Dekhay mein tau admit kar ra hoon ke whatever moiz is doing is 100% wrong. No question about it. At the same time what ayesha is doing is also very wrong.
Best friends or friends in general are suppose to call their friend's wife as bhabi; here there is so much informality. Its like jawad and ayesha feel like there is no barrier between them.
I just know that I wouldn't feel comfortable with my wife doing that; nor would I do what moiz is doing.
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what ayesha is doing so far is not wrong. in absence of any male support Jawwad is helping her out and he has moiz's approval for that( chk preview for next episode where moiz says to his mom" main ne khud jawwad ko keha hai...."). also jawwad is a common friend. chk how moiz's mom send jawwad to pick ayesha from her mother's house when she came to visit her mom. so family itself is using his help as a replacement to moiz. also the family constantly pushes her to talk to jawwad for maleeha. being friendly n being flirty are two diff things. and if u pak men are sooo full of ghairat what's the pont of leaving ur wives n daughters alone in a society full of hungry wolves while deciding to go abroad for a better life for ur mom n sisters???
i have a gut feeling may be jawwad start to take interest in ayesha seeing moiz's change of heart.
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what ayesha is doing so far is not wrong. in absence of any male support Jawwad is helping her out and he has moiz's approval for that( chk preview for next episode where moiz says to his mom" main ne khud jawwad ko keha hai...."). also jawwad is a common friend. chk how moiz's mom send jawwad to pick ayesha from her mother's house when she came to visit her mom. so family itself is using his help as a replacement to moiz. also the family constantly pushes her to talk to jawwad for maleeha. being friendly n being flirty are two diff things. and if u pak men are sooo full of ghairat what's the pont of leaving ur wives n daughters alone in a society full of hungry wolves while deciding to go abroad for a better life for ur mom n sisters???
i have a gut feeling may be jawwad start to take interest in ayesha seeing moiz's change of heart.
Actually Saba Hameed's character did give a 'taana' to Aisha about going for 'sair sapati' with Jawad.
Secondly, you're right about Moiz's approval but that just goes to show you his baigharati - not only is he flirting with aneela but also allows another man to take his wife out (reasons not important). For him to go abroad to earn a better living is not the problem nor are responsibilities of family (mothers/sisters) lifted after marriage. HIs reason's for leaving were correct (no matter how much is wife disapproves) but for him to befriend aneela in the way he has is not justified nor is ayesha's dosti with jawad.
I'm all done debating with u gals. Lets see what happens in the next episode.
I am loving this drama sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much, its awesome, and really seems like a true story- It not UK they are in, right? Its Turkey I think! what you all say?
One Stupid person can ruin so many lives.moiz is getting fresh meat then why he should go for aisha:) in my opinion the whole blame goes to moiz and his mom:snooty:
Can't believe the lack of objectivity with you gals.
Spare a thought for Moiz; everytime he calls home either his mother starts badmouthing his wife or his wife starts complaining of the zulm that she is suffering through. Working long hours one expects some sympathy or care from ghar wallay. Ofcourse it doesn't mean that he starts an affair with another girl but I think the circumstances were such that he fell for the affectionate hands of Aneela; aur phir larkion ki dosti bhi bari khatarnaak hoti hai....mazaa hi aur hai uska (unfortunately).
Khair, I would suggest that we be fair in analyzing this drama :).
I think everyone is to blame for the fallout - Moiz, Ayesha, and the MIL/SILs. The MIL might be more to blame than the rest of the gang but still everyone took part in driving eachother apart. And who suffered the most? - the daughter unfortunately.
It is one of those sad realities where the pages do seem like they have been lifted from numerous real life stories.
Can't believe the lack of objectivity with you gals.
Spare a thought for Moiz; everytime he calls home either his mother starts badmouthing his wife or his wife starts complaining of the zulm that she is suffering through. Working long hours one expects some sympathy or care from ghar wallay. Ofcourse it doesn't mean that he starts an affair with another girl but I think the circumstances were such that he fell for the affectionate hands of Aneela; aur phir larkion ki dosti bhi bari khatarnaak hoti hai....mazaa hi aur hai uska (unfortunately).
Khair, I would suggest that we be fair in analyzing this drama :).
Stop justifying his hypocrisy!!! wrong is wrong! it doesn't matter whether a woman does it or a man! Working long hours? I could say the samething about his wife. She works long hours at home, cooks for everyone, takes care of her baby, washes all the clothes, listen to all the taanas from her saas and at the end she needs someone to vent out her frustrations...she needs some sympathy and care from ghar wallays too. she considers moiz to be not just her husband but her best friend...its only natural that she expresses her anger, and complains about all that she has to put up with....she could say the same thing
"offcourse it doesn't mean that she starts an affair with another man but I think the circumstances were such that she fell for the affectionate hands of jawad" how does that same statement sound to you now? point is if she does it you are calling it "baighairtee" but if a man does it you are justifying it by saying "aur phir larkion ki dosti bhi bari khatarnaak hoti hai...mazaa hi aur hai uska" He made a commitment to her...didn't he? did she not stop him from going overseas? (yes) did she not explain to him that she needs him to be there for her because she can't deal with her in-laws everyday? what was his answer? main paisai kamaanai jaa raha hoon...I will call you everyday to make sure everything is okay....did he live upto his commitments? besides those everyday fights between saas and bahu were a regular even when he was still in pakistan. Fights and arguments happen in everyhome does that mean you go off to another woman "because circumstances were such" there are plenty of other people who can provide you with an affectionate hand (god, mother, friends, etc etc).
I would suggest that YOU be fair in analyzing this drama!
not much happened today :( glad to see that noor and the brother are coming along. I cant wait till next week, the conversation between aisha and moiz's mother!!
janaab, uske liye aap ne mera ‘fraand’ ban na hoga… …
…chalein khair hai; just type in ‘neelam muneer’ (exactly as this spelling) (her fan page with like 10k likes) and go to the photos tab. a bunch of albums there and the dude with the beard is him…
vaisay mainay seriously socha tha ke i would go to karachi and try to charm her…(i also had the foreign citizen and doctor thing going for me; thought it’d be a slam dunk)…khair ab kya kar sak te hain…
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