Mirch
November 30, 2011, 4:23pm
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nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
:mirch:
You are one of the most level headed Life 1 posters. I have admired you many a time for not getting ticked off by snide comments by others , what happened this time ?
STA
November 30, 2011, 4:27pm
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STA:
i observed, many time specially your thread scrutinized and lashed back with fun.
i m :naraz: with other guppa/guppan.
ZareenKhan:
I LIKE that! :eek: :k:
@nadz123 i find you one of the coolest member here. but enough is enough. it is time to do some tuning :ASA:
Re: Why are people so insensitive…
nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
I LIKE that! :k:
Jolie
November 30, 2011, 4:30pm
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nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans **answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school **or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
Now you’re stretching it and making yourself look incredibly silly. Are you honestly equating your clustermuck at some online forum with exam question that all of us here are obliged to answer? Perhaps its you who need to show us first that you went to school by posting a ‘question’ that makes some sense to begin…the responses you get on these forums are as good as the things you write.
Mirch
November 30, 2011, 4:33pm
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:mirch:
Dheeruj rakh-e-a mahrani.
Jolie
November 30, 2011, 4:35pm
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^ samjh nahi aayi Mirch bhai…
STA
November 30, 2011, 4:36pm
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he means to say that you(queen) should keep light hand on nadz123.
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ok. It took me few days but I have now figured out who is who in this problem of Nadzzz. So whats the problem once again?
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I’m sure he’s not advocating harrassment.
Ever think translation isn’t one of your strengths buddy?
queer
November 30, 2011, 5:28pm
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yeh what mirch really said in hindi is, jolie ji you need to shower asap.
nadz123
November 30, 2011, 6:11pm
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your right. you are not obliged to answer.
So why do you.
Jolie
November 30, 2011, 6:31pm
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What, did I really “answer” your question?
Cool. I didn’t know. I guess you can be happy now.
Muzna
November 30, 2011, 8:54pm
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I’m sure nadz means why did you contribute to/participate in the thread…not answer her question.
its one thing to go on the offensive when you’re trying to prove a point and convince someone of something…its entirely another thing when you’re just being plain old nasty.
and this is what Mirch was trying to say too…go easy on her.
we have all sorts of people around us…each with different needs. if we are not going to accommodate those needs then why should we expect that our needs will be tolerated at some point?
Jolie
November 30, 2011, 9:07pm
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She’s posted hundreds of normal to pretty controversial threads here, and she’s received pages and pages full advice and answers, even in cases where she was nowhere to be seen after the initial post. I don’t understand why she should act all offended over an highly confused question, I’m sure just like before, people would’ve bothered answering her ‘question’ (or whatever it was) if it made some sense to begin with.
As far as I’m concerned, her OP seemed pretty trollish, my response, you can say was as nonsensical as her initial post. Besides I thought this thread was ‘dead’, I had no idea she would return with vengeance.
Muzna
November 30, 2011, 9:23pm
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meh…she is who she is and the majority of us have accepted the way her mind works.
like a kid sister that needs reassurance every so often.
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Some people need reassurance at the minor of things too. One gets annoyed, ticked off and mad but at the end of the day you like them and want to help them.
Nadz is one of those ppl
Re: Why are people so insensitive…
Really? I’m so bad at recognising sarcasm if that is what this is
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I want a family tree.
And these cousins must be labeled (cousin A, B, C, D) along with relationship to YOU directly before I can understand this. Four cousins are in this post. FOUR. And then you talk about some cousin’s inlaws. WHICH cousin bhai?
i found this rude, but lets see what you think.
my cousins lil dewar **(OK - So this ISNT YOUR cousin…this devar dude??) is getting married in feb/march in pakistan, the dewar is her cousin (COUSIN OF YOUR COUSIN?).**my cousins sister (Isnt your cousin’s sister also your cousin?) also married her cousin(her cousin HOW) who also lives in pak. now the cousins sister (ISNT THIS YOUR COUSIN TOO?) is getting divorced- the guy and his family are all xxxxxxxx, and they also happen to be family.
so anyway, my cousins inlaws**(WHICH COUSIN’s INLAWS???), expecting someone to come from my cousins family ( )**here in uk, ( same as my inlaws epxect that), yet shouldnt they think that my cousins sister is getin divorced and cosins parents are so devastated and heartbroken, yet all the inalws thinking about is whose coming to their sons wedding…they dnt actually know shes getting div, BUT they know how bad shes been treated and most likely wont ever reconcilate, so they know the situation. is it rude of them to still expect parents of the girl to come to their wedding, because they are looking at it from their point of view that my cusins mum is the dewars phupo…
Your narration needs work. I want to make that confused question mark smilie which you made.
STA
December 1, 2011, 2:27am
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I want a family tree.
And these cousins must be labeled (cousin A, B, C, D) along with relationship to YOU directly before I can understand this. Four cousins are in this post. FOUR. And then you talk about some cousin’s inlaws. WHICH cousin bhai?
Your narration needs work. I want to make that confused question mark smilie which you made.
i will recommend her to take US undergraduate level English 1, and English 2.
Lusi
December 1, 2011, 3:38am
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Nadz, did you tell parents your SIL’s wedding dates? I hope you were able to solve that issue.