Tum vs Aap

[redvelvet]

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@TS

Wow. Even with children ? He must be a very patient man. :)

Lol, my dad is the same as Jolie's dad. He uses aap with kids as well.

[mahool]

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@Jolie

My Father has always used the word aap for all his children even when we were young (and notoriously shararti), and same is the case with my uncles. My parents use the Punjabi variant of aap when talking to each other or people in general.

@redvelvet

Lol, my dad is the same as Jolie’s dad. He uses aap with kids as well.

Interesting…

[TS]

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@redvelvet

Lol, my dad is the same as Jolie's dad. He uses aap with kids as well.

I can see with other people's kids but with your own kids ? That is interesting.

How do you discipline them ? I guess it is possible. :)

[TLK]

@mahool:10059655

@""Jolie""

My Father has always used the word aap for all his children even when we were young (and notoriously shararti), and same is the case with my uncles. My parents use the Punjabi variant of aap when talking to each other or people in general.

@""redvelvet""

Lol, my dad is the same as Jolie’s dad. He uses aap with kids as well.

Interesting…

Yeah jaan ke bohut afsos hua ke aap ke buzurgon ne hameshaa aap ko tu taRaak ker ke bulaaya hai

[redvelvet]

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@TS

I can see with other people's kids but with your own kids ? That is interesting.

How do you discipline them ? I guess it is possible. :)

My dad uses aap with other people's kids too. I don't remember him disciplining us about it. I do recall my mom telling us to use aap for everyone. My mom used to order Urdu books to teach us the language on weekends and holidays. And some of the stories dealt with adab and maybe during those times she also mentioned using aap, as in connection to the lesson. Not sure, have a hazy memory, but I do remember Mom being the one to emphasize and chide for using aap.

[Jolie]

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@TS

Wow. Even with children ? He must be a very patient man. :)

@redvelvet

Lol, my dad is the same as Jolie's dad. He uses aap with kids as well.

For example if my little self goes upto my dad and pulls a baby face and says 'baba bhook lagi hai' and my father would politely reply as *"tou mera beta aapne khana kyoon nahi kahya jab sab kha rahe they".

But you are right, my dad's indeed a very patient and loving father. My grandmother to this day doesn't understand that how a man so composed yet *barop can have such "aflatoon" kids.

[TS]

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@TLK

Yeah jaan ke bohut afsos hua ke aap ke buzurgon ne hameshaa aap ko tu taRaak ker ke bulaaya hai

Mahool’s response.

I am sure there is a place between ‘aap janaab’ and ‘tu taRaak’.

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[Jolie]

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@TS

I can see with other people's kids but with your own kids ? That is interesting.

How do you discipline them ? I guess it is possible. :)

Oh no, even though my father is quite laid back when's he's at home and affectionate with his children, but trust me, his 'no' meant 'no'. My mother would spend the entire day telling us not do something, and we'd somehow still manage to do the opposite of her order. But if my father said 'no' to something with that look in his eyes and certain sternness in his voice, we would instantly realize that daddy means business.

[TS]

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That’s a blessing. You are lucky. :k:

[Jolie]

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It is a blessing to have parent (s) in your life, and it really shakes the foundation of your soul when you realise that you can only have these people for so long in your life.

[KKF]

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@Jolie

It is a blessing to have parent (s) in your life, and it really shakes the foundation of your soul when you realise that you can only have these people for so long in your life.

true. some of us take our parents for granted but since i lost my both parents at an early age, i know how valuable they are. i miss them every single day. i wish i got a chance as an adult to take care of them and serve them ... :(

[mahool]

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@TLK

Yeah jaan ke bohut afsos hua ke aap ke buzurgon ne hameshaa aap ko tu taRaak ker ke bulaaya hai

@redvelvet

My dad uses aap with other people’s kids too. I don’t remember him disciplining us about it. I do recall my mom telling us to use aap for everyone. My mom used to order Urdu books to teach us the language on weekends and holidays. And some of the stories dealt with adab and maybe during those times she also mentioned using aap, as in connection to the lesson. Not sure, have a hazy memory, but I do remember Mom being the one to emphasize and chide for using aap.

If I used tu tarakh and tum… means serious trouble and dant dapat…

[Jolie]

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@KKF

true. some of us take our parents for granted but since i lost my both parents at an early age, i know how valuable they are. i miss them every single day. i wish i got a chance as an adult to take care of them and serve them ... :(

Oh KKF, this is such a heartbreaking post. I am very sorry to hear about that.

You will get chance to see them and take care of them in jannat, inshAllah. You probably don't know how close to Allah talah you are. Prophet Muhammad pbuh also lost his parents and there's a message in his life for all us.

Now cheer up. Don't be sad.

[KKF]

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@Jolie

Oh KKF, this is such a heartbreaking post. I am very sorry to hear about that.

You will get chance to see them and take care of them in jannat, inshAllah. You probably don't know how close to Allah talah you are. Prophet Muhammad pbuh also lost his parents and there's a message in his life for all us.

Now cheer up. Don't be sad.

thank you.

i can do that in this world...i can take care of and serve my would-be wife's parents. :)

[Jolie]

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:k:

[TS]

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@KKF

true. some of us take our parents for granted but since i lost my both parents at an early age, i know how valuable they are. i miss them every single day. i wish i got a chance as an adult to take care of them and serve them …

[TS]

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@KKF

thank you.

i can do that in this world…i can take care of and serve my would-be wife’s parents.

Aray, yeh kiya keh diyaa aap nay.
Yeh to hamaari saqaafat kay sakht manaafi hai.

Just kidding.

[KKF]

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@TS

Aray, yeh kiya keh diyaa aap nay.
Yeh to hamaari saqaafat kay sakht manaafi hai.

Just kidding.

Life-1 meN aise Khayaalaat rakhnaa saKht man’a hai

[muqawwee123]

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@KKF

thank you.

i can do that in this world…i can take care of and serve my would-be wife’s parents.

saas bhi to maa hai , agar mehrbaan hai :hehe:

Saas Meri Saheli - Mein Kyon Sochoon Meri Maan Kahan …](http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sIReu55SFyA)

[muqawwee123]

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@KKF

Life-1 meN aise Khayaalaat rakhnaa saKht man'a hai :)

life1 main ye blasphemy hai aur saza sangsaar