I used to be avery nadeeda kid. You guys heard of late actor Latif Kapadia. He was a very good friend of my dad. One day we went to there home. They made us sit at the dining table and laid out the dishes.
While we were waiting for the food to come, I picked up my empty plate and started licking it.
they let me do, say whatever i want. in fact they encourage me for things that i don’t like. i have my own philosophies and approaches. i try to explain them and Alhumdullah they do understand them.
and i really need my parents…May ALLAH SWT send his blessing on them. Ameen
yeah papu shpu jaisi herkatay main nay kabhi bhi nahi ke thee
i was a daring child of my parents. once i said to my hitler principal that “why dont you invite me for tea” …i think zayda say zayda main nay ice cream he kisi ko khench ker mari hai
but i was kid then..now i try to use brain of other people
-i m middle child of my parents but still they treat me differently, and apparently expects lot more from me than my other educated sibz (God knowz why!)
no no man, all of a sudden I was his joggin buddy and I was hanging with him and meeting his friends.
of course around the same time another thing happened, it was ramadan 9dekho zalim ramadan mein rozay daar bacchay par tashaddud kartay thay) we all were sent for taraveeh under nana and mamoons supervision. nana was all the up front, we would try to sneak out, one day as we snuck out and went to the local commercial area to get some lassi, we saw mamoon and his pals sitting having tikkas and soda..he saw us, we saw him...
we developed some understanding.
hmmm mirinda and kebabs for dinner the rest of ramadan :D
well in pakistan its more of a matter of ur dad's social status. the higher his position is, the more opportunities are there for his children to explore the world (both in negative and positive ways)
None of them was/is strict however abu aksar trip per jany ki ijazat nahi dyty thy tu main ammi ko ro ro ker dikhati thi woh foran abu ko majboor kertin ky “ijazat nama” likhu:mad: Or woh man jaty.
**PS: Mujhy yad hy abu ny batya tha ky English grammer “ordered and request” kahan use hota hy (ya shaid kia fraq hy) King, Queen, Court or Tumhari ami “order” dyty hain.Ham, tum or awam request kerty hain. ** Halan ky mera khiyal hy hamari ammi bary dheemy mizaj ki khatoon hain.{ I am just opposite of my mom:D
*PS: Mujhy yad hy abu ny batya tha ky English grammer "ordered and request" kahan use hota hy (ya shaid kia fraq hy) King, Queen, Court or Tumhari ami "order" dyty hain.Ham, tum or awam request kerty hain. *
your abbu's a pure genious. WoW.... how creatively he described that..
** Isi liy tu ab tak yad hy:D ** PS: Waisy woh kia maqam hy grymar ka jahan yeh words bary critical hain Active, Passive:hmmm: Ya direct; Indirect speech:aq:
Dad is more strict, he has his way of showing his anger which in turn makes us very obedient lol
Mum is strict’ish in certain thingz she can be very strict, but theres alwayz a way of getting her to agree with u. It’z easier to talk to mum n convince her of sumthing, but then again there are sum thingz tht dad wud agree to n mum wudn’t
but overall i think i hav more fear instilled in me for dad rather than mum.