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I always make mistakes... :(
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^ try to forget them also 
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a real good ans .
allah knows the best :k:
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This is coming from a traitor who wishes Pakistan never came into being and who has rejected islam outright. Buddy, here's an idea: GET THE HELL OUT OF PAKISTAN AND TAKE YOUR NAA-PAAK IDEAS WITH YOU.
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romance can’t be fun?not sometimes most of the time it leads to sex…and a lot of times it leads to sex in our culture too because its only natural so those of us who have a problem with sex before marriage should have a problem with romance before marriage too.i never used the word sleeping around,she did.:halo:
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real romance starts after marriage .. the rest is rubbish
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Very wise words.
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Very wise words.
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Yeah but according to Mehnaz mistakes are committe once may be twice maybe three times but not over and over again. You are a bad person then. HEAVY SARCASM
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^ Lame. You conveniently ignored the rest of my post.
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His past is b/w him and Allah (SWT). If Allah is Forgiving and Merciful then who am I to judge or even make a big deal out of it? As long as he repented and is making up for his wrong doing (Islamically speaking of course)....i could careless about his past.
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you are no one to tell me to get out of anywhere..why dont u get out of pakistan and join the talibans ..musharraf should be a traitor to you not me,hes killing muslims in pakistan for america.
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First time it is a mistake. Second time that mistake is repeated because there were no reprecaution to be handed out after the first time. So does that mean that now it is not a mistake only because a man enjoyed doing it? Deep down in his heart he knows the actions he is involved in are a mistake but still continues to practice it even though he regrets it each time. Who are we to judge?
Example: Any smokers out there? All of you know that smoking is hazardous. All of you vowed to quit. I used to smoke. With each cigarette I'd say, this is my last cigarette but it wasn't. I smoked that guilt with a cigarette each and every day. Eventually I stopped because there was no other way.
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i think we shud have an anonymous poll to see how many single guppies r virgins and how many aren't. And how many non virgins would be truthful when sum1 asked them about it. if im out of line i apologize in advance.
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Choro yar; I don't want to "hijack" this thread. Its really sad, disappointing, and to be honest pathetic that you firstly, reject islam. (May Allah shower His blessings on you so you can come back on siratul-mustakeem.) Secondly, that you have no love for the land that you were born in. Pakistan is as much yours as it is mine. Don't let your infatuation of Bollywood get in the way of the love you should have for your zameen.
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You said it Fallenpieta. Eventually you stopped because you didn’t feel good doing it. Key words, you regretted it (which was my whole point as I see you again conveniently missed). I guess you will be surprised to know there are people out there who do not regret sleeping around and admit that they would do it again if given the opportunity.
It’s one thing to do it, have no regrets and be proud of it. It’s another to do something and be ashamed of your past actions.
To each their own. 
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most of the people on gs are living outside pak that really shows how much love they've for pakistan...i dont hate pakistan just because i think 2 nation did'nt work, there are good and bad people everywhere,i rejected islam because i am not afraid to accept the truth,most people are chrisitans,jews or muslims because they are born into that culture not because they get to pick between differernt religions
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rejected islam 
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The context and the circumstances it happened in would make a difference. and i would want to know with who. But not too may details or else it would haunt me. Other then that I’d most likely be able to look past it.
I might play a little mind game with him, toy with him a bit. After i get the story i might say something like, walla good as long as we are being honest and frank with each other i have a little confession myself. see how he feels about it if it was the other way around. My guess is that he would have a problem with it so maybe then he would be able to appreicate me more and how tolerant and acceptive i am:hoonh:
waisai i fully agree with MUZNA:)
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If he couldn't keep it under control before marriage, how do you expect him to keep it under control after marriage?
The sole circumstance under which it should be overlooked is if he has completely changed his life around and become a much much more practicing Muslim.
If he hasn't done that, or is simply planning on changing at some point in the future, then he probably won't control it.