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Inspiron, I don’t think married men go clubbing… clubbing is for finding girlfriends, so there’s no need after marriage 
Just focus on finding someone who’s not chichora (you probably know what I mean)… all my husband’s friends (born and raised in US) used to go clubbing before they got married, now they don’t. So there should be no worries in that department, at least.
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Bilawal theek rahay ga 
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^Did you not see his pics with different girls 
You folks stop bugging the poor girl (OP) 
. Aaraam sai bhi samjhaya jaa sakta hai.
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Looks mean 0 to me so does the size of someones house.
I want someone emotionally and financially stable who can support the family if i stop working comfortably.
I want someone from the uk or who has grown up in the west.
I want someone of equal intelligence and wit.
I want someone who is a good moderate muslim..i.e. doesnt drink, doesnt go clubbing anymore…i want a Man not a boy
is that REALLY too much to ask for???
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well thats good to know!! it makes me feel better!!
and thanks for sticking of me hehe!! x
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if a man demands the same from u …**
Looks mean 0 to me so does the size of someones house.
I want someone emotionally and financially stable who can support the family if i stop working comfortably.
I want someone from the uk or who has grown up in the west.
I want someone of equal intelligence and wit.
I want someone who is a good moderate muslim..i.e. doesnt drink, doesnt go clubbing anymore…i want a woMan not a girl
is that REALLY too much to ask for???
**thn will u accept him ?
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of course i would accept him!! why not?
apart from the bit where he says u go to work and i will stay at home with the kids…i personally think mothers should stay at home with the children if possible.
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if he has been clubbing and partying in their past he is likely to do it again even after he’s married. a persons nature and habits stay the same throughout their life…if he sees nothing wrong with drinking and sleeping with girls in the past…whats going to stop him when he’s married to you?
if you want a guy grown up in a western country then good luck…just wanting someone from western country without a proper reason is again being picky…
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well what about what miainva said in her post? i actually disagree with your post alot tbh.
Just because someone went clubbing when they were 18 doesnt mean they will do at when they are married…and i was talking about clubbing and partying.
I dont want someone who has slept with girls in the past.
I think you are being negative for no reason.
I want someone from a western coutnry because i have grown up in a western country how is that picky??
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ive seen guys who didnt go clubbing when they were young but actually started after getting married…if its in a persons nature to be like that…they will be…being young has got nothing to do with it…its a saying “kutte ki dum kabhi seedhi nai ho sakti”
ps. im from uk myself…have gone through the whole uni process…and know very well how the guys here are like.
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i dont know what kind of men you know but i have never met anyone like that!!
so basically…there is no hope? is that what ure saying???
or are u just playing devils advocate?
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People who go clubbing do not necessarily sleep around, right? 
My husband used to go clubbing now and then when he was a bachelor, he told me himself.
Its been 6 years since we got married, he has not been to a club ever since… asked me if I wanted to go see one and I refused, so we never went.
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yup
there is no hope!!!
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i know men from the UK who went clubbing when they were bachelors and then never looked at a club again after they got married, litteprincess so i really dont know what men you are talking about.
ALSO i have guy friends who went clubbing in 1st year and 2nd year but now in 4th year and final year dont go at all!
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if you know so much about men…then why are you asking “where have all the men gone” ??? all im saying to you is that if someone does haram things when they’re young…they wont automatically stop after marriage or when they meet you…
im saying that there are good men out there, but they are hard to find…the good ones are taken like you said…and being picky doesnt help matters…
ps. if your doing medicine in the midlands…its most likely leicester or birmingham uni ur at?
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is clubbing a sin
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you are not getting the point…if you dont want someone who goes clubbing…then why do you want someone who has done so in the past? why not look for someone who has NEVER done that?
if you know SOOO much about men, you shouldnt have a problem finding one.
ps. i assume you’re only 22? you have alot more to see in the world yet…
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korn say something useful or dont say anything at all.
Little princess…those guys…taken…i might just try and seduce one of the untaken ones hahaha…
yes anyone can turn bad at any point but people can grow up and grow out of things too..
when i was 11 i took a drag of my uncles cigarette..doesnt mean im a chain smoker now.
Im not ugly, im not stupid and i have bloody hindu sikh white men falling all over me.
Im going to change it to…where have all the muslim pakistani men gone!!!
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH fw8fg7t8goiru3p12i09fo
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sach humesha karwa hota hai
muslim paki men, i like the sound of it 
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hope you find someone soon insha-allah…
all im saying is keep your options open…