What would you do...

if your friend liked the same guy/girl that you like alot?

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I would say go for a duel!

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go for a duel really? what if someone gets hurt in the process?

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Well! I think that is the purpose of duel...

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but i dont believe in a win lose thing i believe it should be a win win but i dont see a win win here!

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Yes! I think so too. Unless! One is willing to back off.

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but i dont think anyone could back out right?

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thats tough...i'll probably back off....otherwise it will become more of a game....

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really, but what if u dont want to break off

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well then you would know who the guy likes - he can not like both at the same time, you always tend to like one person more then the other.....but im quite strong minded, i wouldnt pursue the same guy if my mate liked him

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What if.....

You are two best friends and your friend likes this guy....all 3 of you work together but you see him more than she does...as you work more shifts.....

You and your best friend also live together as you are at Uni away from home...

She bombards you with wanting to know what he's doing, how much you spoke to him etc etc...........as soon as you go home...

Over time, you get to know the guy more at work....she asks you to pass messages, but you don't feel comfortable to do this.....
He eventually comes to know of her liking him.......(she isn't exactly subtle, and doesn't hide the fact at work!)

THEN you discover that this guy likes you...and feels an emotional friendship has developed with you......What would you do in this situation???

Believe me, it's hard to distance yourself from this situation....happened to me when I was 20 and at Uni......................

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I wud cry if that happened :( :( :(

But apart 4rm that i suppose i wud let my friend have him if he is in my kismat hell cum to me, but i wud back off if i knew my friend did genuinely really like him, it wud be painful but hey at least teh fact u did a good deed will slightly make uo 4 the pain u feel at losin him

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i'd back off.....leave it....i'll still feel for him and be upset buttt lifes too short to argue over a guy with ur closest friend.....you'll find someone else

:p

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The good thing luckily in this situation was for me...that I didn't feel the same or want to feel the same for this guy

In the end, she moved back home and apart from the odd mention of him, she moved on.....

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depends who the friend is

friends are more important in some cases ...and not just that theyre important the fact that id want thm to b happy and get wat tehy want

and if the friend really likes the guy.

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so does the guy have a choice who he wants??

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Simple , tell the chap :) Sod off !

Shadi ho'gee mayree
or Babhi hogee tayree

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3some

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wht is ure obessesion with this 3some business, it was ure answer to another thread in this forum :disgust: The immaturity of sum ppl :disgust:

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i would'nt back off, considering the fact that i'll neva get over this and might not even live happily in future.
Neva give up without a fight.