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Looll when my sis got married, she got married back in Pakistan (this is about 10 years ago now) and they displayed all the gifts given to her by her in laws on the wedding day. At some point in the day they decided to show everything she was given, from hankies and undies to her gold sets, just to emphasise just how THOUGHTFUL they were.
to this day when we see the wedding video and how all the aunties are picking it up to display proudly to the guests it still makes us all crack up
Re: Underwear as Gift
Looll when my sis got married, she got married back in Pakistan (this is about 10 years ago now) and they displayed all the gifts given to her by her in laws on the wedding day. At some point in the day they decided to show everything she was given, from hankies and undies to her gold sets, just to emphasise just how THOUGHTFUL they were.
to this day when we see the wedding video and how all the aunties are picking it up to display proudly to the guests it still makes us all crack up
OMG thank God it doesn’t happen in weddings now. The display of bari/jahez…or does it ?
Re: Underwear as Gift
Looll when my sis got married, she got married back in Pakistan (this is about 10 years ago now) and they displayed all the gifts given to her by her in laws on the wedding day. At some point in the day they decided to show everything she was given, from hankies and undies to her gold sets, just to emphasise just how THOUGHTFUL they were.
to this day when we see the wedding video and how all the aunties are picking it up to display proudly to the guests it still makes us all crack up
That’s so embarrassing! I think underwear should remain a private gift…
Sehrysh
October 25, 2011, 5:41pm
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Him paying for your trip to VS is a gift to HIMSELF and not just for you…totally a win-win situation
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no actually its a win-win-win situation for her, him and VS
NomiCA
October 25, 2011, 5:43pm
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All you girls want stuff…has it ever occured to you people to give gifts too???
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^If you read the posts Nomi, I along w/ Deeba (I think) said we’d love to gift undies as well.
Yup, since we’re such sentis.
NomiCA
October 25, 2011, 5:58pm
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^If you read the posts Nomi, I along w/ Deeba (I think) said we’d love to gift undies as well.
Yup, since we’re such sentis.
now the chai smiley confused me…
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are u an SO yet? or do you have your target set on something to give it to?
TLK
October 25, 2011, 6:49pm
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I am sepcifically discussing a scenario where couple is not married yet:
Dont you need to know the exact measurement of your partner to gift her the undergarments? How do you communicate that to your SO?
Re: Underwear as Gift
no u dont need to… just bring her to an expensive lingerie place and pay the bill…
… or if you want a total surprise surprise… then give her the gift alongwith the gift receipt … she will take care of the rest…
TLK
October 25, 2011, 7:03pm
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SO its ok to take your girlfriend or your fiance to a lingerie place nowadays, in our culture?
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we are not talking about what is ok or what is not…right?
Niksik
October 25, 2011, 7:07pm
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^^ I suppose so.
We’re just buRhay log now…this generation is very smooth !
Niksik
October 25, 2011, 7:08pm
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but we can. And the OP is asking if it is OK to give it as a gift…meaning is it appropriate, meaning is it OK…It’s Life1
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I am sepcifically discussing a scenario where couple is not married yet:
Dont you need to know the exact measurement of your partner to gift her the undergarments? How do you communicate that to your SO?
sing a song
eik doo teeen
chaar panch cheey saat aaath nau das giyara…
barha taira…
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i m not sure if OP was asking about from religious/morality point of view or formality p.o.v
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buy gift card instead most of the underwear are final sale.