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Guys why dont we give the OP the benefit of the doubt? If its genuine and we dont help thats worse than just feeding a random troll.
have u spoken to your parents about this matter or any elder family members?
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I know you won't believe this but...
I asked her we should move out and was greeted with big fat NO!
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You know it is a troll because you would have heard an honor killing before the posting of this thread in the news by now.
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I know you won't believe this but... I asked her we should move out and was greeted with big fat NO!
Only standing in front of the tube would change her mind I tell you....
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You don't know those mirpuri punjabi girls as they are very taiz....
she msut want the green card then. and then she's gonna run away with this new fb friend.
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They have green card in UK?
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^or the equivalent 
i’m sure the mirpuri wife knows what it’s called
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but these stories are very common (with the brother-in-law)
so you mean that most brother in law are out there trying to score their bhaaabi???
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I know you won't believe this but... I asked her we should move out and was greeted with big fat NO!
Set a trap, steal your brothers phone and text her asking her to meet you in his room totally naked and blindfolded. Then when she is in there tell your mom to go check his room.
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Just out of curiosity…do u feel any kind of interest shown in your wife from your brother?
as for your wife you need to talk to her clearly and ask her why is she behaving like this? when she never liked you why did she say yes to the marriage?
its good that you havenot reacted in an aggressive/angry way..you have kept it cool
her age makes me seem to think that she is still a kid and wasnot ready for the marriage 
moreover keep praying to god and inshallah it will all be good for you
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I dont think He's a troll cus I was in similar situation n know dat stupid n unfortunate things do happen, only thing now is how he gets out of the situation. I did n im a woman dat risked loosing everything n everyone. so lets see how long it takes him to come back on here n tell us wat he did to prove himself a man again. Good Luck OP
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Brother has done absolutely nothing wrong, that's for sure.
She used to like me fine, she loved me visiting Pak throughout the 12 months nikkah period, we communicated on skype etc no problems.
As I said, totally not ready for marriage and the responsibility.
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Brother has done absolutely nothing wrong, that's for sure.
She used to like me fine, she loved me visiting Pak throughout the 12 months nikkah period, we communicated on skype etc no problems.
As I said, totally not ready for marriage and the responsibility.
What would be the best outcome for you?
Also your brother is doing something wrong, he knows the situation is causing tension in your marriage, he should refuse to talk to your wife and not respond to her texts. If I had a sister and her husband admitted he was attracted to me and it was causing problems I would cut all contact with him. Your brother should be loyal to you not her.
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save your brother mate..
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Set a trap, steal your brothers phone and text her asking her to meet you in his room totally naked and blindfolded. Then when she is in there tell your mom to go check his room.
Posts the pic here, of course blurred in the right spots, to show you are a man who takes no ****!
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Are you serious? Ok first of all…tell your brother to mind his own business and try to avoid her. I dont understand how you are taking all this so leniently and not even being harsh to her and your brother (Your bro doesnt seem to be a saint either). Tell her strictly to get herself straight otherwise tell her to not bother coming back from pakistan 
Such immature behaviors from married couples make me just 
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Brother has done absolutely nothing wrong, that's for sure.
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yeah right.....so if he is getting 2000 msgs in a month from his newly wed bhabi, doesnt it ring a bell to him? He should at least try to avoid her, she talks to him because he listens - simple.
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I didnt read the rest of the posts but your tale is sad and i feel sorry for you.
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This is true and i am beginning to doubt my engagement too, however i think you should tell your brother about your situation alone and see what he has to say. What if your brother like your wife and is forcing her or somethin; i'm just sayin
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Never forget the golden and the most important rule COMMUNICATION to you alone And talk to your brother alone and your wife alone too see what is the whole game thats happening around you ;)
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U need to ask her if shes interested in making this marriage work or not. If she wants out or what, because this behaviour is leading to that and theres only so much which can be bourne by one person in a marriage.