Re: WHO will SIT on front seat......
ok guys, what if her MIL is jumping in the car with them EVERYTIME they go anywhere, even for a small errand. is this decent behaviour on her part?
nazoo, you can tell us whether this is the case or not but from what you wrote this is the impression i got.
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why would you live with your in laws anyway. why would your husband what to live with his parents after marriage. he needs to grow some balls and move out. that's where the problem is.
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You know, if we go through these threads, we can compile a great book for current and future dulhans / wives.
The title would be:
Mother in Law for Dummies
*Your #1 source for fooling, ridiculing and winning heart of your current MIL
ISBN #: TBD
*
nazoo g…kasam se ap bohet burdasht kerti ho me akele rehti hon hubby ke sath but by just reading ur threads i feel like tumhari saas ko KITCHEN ME JULLLAAA DOONNN 
jj ur r lucky u dont live with ur in-laws!..look whats happenin to the young marreid women baradari..so sad...:o
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well my sasuralll is n pakistantu shuekr he m away from sasural ki punchaitein but even then no body leaves me they say m gori maym just cuz i have accent lolzz
this is just ridiculous! her askin u to get out!! such an insecure woman really! honestly and THANKFULLY, my in laws are not here… me and hubby alone but hubby jee ka bas chale toh apne amma abba ko bhi bula lein. we go to pak every yr and since they dun have a car, we dun face this prb… anyway abhi tak toh yehi howa hai ke whenever we go we 3 sit in the back seat and not necessarily he’s in middle, sometimes his mom is in the corner too… alot of ppl, esp men here are sayin u r makin a big deal out of it.. i agree and disagree too.. cus even i am like u. small things depress me like ANYTHING!!! but on the other hand, its no big deal u know. i bet every typical paki guy wud want u to sit back and his mom shud b in front… these men can never change! but respect apni jaga… i dun think its a MUST that each time she shud sit there! kabhi kabhi theek hia but yeh habit bana rahi hia MIL, then its a bit too freaky!!! In a nutshell, please strt going out alone with ur hubby in car sometimes… u deserve it… hes ur hubby. I just can believe there cud b a MIL who goes even to the supermarket and dusnt leave hubb and wife alone for even small things! sheesh!!
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check post 82
why would you live with your in laws anyway. why would your husband what to live with his parents after marriage. he needs to grow some balls and move out. that's where the problem is.
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wht the hell is this??? yea because mum cant share bedroom with her own son.....so its obvious only his wife gna get it..... its such a narrow bloody choti thinking....and how is it fair??? i guess ur sum reall immature person... and y shuld mother gt the frnt seat ...fair enough she can sit on the frnt seat with her single bete/betian..or her husband..bt hell not with her married son...is it justice...NO NO NO.... itna hi he to shadi kyon karwai thi..poor ppl
cudnt agree more!!! i mean the comparison of bedroom and car is just plain ridiculous! someone said on this forum , ke woh toh biwi ko haqq dia hai warna bas chalta toh bedroom or thori bahat jo privacy hia biwi ki, woh bhi cheen lete!!!!! i never undastand why MIL cannot understand they they r not the WIFE.. they r mothers and they should act like one.. not like a psychopath who is possessive and wanting a piece of her son like a GF or something.. its so pathetic really! 25 yrs betay ka pyar paya na... now move on, let him give the love to his wife. all the men in this forum are rushing to say respect karo, ignore karo blah blah. typical attitude. they never understand that their mom's can be such a pain most of the times!
^ maybe the mils want to show off how usne bahoo ko apne pehrons ke neeche rakawa heh..
Sorry but on paper tht just sounds sad! Reminds me Bhagban!
maybe it dus but it cud b true too... its no big deal really! my husband has 5 brothers so i think this is the best way to settle prbs. honestly, i wud go crazy or become bald (thinkin abt this crap) if they stay wid me all the time. the best way is... live for sometime in my place then pls go to other brother's house.. this way we get to have our freedom and by the time they come back to me, we wud have spend some time alone doin whatever we want! this is an ideal thing!
^ maybe the mils want to show off how usne bahoo ko apne pehrons ke neeche rakawa heh..
soni, ap buhat hee smart aur intelligent baho bano ghi. Wah, mashallah.
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well i jst feel sorry for the thread starter...waqai aisi saas ko kitchen me jala dena chaie..phir use maza aega:D:D
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You know, I don't think it's fair to say such harsh things (burning them and such) about dealing with MILs and susraals. This one is behaving inappropriately and it should not be tolerated, but many people have great relationships with inlaws. It can happen, you know. Didn't we have another thread about it?
well i jst feel sorry for the thread starter...waqai aisi saas ko kitchen me jala dena chaie..phir use maza aega:D:D
thats sick
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well i said aisi saas ko...i didnt say har saas ko....
so gud for ppl who hve a great relation with their inlaws....noone is telling thm to burn their saas:D
thats sick
yes thats even more sick when she taunts u all the time..takes all ur rights away bla bla...is it not sick???
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Get a heating element fitted under the front seat where MIL sits and turn it on when she is sitting in it comfortabley next time she will offer that seat to you.
On a serious note it is really a problem for bahoos who live in a joint family system with arrogant MIL's. The only option in this case is to move out , if for some reason it is not possible then you need to be patient when some day MIL , FIL, SIL, BIL anybody realizes this injustice to you and points it out to her.
I know sitting in the front seat with hubby in a car is big issue specially with newly married women. My wife used to make it a point to site in the front seat always when we were newly married and other were also going with us. Even now when we are going somewhere with kids , the kids also want to sit with daddy so sometimes she lets one of them sit in the front sometimes she won't.
On a personal note I do not know what is this fascination of people with sitting in the front seat, I prefer to sit in the back it is more relaxing and less stressful . Specially if you are a driver yourself if you are in the front seat you are doing passive driving. But I have seen grownups and kids fighting to sit in the front seat equally.
Jee bohat zulm ho gaya hai na bahu per 
Some people are sick