Lusi
August 20, 2011, 5:34pm
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Re: what to do in this situation as a mother…
ok well thanks guys, means alot and il try to stay quiet. what if he asks again, i cant saY jab time ayga deka jayga he will think im coming to the idea…its best if i stick to my principle and say politly and firmly no. he should understand. thing is, hes saying why cant i have kid here, and he says she only has one phupo everyone wants her there, im sure his mum or sis have given him this idea…im sure of it. i feel like asking his mum shes a mother, how would she feel…he keeps saying im not taking her from u, its only 3 monhts, u need to look after the new baby how can u look after 2 lil onesi keep saying i can, mothers do…he doesnt take it…
can someone tell me stress/tension what harm it can do to my unborn baby? i am worried.
so far we ok, we made up yday, things seem ok at the moment…lets see.
No matter what he says, you stick with a polite no and let him know that this issue is not negotiable. Your daughter will stay where you are. Period/Full Stop!