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Not to be rude but I seriously understood just one word from the whole thread. Insensitive.
And I just feel one word. Confused.
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They dont even know that their daughter is getting divorced. So I dont think they are to blame for expecting someone to come over for the wedding. I say that since sooner or later they are going to find out about the wedding, why not just tell them why your cousin's parents wont be able to attend?
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answer the question please.
and yes we will stop marying our family members. now that uve pointed it out. thanks.r
Admit it, are you a troll and just messing with all of us... or are you really this thick?
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sarcasm.
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not just the post i quoted…but pretty much every single thing you ever post, all your issues and stuff.
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You guys have a lot of intermarriages and I think that is the biggest problem here.
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You guys have a lot of intermarriages and I think that is the biggest problem here.
The problem here is that people actually marry in that family.
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i dont know.......but may be the respective families aren't all that bothered??? its only.....you-know-who...
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Whoa. That is one hell of a clustermuck
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Okay,
So YOUR cousins (lets call her cousin 1) dewar is getting married in Pak. Teek.
That dewar is her cousin (dewars father and cousins mum are siblings). So your cousins cousin. Teek.
Your cousins sister (also your cousin (obv) let's call her cousin2) is getting divorced. Teek.
Now, cousin 1s inlaws want cousin 1s parents to come to the wedding even though their daughter is getting divorced.
And that's because the dewar is their nephew. Okay.
Right. I understand (finally).
Until the parents of the groom don't know for sure what is going on, they have every right to* expect* them to come to the wedding. Do the have to? No. Will that upset them? Probably. It's their sons wedding, they want everyone to be shamal in their kushi - that's normal. I'm sure once the whole situation is explained to them, they wouldn't have a problem with them not attending.
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Whoa. That is one hell of a clustermuck
My thoughts exactly.
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Who's the son marrying anyway, another cousin?
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So your phupo is your dewar's cousin & your cousin's in laws are your phupo's kids's dewar's ..... WHAT??? pulling her hair
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I am telling you nadz...all these cousins that keep marrying cousins...I bet you all look alike too.
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....And most these cousin partners are Pakistani imports. How surprising, eh?
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firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time.....
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
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you have a good point esp the highlighted ones
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time.....
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
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i observed, many time specially your thread scrutinized and lashed back with fun.
i m 
with other guppa/guppan.
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:k: