and bear in mind, that some of the people, or whoever you are directing this post at, may actually have serious problems, however pathetic or silly it may sound to you, but i dont think your in a position to talk down any problems relating to married girls who actually have issues with their MIL or jahez or BIL issues because your unmarried.
I agree with u 100%,
what I find more annoying is when I come into life1 I feel like I'm in cafe' some of the replies tht people give are just so random and insensitive.
SOME PEOPLE actually have serious issues here, doesnt matter how crazy they seem to you or otherwise. have some respect, its hardly fair to say people have issues due to an empty mind..do you know how many forums such as this are on the internet...more than a gazillion because shockhorror us ABNORMAL people have CRAZY PROBLEMS.....SIGH
Thank god everyone BUT thes rest of the world is normal...( here i would inset my rolling on the ground laughing smiley....!)
nadz, don't be upset. You are lucky. At least you have a hand to hold on to. ;)
Getting angry that your bahu didn't bring some dishwear into a home that has nothing to do with you is not normal. Regardless of what relative plane of imagination you inhabit.
I was just about to start a thread on how my evil MIL doesn't show enough appreciation for cheese and crackers and how terribly it has affected me, but since I saw these posts I am now rather frightened.
Thanks PCG, u have ruined my ability to exercise FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND EXPRESSION.
Oh, if only I didn't see this thread, i would have been a happier person... sigh
I was just about to start a thread on how my evil MIL doesn't show enough appreciation for cheese and crackers and how terribly it has affected me, but since I saw these posts I am now rather frightened.
Thanks PCG, u have ruined my ability to exercise FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND EXPRESSION.
Oh, if only I didn't see this thread, i would have been a happier person... sigh
Sorry but couldn’t stop laughing I didn’t know that this forum is having such threads hehe anyway that sounds really weird people have stopped respecting their relationships and make their life into trouble. Even I do many crazy things but it doesn’t mean I start considering myself correct in my all actions.
Getting angry that your bahu didn't bring some dishwear into a home that has nothing to do with you is not normal. Regardless of what relative plane of imagination you inhabit.
I disagree with your PCG - I think if you were sitting in some part of pakistan surounded by a certain demographic - getting angry at your bahu for whatever the reason would be the norm.
I am not saying it's right but all families have their won set of "what they consider normal and not normal".
In Palestine, its considered normal to blow yourself up. Is relativity really an acceptable theory?
ugh, nobody on GS is blowing themselves up. and you should know better because your americanized, educated young woman... that not all cultures have same values and even within the same culture there are differences.. that's what njgal is pointing out. we're not going on a suicide mission.
Cultures have differences? Really cricket, because you're all Mr. Islam, right? So how much of this BS that you're seeing girls dealing with (as they share with us here on GS) is really Islam? You think the way some of these in-laws behave, that they've even read a chapter of the Quran?
I don't think so. I think Pakistan is filled with sleeze buckets. I think Pakistani men are a-holes of the highest level, and their families encourage it. Who suffers? Wives. Wives have to deal with the most STUPID shyte ever, and that's not "normal". That shouildn't be excused as "culture". Its not "relative".
Its unacceptable. Its atrocious. Its downright unIslamic, and we should treat garbage people the way they should be treated. Garbage.
I didn’t know that this forum is having such threads hehe anyway that sounds really weird 
people have stopped respecting their relationships and make their life into trouble. Even I do many crazy things but it doesn’t mean I start considering myself correct in my all actions.