Ok, as I was talking about this guy in my previous thread. Now when i think of him, I get surprised. He used to be a guy who used to brag of himself as being Allah-fearing, yet I wonder how could an Allah-fearing person do this! Just as when i talked to dad about him & as soon as he came to know about it, he vanished and interestingly, he wouldn’t answer my phone calls & has blocked my sms messages & even deleted his email address so that i wouldn’t be able to reach him. Can an Allah-fearing do this? Now it hurts me to know that i had trusted him :(. I feel so bad. How to feel better? :(. I seriously wish Allah should punish him for this. Will he get punished?
Why didn’t he just talk it out & end things rather than disappearing this way?
It's getting harder day by day because you let it. I understand you feel sad and heartbroken, but getting stuck on him is not going to help. You might think that you'll feel better once you get some answers, but that seems so very unlikely now that he has blocked you and ended all contact.
You can't keep giving him control and keep investing feelings into a relationship that has already ended. As everyone has told you: get distracted, pray for yourself and try to move forward. There is nothing anyone (even this guy) can de to make you feel better, it has to e you that decides to make the change and move your life forward.
It's getting harder day by day because you let it. I understand you feel sad and heartbroken, but getting stuck on him is not going to help. You might think that you'll feel better once you get some answers, but that seems so very unlikely now that he has blocked you and ended all contact.
You can't keep giving him control and keep investing feelings into a relationship that has already ended. As everyone has told you: get distracted, pray for yourself and try to move forward. There is nothing anyone (even this guy) can de to make you feel better, it has to e you that decides to make the change and move your life forward.
But the reason it hurts so much is that, he decided to get disappeared instead of having a talk & ending things officially :(. How could he do this? :(
-does it matter why? Is there any reason good enough? Remember that he's done the disappearing thing before, without any GOOD reason
-what if you two never have contact again and you never get any answer? Seems likeley now that he's made sure you had no way of contacting him and he's not contacting you How long will you let him hurt you?
I know it hurts, but YOU are the only one that can work on making YOU feel better. Focus on dua and find other distractions
Guys are so inclined to little emotional attachment. It’s so easy for them to detach themselves from situations, without having regard for how the other person feels. Stubbornness and a lack of empathy is so normal.
Why is this the case? Why are men able to let go so easily?
They are less emotional. Women form stronger monogamous bonds because of their connection/bond with men, whereas men have more of a polygamist mindset and a philosophy of there being a lot of fish in the sea. Sometimes they don't want to deal with a situation (because of their unease of being in conflict) so they find a way to detach and move on with ease.
True. If a guy truly liked/saw a future with a girl, he would chase her no matter what the situation was. But when there is even a remote lack of interest, it can make detachment so easy.
and interestingly, he wouldn’t answer my phone calls & has blocked my sms messages & even deleted his email address so that i wouldn’t be able to reach him. Can an Allah-fearing do this? Now it hurts me to know that i had trusted him :(. I feel so bad. How to feel better? :(. I seriously wish Allah should punish him for this. Will he get punished? 
If you have, do you guys ever feel guilty about it?