enough girls cry on my shoulder over the past few years. I am gonna tell you this. Its gonna get a lot worse before it gets better. Right now you are questioning him, then you will question yourself, then you will wonder what was wrong with you and your family, was it something you said or did.
At the end of what a 2 month process of crying, sobbing and destroying stuff you will be all talked out and just sit there thinking you are a fool for thinking about him all this time when he is not. Girls don't get over **** like men. We - men - generally decide whats on or off and then move forward like cold hearted *******s. Bury it deep down and forget about it. Kinda like a Kraken.
You just need to vent to your sister, friends, family friends, GS. However. Just vent and vent and more ventage.
You will be fine in 2 months. If you aren't......well you got issues.
Re: Why did he do this?
Rather than praying to God to punish him, let go of your negative energy. Pray for God to help you move on, and then take practical steps to do that. negative energy just leads to more negativity. Positive steps will help you in the long run, with all aspects of your life. I'm not saying it's easy, but it will help with your overall being.
Yes, but it hurts me to imagine him living a normal, peaceful life while i am suffering here because of him :(
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2 months is a lot of time! I want to get over it in a maximum of 2 days :hinna:
Re: A question for men!
If you don't know how we feel or what we think or what our emotions are, you really aren't that important in our lives.Take the hint.
And yes I have. And nope don't feel guilty. It needed to be done. It was either my friend or his ex. Ball dropped in my friends court.
Edit: I was guilty for the way i treated her, i was a completely asshole. However I am fine with the decision made. However the actions taken were unnecessary and unjustified.
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Genders are stereo-typically brought up to deal with emotions differently. So do what is comfortable. Don't do what is quickest. Do what feels right. If you wanna cry. Cry. If you wanna lie in bed all day by all means do so. But for the love of god shower. Funky smelling people are bad. :p
You will get over it. That is not a concern. You just want to make sure you are over him properly. Then I suggest you slash his tires. :D
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Wasn’t it cruel to her!? 
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Yes yes, all men are evil and all women are angels who empathize and never argue due to stubbornness. That's why all mil/dil/sil get on so swimmingly.
Generalization, thy name is life1
Yeah, yeah think whatever you like. I have reasons to say what I have. :P
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Oh Absolutely. I was a down right *******. I did apologize twice to her. Seems we are cool. But lets just say I wasn't the smartest cookie when it comes to dealing with women. Still am not.
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Oh Absolutely. I was a down right *******. I did apologize twice to her. Seems we are cool. But lets just say I wasn't the smartest cookie when it comes to dealing with women. Still am not.
You apologized to her after sometimes or right away?
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Some time. The situation was bloody complicated. A few months to a year later. It helped a great deal that she was married and with a kid. Saved my ass. I actually apologized once she got married.
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Have you ever disappeared on someone without officially ending things with her
Heck yes.
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errm ,what?
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^ :k: This.
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But what makes me wonder is that, why would a guy have to disappear, instead of talking things to her & reaching to an end officially?
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talking things to her & reaching to an end officially?
the bits n red and blue are mutually exclusive.....you should realise that by now.
Re: Why did he do this?
Genders are stereo-typically brought up to deal with emotions differently. So do what is comfortable. Don't do what is quickest. Do what feels right. If you wanna cry. Cry. If you wanna lie in bed all day by all means do so. But for the love of god shower. Funky smelling people are bad. :p
You will get over it. That is not a concern. You just want to make sure you are over him properly. Then I suggest you slash his tires. :D
Hmmm...
Re: Why did he do this?
Broken,
I think you need to see things differently.
You are wasting time on him when he doesn't care about you. A man who does not care for you does not deserve your tears or attention. Yet you are flattering his ego and making him out to be the catch of a lifetime by sobbing over him, crying, etc.
If you really want to get over him, you need to see him for what he is.
Also, its not necessary that people do things according to your plan and expectations all the time. He didn't want to have an official talk (what does that even look like?) so he didn't. Kya karlogi uska tum? Kuch nahin.
Go out, see your friends, go shopping, get some pampering done, watch a movie, read a book, cook some food for tonight's iftaar, bake a cake, learn how to sew...find a project to divert your attention and do it now.
Re: Why did he do this?
Broken,
I think you need to see things differently.
You are wasting time on him when he doesn't care about you. A man who does not care for you does not deserve your tears or attention. Yet you are flattering his ego and making him out to be the catch of a lifetime by sobbing over him, crying, etc.
If you really want to get over him, you need to see him for what he is.
Also, its not necessary that people do things according to your plan and expectations all the time. He didn't want to have an official talk (what does that even look like?) so he didn't. *Kya karlogi uska tum? Kuch nahin. *
Go out, see your friends, go shopping, get some pampering done, watch a movie, read a book, cook some food for tonight's iftaar, bake a cake, learn how to sew...find a project to divert your attention and do it now.
even if her and his family were in official talk phase and guy did not want to proceed, she could not do anything then too.