I don't know why most of you say that it's very difficult to find virgin guys
there are alot of guys who fears God and never fall in such mistake
as to me I think if the girl found out that her husbend is not a virgin but the time is too late to do anything .then she can forgive him provided he will ask God forgiveness as well as her forgiveness ..
but before getting married I think its better not to fall in such marriage .
then God will see her and never let her down .
Let me say this, I think people who choose their mate on virginity really need to open their eyes. Yes, being a virgin is a good deed but so are others. Yes, having sex before marriage is a sin and zina and so are watching movies and music videos. You have to understand that not being a virgin do not make a person there is lot more goes into it. Do not dismiss someone because he does not fit the criteria, you being a virgin really means nothing except from religious point of view. It does not define your character.
Honestly his virginity is not an issue for me at all. I stand by what I always said, as long as he repented for it and knew what he did was wrong and regretted it, who am I to judge him?
The sole circumstance under which it should be overlooked is if he has completely changed his life around and become a much much more practicing Muslim.
If he hasn't done that, or is simply planning on changing at some point in the future, then he probably won't control it.
i agree with the above 100%
however ppl are capable of change....if they have repented and became a better Muslim (like u mentioned) then there shouldnt be an issue.
i now what u mean !! but i think if she had sex before she knew u then its between her and allah :swt: …who r we to jugde her?1 thing which i would demand and expect from her is that she repents and asks forgiveness for sins which she committed..:o …
what a lame thread. Mods, please move it to Jokes forum. How can one remain virgin in the west? Most of the girls posting here are in Canada/UK/US- I am sure half of em are lying when they say they're still virgins.. come on! I knew a Pakistani girl when studying in university who was from Lahore. She would talk big.. no sex.. no drinks but then it came out in desi circles that she was sleeping with one gora.. she said he likes her and asked her out.. ditto for guys! I suggest simple fellas like Lahore981, Anil Khan and Afridi786 to go get married in Pakistan.
i agree with that… though i will not feel comfortable with marrying girl who doesn,t show any sign of regret/sorrow !!!
i want my wife to be a good muslim virgin or no virgin and what she did before she met me is not my busy…its between her and allah :swt: …i mean how many muslim would mind marrying a white woman who has slept with god know how many ppl?anwer no1.:halo: … so why should we mind marrying a muslim girl who unfortunly did indulge in this sin but has now become a god fearing muslimah?
…who r we to jugde her?1 thing which i would demand and expect from her is that she repents and asks forgiveness for sins which she committed..:o …
