UZ --- I happen to be a Pakistani girl in the west. I've never felt that we were running out of decent men. Quite the opposite really. Maybe it has to do with different types of people settling in different regions? I don't know. I've never felt that this was a crisis.
so true! i don't what you girls are complaining for. There are sooo many educated, decent eligible bachelors out here in the West and they are only looking for girls from here to settle down.
We are never out o decent men but the problem is whom they wanna marry, where I live lot of boys are getting married here but there are places like NY or some big cities where they still have problems because one of my cousin and one of my friend’s friend mom is tired of finding rishtas for her daughters.And they are very nice mashallah se girls they wear hijaab, they are graduates and very sensible. But they don’t have good rishtaas. But ALLAH still has good plans for them.
Yeah I am still wondering Icono 
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you can't blame the guys in the West if someone's daughter isn't getting married. Maybe their daughter is boring or not in touch with what's going on in the world or maybe guys don't find her attractive, or maybe there is no click!
there are sooooo many guys in NY that are ready to get married and looking for a girl who has been raised here. Just coz the girls in the West aren't getting married doesn't mean it's the guys that are at fault!
Well not everyone is a winner girls who live here first of all its hard for them to get settled in desi culture and move to Pakistan its totally upside down so they get bashed and mocked and get divorced thats what I saw usually happens. So its not a win win game, seriously I am strictly against those boys who think that girls living abroad are bad they have a slightly different set of mind but boys who are raised here can easily understand that, instead of boys living in Pakistan.
who said they go there? of the girls that married a guy from pak, i only know one that settled in pak and that was her choice.
and please be aware that i said some of them choose it because they get a better deal than they would have here (in the UK). i've said it before, some girls would end up with a pakistani chav if they got their equivalent in the UK. also, here they are plenty of girls are quite desi (like my cousin who went to live there), so it's not a problem.
Curse you discriminating Pakistani men. You watch. When your daughters grow older, no one is gonna want to marry them, and I hope they bring the ugliest red-haired gora home.
I hope he's annoying as hell.
this curse will come to you back insha'allah! seeing your attitude and I hate Pakistani/Desi Men I think you already have been crused by Allah himself because all you say and see is hatred. I don't know how much you believe in Allah, but I guarantee you he has cursed you. His curse for you is blindness.
I totally agree with autmone77, I am born and brought up in the UK and I am astonished to see the chaliki the girls from pakistan have, if they dont get their way they run to the social workers, they have babies in bundles to claim tax credits.
they are so used to their lazy lives in pakistan and can't get off their back sides to do their own house work.
I happened to turn on on geo tv ones and watched a drama and also on star plus i was shocked what they are like, and i know they are showing the truth of what happens in india and pak. and they were like highly addictive but i thought no way i am not watching this garbage. and i wouldnt want any sister or mother watching it, it is a bad example to turn good ppl bad.
they secretly send all their husbands earnings to pakistan when they can and demand holidays to pak, they may asell just stay there!
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maybe the other reason they marry from pakistan is bcoz they are looking for virgins, and think everyone in the west has ''done it'' like themselves. NOT TRUE
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i dont think its right for us to say oh paki girls r lazy not every1 is the same just as u dont like the fact there r sterotypes regardin girls born aboard
this curse will come to you back insha'allah! seeing your attitude and I hate Pakistani/Desi Men I think you already have been crused by Allah himself because all you say and see is hatred. I don't know how much you believe in Allah, but I guarantee you he has cursed you. His curse for you is blindness.
how do u know Allah has cursed her?
this curse will come to you back insha'allah! seeing your attitude and I hate Pakistani/Desi Men I think you already have been crused by Allah himself because all you say and see is hatred. I don't know how much you believe in Allah, but I guarantee you he has cursed you. His curse for you is blindness.
Oh jigger, hath hola!
Girls back home don't have hyper-inflated egos.
Who said?
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There is no end to "generalisation" on this thread. Wake up people!!
but you are in favour of pakistani men from back home…arn’t you the one who said in the other thread that you married a very nice eligible pakistani guy from back home who came here to study? if you are open to the idea of marrying a dude from back home, why have a problem with the guys if they want to do the same? at the end of the day we all do what suits us best, our needs, so bashing others for it doesn’t make sense.
referring to this post of urs
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/379773-have-you-noticed-2.html#post7038609
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Personally i am against the notion of Importing husbands or in my case Wife, I think Jidhar key ho wahin kee laao cuz its easier transition and adjustment as well. Plus the way i am and the way i live it will be kinda tough for a girl from backhome to adjust or understand. So for its a total :nono:
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As long as you marry someone who you're happy and compatible with, does it matter if she's from Pakistan, India, Malaysia, London or Africa?
This is why marriages are made out to be more complicated than they should be.
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Why do boys marry at all?
I concur to a certain extent. It depends on the person if they consider him or herself to be capable to accept a potential from a different cultural background or not, in layman terms, to each his own. But thinking a potential from the same background will not lead to adjustment efforts being made also sounds a little untrue. she is absolutely new in the husband’s house hence she definitely will have to adapt and make adjustments accordingly in the new house, regardless if he or she is from a different background or not. However, how quickly one manages to adapt and adjust is dependent on the mental approach of the adjuster itself. the more the efforts the sooner he or she will adapt. more sooner if both individuals are making efforts simultaneously compared to one sided efforts.
i totally agree with you, i guess ppl are more worried about trivial issues then the marriage itself :k:
D6C, yaar unfortunately it is a desi requirement 
GJ for once i do agree with your post :k:
how do u know Allah has cursed her?
look at the way she approaches men and pakistani men in general! It's not hard to see that. All I say is complaint, complaint, complaint. FIR darj karwadeyn marad ki saat ke khilaaf PyariCgudia jee.
look at the way she approaches men and pakistani men in general! It's not hard to see that. All I say is complaint, complaint, complaint. FIR darj karwadeyn marad ki saat ke khilaaf PyariCgudia jee.
Did you AstagfarAllah, get a Wahi? Did Allah(SWT) come down and tell you she was cursed?