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Hai Allah kab yahan log post kerna bandh karain gai. Agar itna shauk hai jab hogi then pata chal jai ga, y create silly threads?
lol, tum yahaan aana band kar do tumhe kon force kar raha hai :p
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seriously. the posts in this threa dkeep getting stupier and stupider.
tells you something about the night the posters will be spending like....
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gina, you are dead on.
this is so stupid, so fake, and so THARKI that its really pathetic...
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so the conclusion to this thread?
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Please what? Sharam ke hadd par nahin karni chahiyeh.
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well i think suhag raat is special bcoz its the first nite u and ur husband r officially guna spend together, and u r goin to remember it no matter wat u do.
im feeling quite nervous and happy at the same time bout mine :)
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wow.... how interesting.... and there i was thinking that most men were all dogs.... but with women like u.... who are gonna make stupid excuses every night... no wonder men look elsewhere.... what you guys are all talking abt here is an incredibly intimate topic.... why think like this only to cry later??? all you girls just have one thing in mind. get married to a guy who can provide you with all ur material glory... nice dresses, shoes, bags a big house etc.... most of you wudnt even give a **** if he slept around with other women... i think its disgusting.... and u are taking the piss out of a very beautiful relationship between a husband and a wife..... marriage is sacred, thats why we celebrate it and its because of that that most of us are happy and want to look our best for our husbands on the wedding.... not because you wanna be the talk of the town and look like freakin aishwariya for the day! if you really are that backward and dont wanna get to know ur supposed before you get married then at least wait till your married and then like normal, educated, humans talk it out with your men.... they are insaan too... anyone who wants to make a relationship work wont just jump on you on the first oportunity they get... so save yourselves the headache... choote choote dimaaghon par itna zoor mat lagao plz.... and grow up!
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wow.... how interesting.... and there i was thinking that most men were all dogs.... but with women like u.... who are gonna make stupid excuses every night... no wonder men look elsewhere.... what you guys are all talking abt here is an incredibly intimate topic.... why think like this only to cry later??? all you girls just have one thing in mind. get married to a guy who can provide you with all ur material glory... nice dresses, shoes, bags a big house etc.... most of you wudnt even give a **** if he slept around with other women... i think its disgusting.... and u are taking the piss out of a very beautiful relationship between a husband and a wife..... marriage is sacred, thats why we celebrate it and its because of that that most of us are happy and want to look our best for our husbands on the wedding.... not because you wanna be the talk of the town and look like freakin aishwariya for the day! if you really are that backward and dont wanna get to know ur supposed before you get married then at least wait till your married and then like normal, educated, humans talk it out with your men.... they are insaan too... anyone who wants to make a relationship work wont just jump on you on the first oportunity they get... so save yourselves the headache... choote choote dimaaghon par itna zoor mat lagao plz.... and grow up!
well said!
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^ i dont think anyone was talking about material things or how they look on the wedding day. but i agree these girls, specially kjal need to grow up. its ridiculous that they dont wanna talk to their soon-to-be spouse about it. cuz im sure the men do feel nervous about it too, and have the same hesitations. they too are probably nervous and excited and if they are even remotely human they will care about how u feel about it and will not want to rush into it if u dont want to. and if u speak to them about it before hand and they dont give a crap about how u feel about it, then that should just be a red flag telling u to not get married to him.
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now days i m thinking how to avoid s*x on first night.i mean without spoiling his mood.as we cant say bluntly no to a man whom we gona spend our rest of our life.u cant affort to spoil his mood.this no might effect yr whole life so
one can pray for her periods during wedding.so due to periods he wont b able to ve s*x with girl.but i heard sum boys not let her wife even in periods.(animals)
and i guess one can feel uncomfortable and pain during wedding due to periods.cant enjoy dholki mehndi and all hala gulal function properly
so wha i m thikng is ...i wont let him know that i m scared..will show him i m willing to intimate with him(althought i m not)
i,ll ask him rather i,ll show to him that due to the weight of the dupatta and jewllery my neck is hurting.
and due to wedding functions...i m so tired ..couldnt sleep for few days cuz of dholkis ,couisn vice versa
and the lethel excuse which i m thiking is start lil crying with tears or show him that i m very sad(gher aur gher walon se becherne k ghum main) he might get melow and mercy on me that i m sad and all he shouldnt do this right now ..
and i dont ve the thing on wedding night which i dont want
wat do think girls will these bahanas work or should i seek more
**Well..... to start with u pray for ur periods... then you decide no.. wait a sec.... i wont enjoy this wedding if i have my periods... (as if thats the main thing... three/four days.... what abt the rest of ur freakin life?) so lets think of another lie i can tell my husband.... coz thats the way to do it... start a new life with a great well planed LIE!!!
why.... why does sex has to be sumthing so disgusting, terrible and scary for most women in pak??? its natural.... everyone does it! and as far as it being painful is concerned....its only the once! u wanna have babies dont u???? or you gonna make 1001 excuses for that too..?
KJAL .... you are very jaahil.... go to school... and if you have.. then repeat coz u obviously didnt go their to learn.... u r no longer in the 18th century.... where women were told to lie back and think of their country.... and having a sexual relationship with ur husband is no taboo...
are u even serious abt these things.. i feel like im wasting my time here... ur prolly getting off on this.... some of ur posts are absolutely obscene.... !
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Suhagraat
Salamz to all readers,
I am a new user of this site. there is a lot of very helpful material that everyone of you has contributed.
I will be getting married in 2 months time, I would only like to know views about sexual activity on the "Suhagraat".
If please some one can give reference from Islamic view on this I will be very thankful.
If already some discussion has been done on this topic plz refer me to that link.
just wash sum1 havin action then u learn how to do it
lolzzz:)
I didn't mean that, I know how to do it.
My question to the audience is that should it be done?? or does the gals feel better not doing it the first night?? or is it necessary to do it the first night
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not neccesary, depends if u and her feel comfortable go for it, akhir bya kiya to kiya keeya
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Oh God, not another thread on this!
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^all these users with multinicks.. uff, femme needs to ban them.
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Awww, lets not get on about this topic, people!...Its a BIG thing and its something that many Desi gals have to face and its very certainly understandable that there is a certain nervousness about it. I cannot imagine having sexual relations with someone I do not love with all my heart. Its the most personal and intimate thing that could ever be shared with another human being....so of course when a gal doesnt know the guy, there will be questions and nervousness. So lets be supportive yeah?
Linux,
You do not HAVE to have relations with your new hubby on the first night. If it happens and if he makes you comfortable enough to go thru with it then by all means, enjoy! But if you prefer to wait then that is perfectly OK too. And that is not only the Islaamic view but the human view.
If you marry a really good man, one who has your best interests at heart and also can empathize with you, then things very well may work out on the wedding night. Some men are every but as shy and nervous as the bride so sometimes it works out better when you wait. Its all up to no one but YOU and your hubby. So before the wedding, go to Micky D's and have a burger, save a ketchup pouch and if you and hubby decide that its better to wait, have a good laugh together by ketchup-ing the sheets.
Be sure to post some photos of the big day! I wish you the very best of happiness, health and prosperity!
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Yes, thou shall must have sex on your first night.
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funny thing is when she says she knws how to do it hahhahahahahaha bt still asking wt happens this is hilarious
Aye people wake up, I am a man and I have clearly asked in my question if the girls feel comfortable with that..... lolzz :)
Very funny mizzrani, I am already too nervous and u cann't find anything else other than to make fun lolzzzz :)
I apologize to Iram and Shay for starting such an out of circle thread, but seriously I need a little help, I also asked that already if discussion has taken place please forward me to that thread.
Lastly, thanx to mamaof for good advices but how did u made the mistake of taking me as a girl.... lolzz :)