No need to apologise brother.
The way I see it is that when Allah (swt) says something in plural it stays plural.
So when the word “Our Women” is used it can only imply Prophet (saw)’s wives and daughters.
I am not going second guess why Prophet (saw) did not take his wives along but only thing that comes to my mind is Prophet (saw)’s geerah (I think it translates as man’s jealousy concerning his wife/wives.)
brother righteous – you have conceded that wives are part of the family but the word the Ahlul Bayt is in Arabic meaning ‘people of house’ and can only mean man's family.
Brother, there is another incidence in Quran where Allah (swt) has addressed the wife of a Prophet as Ahlul Bayt [people of the house]
Qalat ya waylata aalidu waana AAajoozun wahatha baAAlee shaykhan inna hatha lashayon AAajeebun
11:72 She said: "Alas for me! shall I bear a child, seeing I am an old woman, and my husband here is an old man? That would indeed be a wonderful thing!"
Qaloo ataAAjabeena min amri Allahi rahmatu Allahi wabarakatuhu AAalaykum ahla albayti innahu hameedun majeedun
11:73 They said: "Dost thou wonder at Allah's decree? The grace of Allah and His blessings on you, o ye people of the house! for He is indeed worthy of all praise, full of all glory!"
And there are authentic hadith where the Prophet (saw) addresses his wives as ahlul bayti.
You are absolutely right. Bibi Sara was the mother of many Prophets and her lineage included Jesus (AS) as well as our beloved Prophet (SAW).
[11:45]
And Noah called upon his Lord, and said:
"O my Lord! surely my son is of my family!
and Thy promise is true,
and Thou art the justest of Judges!"
Allah's answer is:
[11:46]
He said: "O Noah! He is not of thy family:
For his conduct is unrighteous.
So ask not of Me that of which thou hast no knowledge!
I give thee counsel, lest thou act like the ignorant!"
Brother answer me this question, If a son who is from the bloodline can be cast out of the Ahlul Bayt then without the clear example you cannot assume the wives are part of Ahlul Bayt in case of Prophet (SAW).
Further, the prophet (SAW) did divorce some of his wives and a couple were severly reprimanded by Allah in Quran.
066.004 *
YUSUFALI: If ye two turn in repentance to Him, your hearts are indeed so inclined; But if ye back up each other against him, truly Allah is his Protector, and Gabriel, and (every) righteous one among those who believe,- and furthermore, the angels - will back (him) up.
066.005 *
YUSUFALI: It may be, if he divorced you (all), that Allah will give him in exchange consorts better than you,- who submit (their wills), who believe, who are devout, who turn to Allah in repentance, who worship (in humility), who travel (for Faith) and fast,- previously married or virgins.
This example is also set out regarding wives of other Prophets.
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YUSUFALI: Allah sets forth, for an example to the Unbelievers, the wife of Noah and the wife of Lut: they were (respectively) under two of our righteous servants, but they were false to their (husbands), and they profited nothing before Allah on their account, but were told: "Enter ye the Fire along with (others) that enter!"