Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
hamara roza hai
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
well...Allah has made that rule...can you disagree with Allah, nauuzobillah? it's your choice! :)
Nauuzobillah, never KKF Bhai, but seriously, I dont think he should be mehram.
Ok eg: A brother is your mehram, you can shake hand with him, you can touch him, you can hug him and you can kiss him too. But can you do that all with your behnoi?? and if you do it, cant it lead him to think of you as different perspective as shaitaan is always there. There is a possibility he can fall in love with you. While a brother's heart can never lead to the same direction.... DIL nahin maanta!!
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
aaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwww…chaleN to phir roze ke ba’d poochh leNge! 
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
ofcourse he cant, but dont you think if his saali doesnt do pardah infront of him and feel easy coming infront of him, it can make him like or love her, while brother or father can never feel that way!!
there is always a possibility of this. I know some incidents where saali and behnoi relation resulted failure of first marriage.
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
ye kaha gaya hay ke aik waqt main 2 behno se nikah nahin hosakta magar ye nahin kaha gaya ke kabhi bhi nahin ho sakta.. possibility to hay naa nikah honay ki… 
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
Nauuzobillah, never KKF Bhai, but seriously, I dont think he should be mehram.
Ok eg: A brother is your mehram, you can shake hand with him, you can touch him, you can hug him and you can kiss him too. But can you do that all with your behnoi?? and if you do it, cant it lead him to think of you as different perspective as shaitaan is always there. There is a possibility he can fall in love with you. While a brother's heart can never lead to the same direction.... DIL nahin maanta!!
aap jo munaasib samjheN maaneN...jo ham log bataa sakte the bataa diyaa, baaqii aapkii marzii...good luck with your research!
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
KKF bhai, saali is na-meharam. you need to check with muqa bhai.
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
You people are confusing Na-Mehram with the person to whom one requires to do purdah
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
there is always a possibility of this. I know some incidents where saali and behnoi relation resulted failure of first marriage.
so you tell me, would Allah ever appreciate such a relation where there is even a single chance of getting another relation like husband and wife, ruined!!
Would he appreciate fitnah?
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
STA ne Deeniyat main cheating ki thi 
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
You people are confusing Na-Mehram with the person to whom one requires to do purdah
I am saying "saali/SIL is na-mahram".
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
aap ne merii post Theek se nahiiN paRhii…have you? maiN ne saaf saaf kaii baar kahaa k “jab tak bahen nikaah men hai tab tak saali maHram hai…agar mankooHa bahen mar jaaye yaa talaaq ho jaaye to saali naa-maHram ho jaatii hai…”
aapko pataa hai k agar miyaaN biwi meN se koii ek mar jaaye to vo ek dusre ke liye naa-maHram ho jaate haiN kiuN k marne ke ba’d uskaa ‘consent’ baaqii nahiiN rahtaa…isii liye biwii ko qabr meN utaarte waqt husband nahiiN utarta madad ke liye…ONLY mahram get down into the grave to lay the body’
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
You people are confusing Na-Mehram with the person to whom one requires to do purdah
You are obliged to do pardah with na-mahram, and you are not obliged to do pardah with Marham (but doesnt mean that you can be bayhaya infront of a mahram too)
another eg: You are covered properly but you have not covered your head and hence you have long black hair ... very attractive.... you can go with it infront of your father, brother.. it wont effect them...... but if you go infront of your behnoi... he can like them.. he can get attracted to them and even he can compare you with his wife too..........
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
aap ne merii post Theek se nahiiN paRhii...have you? maiN ne saaf saaf kaii baar kahaa k "jab tak bahen nikaah men hai tab tak saali maHram hai...agar mankooHa bahen mar jaaye yaa talaaq ho jaaye to saali naa-maHram ho jaatii hai..."
aapko pataa hai k agar miyaaN biwi meN se koii ek mar jaaye to vo ek dusre ke liye naa-maHram ho jaate haiN kiuN k marne ke ba'd uskaa 'consent' baaqii nahiiN rahtaa...isii liye biwii ko qabr meN utaarte waqt husband nahiiN utarta madad ke liye...ONLY mahram get down into the grave to lay the body'
aur agar saali ki waja se hi tallaq hojaye to??
baqi ye qabar wali baat main nain bhi parhi thee but ye bhi ghalat hay ke marnay ke baad husband and wife na-mahram ho jatay hain..
they remain mahram because the husband remains her kid's father and to a woman, uske bachho ka baap is mehram for her unless she has not performed a proper nikah with him!!
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
I think, we need to study life of Asma Bint e Abu Bakar (sister of Hazrat Ayesha) to examine this aspect further.
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
I am saying "saali/SIL is na-mahram".
Its not in strict sense.
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
aur agar saali ki waja se hi tallaq hojaye to??
baqi ye qabar wali baat main nain bhi parhi thee but ye bhi ghalat hay ke marnay ke baad husband and wife na-mahram ho jatay hain.. they remain mahram because the husband remains her kid's father and to a woman, uske bachho ka baap is mehram for her unless she has not performed a proper nikah with him!!
KKF, I also heard this qabar wali baat, but its not followed in all Fiqhas..
Re: whom can I call “jaan” ?
where it showed that she was not with pardah infront of Hazrat Mohammad PBUH ??
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where it showed that she was not with pardah infront of Hazrat Mohammad PBUH ??
When she was carrying food to cave of Sur, but I'm saying we need to look into further about the lives of Muslim ladies from the era of Prophet and his companions.
BTW, Purdah and the way ladies interact with their men relatives differ from culture to culture. In Sindh, its very common that ladies shake hand with cousins in a dignified manner.
Re: whom can I call "jaan" ?
When she was carrying food to cave of Sur, but I'm saying we need to look into further about the lives of Muslim ladies from the era of Prophet and his companions.
BTW, Purdah and the way ladies interact with their men relatives differ from culture to culture. In Sindh, its very common that ladies shake hand with cousins in a dignified manner.
yehi to, aajkal Muslims ne Islam ko apnay hisaab se mor taror diya hay... main nain to kuch jaahil logo ko ye bhi kehte suna hay ke 'Pardah aankh ka hota hay, jism ka nahin' Stupids!!
anyways, yes, we should look into lives of Muslim Ladies!!