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haha thanks razzmatazz :)
there is one masjid in my city only! buttt i guess i could start looking there...
What do you mean by 'right' aunty?
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This obviously isnt a fictional thread
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nutwer..noo this thread isnt fictional...why the sarcasm?
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haha thanks razzmatazz :)
there is one masjid in my city only! buttt i guess i could start looking there...
What do you mean by 'right' aunty?
Probably means the aunty that is reputable?! loool Or the ones that seems to know everyone and everyone's business.
As for going to the masjid, I hope that was a sarcastic comment.. you know your only going to find one type of men there.. ..
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Problem is that decent people DON'T go out - because lets face it most "fun" activities have some aspect of wrong in them in Western countries.
So you are limited to your own circles (if you can find decent people in them).
Also - Decent people are generally .... boring. They don't concentrate on looks as much as other will like to and they don't have enough things to attract.
Solution: I will say goto a mosque and ask the imam there to recommend . Facebook stalking (friend of friends).
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be decent i dont mean...doesnt go cinema, doesnt go out to restaurants, doesnt have fun!
I go out for dinner, cinema to shisha cafes shopping with my friends...I dont go to clubs or bars though and thats what i would like too!!
Also the mosque is an idea...but seriously just because someone goes to mosque/has a hijab/has a beard does not mean they are decent people.
Some of the guys at uni...go to mosque then go to club and come home pray fajr...NOT ALL and yes i should try all routes mosque and otherwise but im not going to put all my eggs in one basket.
McLovin....i know exactly the kind of guys you are talking about!! i know alot of them from uni!! but got to be open minded to all routes i guess!
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Generally imam recommend a guy who has approached them for the similar reasons you have - you can be open to them and tell them you are not looking for a super-religious folk (Generally they don't start preaching AFAIK).
I doubt imam will just blindly point to a person and say "how about that guy? he seems single" :p
P.S: Of course, you will have to judge the sanity of the imam yourself - to go for advice from one that does have grasp on reality. If there truly is only 1 mosque then FB is your friend :)
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No, the masjid comment was NOT sarcastic in any way. Im serious. By 'right' aunty I mean aunty's who are known to help hook up people. Your mom might have to do the talking to get to know aunty's, or she can ask her friends if they know of such aunty's
and PrinceMS is correct, ask your father to approach the imam and let them know about you and your credentials, and the fact that you are also looking.
wish all the best, but i do advise dont desperately give into just anyone who comes around just for the sake of him(whoever it may be) bringing a rishta.
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Problem is that decent people DON'T go out - because lets face it most "fun" activities have some aspect of wrong in them in Western countries.
So you are limited to your own circles (if you can find decent people in them).
Also - Decent people are generally .... boring. They don't concentrate on looks as much as other will like to and they don't have enough things to attract.
Solution: I will say goto a mosque and ask the imam there to recommend . Facebook stalking (friend of friends).
True words! Esp the fb stalking bit! hehe
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You can try this:
Ohio woman calls 911 to find a husband
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hello babe
Can you visit leicester
I would really lov to meet u someday
and we can be friends
just curious to see how much u r really interested initally
thn we will sort out something when we sit together - ok babe
cheers
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errrr ^ 'babe'? really?
i hope youre joking by the way.
edit: just had a quick look at some of your blogs...you drink, and thats not what im looking for.
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every1 drink ... if som1 say he didnt ... nt even a single ... he / she lied ... i wont believe it ..livin in UK n u wont drk ... n i m sure ... even u did once ..though jst few drops ... ...at least once ... with ur frds ...
anyway its ur personal issue ... u urself shd sort it out ... if u run for somthg ... tht thing will run away from u jst lik ur shadow.... the best thing is wait for the right time ... to come .. u will get everything wht u want ...but u hav to wait in ur life for the best thing ... my best wishes n regrds 4r u .... tht u shd get ur best match ASAP...Ameen
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Excuse me? EVERYONE DRINKS??? are you sure you mean that?
And you cannot accuse me of drinking even a few drops just because i live the UK.
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I think you are probably being too picky....and you may not realise it...im in the medical field myself....and my husband is not....I dont work in my field much, but if i did then i'd earn more....but these things dont mean anything to me. you're saying you would only marry someone from your country....but then he shouldnt be clubbing and partying etc.....all i can say is good luck!
most guys in the west do clubbing and partying....and the ones that dont are in high demand hence very hard to find one. im married to a guy from pakistan....(and im educated in the medical field like you are) and my thinking and his are the same.....we get on so well....educated people are everywhere not just in canada, us or uk :)
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Like i said...clubbing partying etc in their past is all fine but i wouldnt want my husband hitting the clubs..after we are married i want someone is over that phase, thats what im saying...i.e. going to the club with their friends to hit on girls, i dont like the idea of that!
And i said someone of equal intelligence, success, wit and educations i didnt say someone only from the medical field.
And yes there are many educated people in pakistan 100% all my family is highly educated but i want to marry a guy who has grown up in a western country because i have.
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aaj kul farishtay market mein milna hatum ho gaen haen
sorry ap late ho gai ho!!!!!!
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i m nt accusing u inspiron ... i m jst saying in general ... the kinda guy u need ... isnt possible ... u hav to order it somwhere where u can change his features n get a customised product acordin to ur demand... ub Prince charles to ap ka ghar rishta baijnai se rhai ... ub u want som1 lik his earning ap se zaidah ho financially sound hoo .. mature b hooo shahrukh khan jaisa style b hoo , uk mai b reh ta hoo , us ka ghar b shd look like Saray mahal n last mai desi b hoooooo .... then i guess u shd contact Zardare for Bilawal bhutto ..tht is the only eligiable person for u according to ur requirement :p
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...they have found the women with low demands...