Thanks for the feedback y'all. ......I really must say that alot of the females are being very judgemental towards me........ The truth is, you don't know everything I've put up with for the last 8 years...... he's been a jerk, lied, and made many scenes in public...... I have onlyyy been there for him accepting all his faults big and small...... if wanting to avoid public arguements makes me a snob.... then i suppose i am.....
he himself would agree that he has a really good thing going for him.....and my resentment towards him began by him loosing him temper with my parents...... you canot tell me that I'm making him suffer by trying to muster up the ability to give him a second chance or just walking away...... the issues were always there.... but i suppose love is blind?
i also know that he loves me because the thought of loosing me kills him....
I think the fact that you wasted 8 years of your life kills you more than the fact that you might lose him.