Hadeel
November 28, 2011, 5:52pm
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Not to be rude but I seriously understood just one word from the whole thread. Insensitive.
And I just feel one word. Confused.
Silaaj
November 28, 2011, 6:03pm
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They dont even know that their daughter is getting divorced. So I dont think they are to blame for expecting someone to come over for the wedding. I say that since sooner or later they are going to find out about the wedding, why not just tell them why your cousin’s parents wont be able to attend?
Sara516
November 28, 2011, 7:43pm
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Admit it, are you a troll and just messing with all of us… or are you really this thick?
nadz123
November 28, 2011, 10:15pm
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sarcasm.
Sara516
November 28, 2011, 11:09pm
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sarcasm.
not just the post i quoted…but pretty much every single thing you ever post, all your issues and stuff.
Reha
November 29, 2011, 12:11am
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You guys have a lot of intermarriages and I think that is the biggest problem here.
CM
November 29, 2011, 8:37am
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The problem here is that people actually marry in that family.
NomiCA
November 29, 2011, 8:41am
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i dont know…but may be the respective families aren’t all that bothered??? its only…you-know-who…
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i found this rude, but lets see what you think.
my cousins lil dewar is getting married in feb/march in pakistan, the dewar is her cousin. my cousins sister also married her cousin who also lives in pak. now the cousins sister is getting divorced- the guy and his family are all xxxxxxxx, and they also happen to be family.
so anyway, my cousins inlaws, expecting someone to come from my cousins family here in uk, ( same as my inlaws epxect that), yet shouldnt they think that my cousins sister is getin divorced and cosins parents are so devastated and heartbroken, yet all the inalws thinking about is whose coming to their sons wedding…they dnt actually know shes getting div, BUT they know how bad shes been treated and most likely wont ever reconcilate, so they know the situation. is it rude of them to still expect parents of the girl to come to their wedding, because they are looking at it from their point of view that my cusins mum is the dewars phupo…
Whoa. That is one hell of a clustermuck
Re: Why are people so insensitive…
Okay,
So YOUR cousins (lets call her cousin 1) dewar is getting married in Pak. Teek.
That dewar is her cousin (dewars father and cousins mum are siblings). So your cousins cousin. Teek.
Your cousins sister (also your cousin (obv) let’s call her cousin2) is getting divorced. Teek.
Now, cousin 1s inlaws want cousin 1s parents to come to the wedding even though their daughter is getting divorced.
And that’s because the dewar is their nephew. Okay.
Right. I understand (finally).
Until the parents of the groom don’t know for sure what is going on, they have every right to* expect* them to come to the wedding. Do the have to? No. Will that upset them? Probably. It’s their sons wedding, they want everyone to be shamal in their kushi - that’s normal. I’m sure once the whole situation is explained to them, they wouldn’t have a problem with them not attending.
Jaanwar
November 29, 2011, 9:54am
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My thoughts exactly.
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Who’s the son marrying anyway, another cousin?
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So your phupo is your dewar’s cousin & your cousin’s in laws are your phupo’s kids’s dewar’s … WHAT??? pulling her hair
Reha
November 30, 2011, 12:32pm
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I am telling you nadz…all these cousins that keep marrying cousins…I bet you all look alike too.
Jolie
November 30, 2011, 12:37pm
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…And most these cousin partners are Pakistani imports. How surprising, eh?
nadz123
November 30, 2011, 4:12pm
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firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
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you have a good point esp the highlighted ones
nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
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nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
STA
November 30, 2011, 4:19pm
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nadz123:
firstly, dewar isnt marrying cousin.
secondly, theres nothing haram about marying your cousin, im sure if islam didnt allow it, we wouldnt marry them at all, so nothing to laugh and poke fun at.
thirdly, we are the only 2 couples married in the family, my husband being the only poakistani man from pakistan, so no importing going on here. he wasnt imported in either, he came here to do his Masters degree, and paid over 12k for it, do you guppans have that kind of money or degree, and if you do, then youll know how hard it is and how much effort you need to put it in do do a masters, so save the jokes paki import jokes for someone else. your parents/grandparents were also imports once upon a time…
fourthly- is this how you guppans answered any exam questions you may have done, obviously depends on wether you went to school or not in your respected western countries, but did you actually ANSWER the question asked, or splurted random trife, which doesnt answer the question, because most of the replies in most threads DOESNT answer the OP`s question.
i observed, many time specially your thread scrutinized and lashed back with fun.
i m
STA
November 30, 2011, 4:20pm
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:k:
with other guppa/guppan.