Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
haha..
:) I cant believe those who are so blase about this.
It is your child.
You are responsible for her
Leaving her to the world? Sure, you think she even wants to stay at home? Shes already jonesing to live apart. A girl in our close family friends went this nuts. Ran away from home and now does all sorts of weird naked stuff, tattooed all over and drinking
You can't go overboard in dealing with someone who's gone overboard themselves. Otherwise, you'd both be in the ocean drowning with no help in sight and things would just get worse.
At the end of the day, there is only so much you can do and her being an adult will have to answer for her actions when the time comes.
There is no need to ruin your akhirah by committing an extreme act.
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
haha..
I cant believe those who are so blase about this.
It is your child.
You are responsible for her
Leaving her to the world? Sure, you think she even wants to stay at home? Shes already jonesing to live apart. A girl in our close family friends went this nuts. Ran away from home and now does all sorts of weird naked stuff, tattooed all over and drinking
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
You can't go overboard in dealing with someone who's gone overboard themselves. Otherwise, you'd both be in the ocean drowning with no help in sight and things would just get worse.
At the end of the day, there is only so much you can do and her being an adult will have to answer for her actions when the time comes.
There is no need to ruin your akhirah by committing an extreme act.
I dont know Hammurabi, what you are saying is correct about ruining akhirat, but tell me honestly, would u be able to control your anger if this was your own child?
I am giving an honest to god opinion that I dont believe I shall be able to restrain myself.
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
I dont know Hammurabi, what you are saying is correct about ruining akhirat, but tell me honestly, would u be able to control your anger if this was your own child?
I am giving an honest to god opinion that I dont believe I shall be able to restrain myself.
I'd probably go bananas too but you have to look at things with a level head.
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
someone said it before too.........its not like your little princess went to the university one day..wearing burka one day..........and the next day she woke up a pornstar......... it would have to be gradual i guess.... whats so shocking about it??
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
I dont know Hammurabi, what you are saying is correct about ruining akhirat, but tell me honestly, would u be able to control your anger if this was your own child?
I am giving an honest to god opinion that I dont believe I shall be able to restrain myself.
I'd be in serious trouble if I were to follow through on my anger all the time. Isn't this the difference between an adult and a baby?
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
I think the poster made it clear that it is glamour modeling. But, I guess you think high fashion modeling is honorable, even if it shows skin, because it is not slutty / ho'ish unlike the intent of this model here.
I was just bringing up a slightly different perspective...thats all...
and FYI...I dont' find any modelling "honorable"...some may be decent and other are indecent...but I wouldn't call them "honorable" professions/hobbies.
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
I disagree that posing nude/having sex on film isn't as bad as killing people...Its still pretty bad!
OF COURSE killing someone is worse! (i'm talking about the Islamic perspective here, murder is the biggest sin in Islam) so if I had a kid who had to make a choice between the two, of course murder would not be an option, if that makes sense. How can anyone compare the two and not think murder is far worse? That baffles my mind.
so what you are basically saying?? she is better than those people do that killing innocent people??
Uh, duh. That is exactly what I'm saying and you need help if you think otherwise. Murder is the worst thing you can do, as a Muslim especially. Tahmeena is NOT causing harm to anyone. Those murderers kill innocent people, destroy families, ruin lives and harm/kill children. Don't see how anything could be worse than that.
I fail to see the correlation between killing people and baring your body like a 2 bit whore
It was an example of two extremes. Sheesh.
OP meant if you run around wearing literally nothing it is less likely that you'd end up being a suicide bomber. Yeah?
…no.
It makes sense to do it all for money. I mean a lot of muslim girls would be doing it as well if it weren't for religion.
I am pretty sure there are muslim/Pakistani/Indian pornstars already out there going by different names and whatever.
Re: What would you do if your daughter (or son) became a Tahmeena Afzal?
You are an embarrassment, and a complete psycho. I get being pissed and extremely shocked/horrified/angry. But throwing acid? Physical harm? WTF? You need help. I would rather have a daughter who did Tahmeena-esque things than to have one whose thought-pattern was like yours. I’m seriously disturbed. It’s people like you who give Islam and muslims a bad name. I dont see where your logic when when you think glamour modeling is wrong but dont see the wrong in killing/harming someone.
