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kjal, wen r u getting married..? i think you shud worry abt the wedding dress shopping etc ......... y wasting time thinkin abt such stuff.
btw how well do you know ur fiance'..? cz u shud talk to him.
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lolz.. i cant stop laughing.. yar kuch toh khayal kar loh :D this is a public forum.. kisi se kuch pochna hey hia toh PM kar do..
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wow i cant believe girls are getting married to men they are scared of. if ur too scared to talk about sex with the guy u will be with for the rest of ur life, please do urself a favor and dont get married until u can grow up.
just because he wants to have sex, doesnt mean u have to have sex. and its ridiculous that girls still fall for that ****. yes my blood is boiling right now cuz i dont understand why girls give into their husbands, thats why many paki men have the mentality that they do... that they control their wives. if u dont want to have sex on the first night cuz u dont know the person well at the time, u should say so instead of just giving in.
i can understand if ur nervous, cuz this is the first time ur being intimate with someone (maybe), but u should only do it on the first night if YOU feel comfortable and YOU want to do it, not only because ur husband wants to. ridiculous!
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Sharam Karo!
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^ 
please.
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i had pizza on our wedding night. 
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what a coincidence....so did i :@:
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now days i m thinking how to avoid s*x on first night.i mean without spoiling his mood.as we cant say bluntly no to a man whom we gona spend our rest of our life.u cant affort to spoil his mood.this no might effect yr whole life so
one can pray for her periods during wedding.so due to periods he wont b able to ve s*x with girl.but i heard sum boys not let her wife even in periods.(animals)
and i guess one can feel uncomfortable and pain during wedding due to periods.cant enjoy dholki mehndi and all hala gulal function properly
so wha i m thikng is ...i wont let him know that i m scared..will show him i m willing to intimate with him(althought i m not)
i,ll ask him rather i,ll show to him that due to the weight of the dupatta and jewllery my neck is hurting.
*and due to wedding functions...i m so tired ..couldnt sleep for few days cuz of dholkis ,couisn vice versa *
and the lethel excuse which i m thiking is start** lil crying with tears or show him that i m very sad(gher aur gher walon se becherne k ghum main)** he might get melow and mercy on me that i m sad and all he shouldnt do this right now ..
and i dont ve the thing on wedding night which i dont want
wat do think girls will these bahanas work or should i seek more
what the...?
Just say it to him...you're marrying him! And on the first night you're gonna start lying? Remember that you gotta spend the rest of your life with him. Do you not love him enough to say it? Like Gina~ said, you can blurt all this out on a public forum where millions of people are gonna read it yet you can't tell your life partner?
Nice :)
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I find it amusing! Being engaged to sumone n u still have to plan stuff out? Begin u're new life with a lie? EVERY girl has enuff information be it mashriki or maghribi so why pretend and act? Taubaaah! Imagine thinking of what and how to say it to u're married partner but you can tell the entire public forum plus visitors...u wish for peroids..thinking of crying.. drama of being tired etc! LOL why the drama...
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Sharam Karo!
yahaan to besharemoo ki mehfil lagi hai...... !!!....
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i dont understand how this is shameful. please enlighten me on why we should be ashamed of talking about sex? or would u rather keep quiet so that these women will have sex with their husbands only because the men want it and the girls really believe they have no right to deny them?
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Hai Allah kab yahan log post kerna bandh karain gai. Agar itna shauk hai jab aap sab ki hogi then pata chal jai ga, y create silly threads?
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Kjal, go jump in a river. such stupidity…seriously.
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^ lol, i agree
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and otherthing is one of my freind told me sumthing that is for those girls who lost their love cuz of any reason i mean didnt manage to marry with him and they got married with other guy.
she told me when 1st time he start doing fore play n later s*x . she supposed that her love is doing all this .and in this way she got a courage to have s*x for first tym even she calmly bear all the pain and all stuff even sharam haya thing
and now when ever she has inimate with her hubby she thinks about her love and thats help her alot to get intimate with her hubby
i m not sure but may b islamically its a sin thinkingg abt other guy.....
once i talk abt it that it is not right but she said she cant see her hubby having s*x with her.it isvery unpleasant for her. she said she feels like raped and harresed if she think abt his hubby.
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Im sorry but why the hell did she marry him? Thats just so wrong and strange..
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seriously. the posts in this threa dkeep getting stupier and stupider.
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^^I completely agree Sara...these girls should NOT be getting married.
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These girls shud join Ekta Kapoor's drama serials..
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@ some of the replies