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^ ppl not funny
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ok i ws js tryna help
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ya i know....im sorry...
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I think i get your question now.. i dont know how youl take it coming from a guy!
but yeh id be concerned....2 years is a long time to wait....for a guy!
Does that help?
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yeh that helps…wen r the girls gonna cum online…
y do i feel like the whole GS is lafin at me?..
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I think I know what ur asking. It is a common myth in south asia that if you don't "do it" on your wedding nite your valima would not be halal. It is totally wrong. i was the oldest in my family and was the first in my friends to get married. I cried until 4:00 AM on my wedding night coz I missed my family and friends too much :P I got married here in US and nobody from my family and friendz were able to attend my wedding except for mom dad and sisters.
One of friends called me a WEEK after her wedding and asked me for advice as she was STILL scared. I know of many instances where girls are scared to "do it". It's completely natural.
We south asian women are raised very differently and are asked to hide ourselves from men and I know it takes a while to come out of that shyness and expose urself in front of a man.
I also know of a friend who took almost two months "to do".
Normal is a very relative term and means different to different people.
DOn't worry about anything dear! Take your time! I'm sure your husband appreciates that he married a girl who has not done it a million of times with million other guyz and stayed pure for him. I'm sure he will give you the time to adjust to this completely different lifestyle.
Don't let this issue frustrate you even more than not "doing it". You would ahve to relax and not think about anything else! A calmer mind helps and so does KY gel!
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Sorry Aashi
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You are very brave in posting it here and I think all of us should keep that in mind when we are replying!
Thanx for the trust! I wish I could do something to ease your mind !
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without getting too personal...talk to your husband...vice versa too!
And no one else needs to know...its your business no one else...Im sure the more religious contributors will be able to provide some reference as to how discussing such intimate issues openly...is not a muslim/muslimahs way!
Please refrain from using the C word in your posts...Its merits are being discussed in another post! lol
Anyway glad to help!
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wots the C word?.. and wot merits are being discussed in other posts?..
ofcourse its between a husband and a wife…no doubt…but wen that dosnt help u have to start seeking advice isnt it?..
mein heraan houn…everything gets discussed on this relationship forum…from waxing to dating from marriage to divorces…and jus coz iv asked sumthing which i need help with (the reality)…everybody starts looking unjaan…
no reference to you STONECOLD
Re: walima halal kurna...
I think I know what ur asking. It is a common myth in south asia that if you don't "do it" on your wedding nite your valima would not be halal. It is totally wrong. i was the oldest in my family and was the first in my friends to get married. I cried until 4:00 AM on my wedding night coz I missed my family and friends too much :P I got married here in US and nobody from my family and friendz were able to attend my wedding except for mom dad and sisters.
One of friends called me a WEEK after her wedding and asked me for advice as she was STILL scared. I know of many instances where girls are scared to "do it". It's completely natural.
We south asian women are raised very differently and are asked to hide ourselves from men and I know it takes a while to come out of that shyness and expose urself in front of a man.
I also know of a friend who took almost two months "to do".
Normal is a very relative term and means different to different people.
DOn't worry about anything dear! Take your time! I'm sure your husband appreciates that he married a girl who has not done it a million of times with million other guyz and stayed pure for him. I'm sure he will give you the time to adjust to this completely different lifestyle.
Don't let this issue frustrate you even more than not "doing it". You would ahve to relax and not think about anything else! A calmer mind helps and so does KY gel!
thanks.....
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Ignore the C word lol
Ok quite blatantly putting it..im surprised why its not happend for you for 2 years...speaking from a guys point of view... bakri daikh kai us ki raal kyoun nahi tapki ....i dont know...but we dont hang around!
Yourself knows better as to the probable reasons as to why it hasnt happened....apart from the "scared bachi" scenario!
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^^
ok i cant talk to u nemore......
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i was probably crude..apologies!
but like i said you should figure it out soon!
Good luck
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2 years i thort u were onli married for 4 months ? from the pictures that u posted or havei got it all wrong
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its jus bin 4 months…2 yrs was an example…
and im asking in general…y is everybody pointing at me?..
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Oh for God's sake. Why take other people's advice? Every couple's situation is different, just do whatever you and your husband feel is appropriate whenever you two feel it is. Why would it matter when others did it, you are not them.
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was wondering wen u were gona show up…
…bin hangin round this thread for a while havnt u…
yes i know that too…but because i feel abnormal…jus wanted to ask sum ladies wehther im feeling paranoid or not…
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then howcome I didnt understand u better 
FYI Im a mashaAllah good lookin hatti katti larki 
now let me go read the whole thread 
after reading the thread …*
so it is what I thought it is … wats the confusion about?? lol I shouldnt even be askin .. carry on with the discussion 
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Pathani: **thanx for clarifyin :k:
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im sure ur hutti kutti…
i dont wanna discuss thie further…i feel like a joke…actually i’d rather pm my lady friends and ask them personally…