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loved it today
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Cried too much today:(I feel so sorry for both Moiz and Ayesha.
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grt episode. i want a happy ending for moiz and ayesha. they have suffered enough.
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do jootay for jawad...
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can someone please post a recap of today's episode?
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^^ IMO not much happened this week either. They are really dragging it to make it 25 episodes or something.
Ayesha asked for a divorce from Moiz so she could marry Jawad. Then he called Jawad and he goes "oops sorry girl like my mom is totally nuts and would kill herself if I married you - you know what I'm sayin'" Ayesha is totally devastated. Her mom and bro are all against her too. Moiz says that he will keep Noor if Ayesha leaves or if she gets a divorce.
Back to the future - Moiz's mom says sorry to Moiz because she now realizes that she ruined his family life. Moiz says there is no point now - what if his life got ruined, at least his sisters' and brother's lives got made.
Ayesha asks Noor if Noor can ever forgive her parents but she walks off.
Ayesha's SIL tells her that she needs to come back and take care of the mom since the younger bro and his wife are not treating her well. Ayesha says she will since she has no reason to stay anyways.
Moiz talks to his bro and tells him that if he doesn't treat mom well then he's going to get Mom to come to Turkey and sell the house. Younger bro gets all worried and says he will be cool as a cucumber with mommy now.
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Would you all still defend Ayesha if she had slept with Jawad?
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^ This is just a drama and that to a Pakistani drama so obviously whatever is conveyed is mostly made to make people understand in their heads rather then visually see and if it wasn't shown that way then why are you going so out of the box by asking people to assume and then think about the situation and answer or agree with you just so you can win the argument. It is clearly showed that she just wanted a partner to be there for her, be the shoulder to cry on, have fun with, spend time with and walk with her rather then "rationally think"and expect her to understand while he is away from home and his family thinking that its for their own good. Money can't buy happiness is the thing they've showed here...If money is a persons practical need then love, affection etc are the spiritual needs...she found that in Jawwad so she went with the flow; when she realized that he too left her in the middle as a result she locked her heart and lived a like a zombie. Her cheating on her husband was never portrayed as her physical need but her need for filling the vacuum that Moiez left in her and her daughters life. Even her daughter is showed to have forgotten her father and considers Jawwad to be someone she can count on or be with...the stuff a child looks in his father at that age! So you should stop stressing yourself over a drama by thinking so rationally and so deep into it - its a story at the end of the day and there are much worse things going on in reality these days.
With this i rest my case (hopefully) unless there is something to say to something that people against Ayesha's acts have to say - Since i have been watching this argument going on and on and on for not so valid reasons.
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dera bugti...i dont think she was cheating at any point. as soon as she decided to part ways with moiz..she asked for a divorce. there was nothing shady or hypocritical about what she did...unlike moiz.
we cant blame either one...blame the circumstances and the culture.
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^ Good and valid point.
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^ This is just a drama and that to a Pakistani drama so obviously whatever is conveyed is mostly made to make people understand in their heads rather then visually see and if it wasn't shown that way then why are you going so out of the box by asking people to assume and then think about the situation and answer or agree with you just so you can win the argument. It is clearly showed that she just wanted a partner to be there for her, be the shoulder to cry on, have fun with, spend time with and walk with her rather then "rationally think"and expect her to understand while he is away from home and his family thinking that its for their own good. Money can't buy happiness is the thing they've showed here...If money is a persons practical need then love, affection etc are the spiritual needs...she found that in Jawwad so she went with the flow; when she realized that he too left her in the middle as a result she locked her heart and lived a like a zombie. Her cheating on her husband was never portrayed as her physical need but her need for filling the vacuum that Moiez left in her and her daughters life. Even her daughter is showed to have forgotten her father and considers Jawwad to be someone she can count on or be with...the stuff a child looks in his father at that age! So you should stop stressing yourself over a drama by thinking so rationally and so deep into it - its a story at the end of the day and there are much worse things going on in reality these days.
With this i rest my case (hopefully) unless there is something to say to something that people against Ayesha's acts have to say - Since i have been watching this argument going on and on and on for not so valid reasons.
Two thumbs up.I love for answering so well and shutting them up.Men can never undersand Ayesha's feelings.Infact not only men but majority of our ppl won't understand.its not only sexual desires which make u to want to have a life partner there are many more things in life.
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dera bugti...i dont think she was cheating at any point. as soon as she decided to part ways with moiz..she asked for a divorce. there was nothing shady or hypocritical about what she did...unlike moiz.
we cant blame either one...blame the circumstances and the culture.
V V true and i feel sorry for both of them Equally.
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stepping away from the computer for a few hrs does not = me being shut up.
secondly, my question was not 'over-analyzing' the drama as teelobhain above implied.
i was merely looking to gauge the level of thinking/liberalness of the females here....
so i ask again: would y'all still defend ayesha if she had slept with jawad? (simple yes or no would do :) )
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^Dera islamically a woman can claim khulla n move on if her husband stays away for work for more than 6 months n doesn't come even on her call. sexual desire is a part of man n wife relationship n if that need is not fulfilled there's no point in nikkah which is to discourage zina. faraz is not fulfilling his duty as a husband or a father which is more than giving food, clothing n providing a shelter. ager Rasool Allah ne is point pe khulla allow ker dia tha tu tumhain kia masla hai. y u want a woman to be loyal to the point where she lives like a zombie n yea finally thats wat happens to her. her khawahish k baghair zinda lash, ignored n enslaved but still married n faithful(no one else came in her life after jawwad)
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^ yar aap log detail mein kyu jaa re hain? all im asking is that if ayesha had sex with jawad before khulla/talaaq would everyone still defend her...simple.
im not implying anything nor am i defending moiz/criticizing ayesha. i just want to see what the thinking is amongst gals here....
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^but that is out of context. if you want people to consider that scenario then make a drama like that.
dont manipulate this screenplay.
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^ obviously im asking out of context....its a hypothetical situation; assume everything in the drama is still the same but she does this act..... do you still defend her?
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make a life1 thread.
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Agar Magar in the way a drama has already been made is not even necessary! and then why do you care what peoples ideas are about adultery indirectly by asking them to consider or ponder upon it by manipulating a fictional character and the story of a drama where the storyline is no where near that. What would you get by knowing what the females think about such situation...each to its own, a persons thoughts don't reflect their personality or acts in real life...so why even bother going there?
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^why are u being difficult?
addenum: so we can discuss all other issues of a troubled marriage but when it comes to sex no one wants to touch it...is that right?
its a simple question; i don't know any of you personally....as i mentioned earlier i just want gauge the level of thinking....thats it.