Trying to Conceive (The highs and lows)

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Hey Ladies .. hope your all well InshaAllah
I have had the laparoscopy and I’m feeling much better mashaAllah … I’ve been off work since .. I will be going back on Monday .. I can’t believe I got through it .. It was so scary the whole experience .. but at least it’s all done now ..
They did tubal division on my left tube and didn’t touch my right tube .. I’m so glad .. That’s the first thing I asked when I woke up .. they said I have dissolving stitches but the stitches are still there .. hope they dissolve quickly .. my appointment to see the doctor is on 2[SUP]nd[/SUP] dec .. that’s when I think I’ll be signing all the documents/legal stuff for the IVF .. I’m so scared though :(
I’ll need lots of support from you lots to help me get through it … has anyone here had IVF before .. can you tell me about it .. your experience .. what should I do what I shouldn’t do etc .. I have a phobia of needles so I’m dreading all the injections etc I don’t know how I’m going to get through it all .. everyone knows how much of a softy I am they are all so worried for me especially my mum
Is there any duas I should read or anything special I should pray? Please let me know .. thankyou :)

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@sonipari IA you will be in my prayers. Hopefully your recovery goes fast so that you can start on IVF soon :-) don't be scared, just think all this hard work will be worth it iA. :-)

I'm currently in my two week wait period, my cycle is supposed to start on the 13th. I'm on progesterone (endometrin suppstories 2x a day) and those are not fun lol. I have a lot of nausea, very tired all the time. I just hope it works. Please keep me in your duas. :-)

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U r TTc since??

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@aris88- we've been trying to conceive for about 1.5-2 years.

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@sonipari At least you have the ball rolling! I am glad. I knew you could do it, MA! IA, you shall be a pro at the IVF too!! Keep us posted!

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So we are 0/3 in IUI attempts. Among the 3, this one probably hurts the most because I made it through the 2ww wait. I just want to crawl under a rock. I feel just devastated. My doctor said that I could do another round of IUI or just move to IVF. I have no idea what to do...I could do another round of IUI in December or just wait to do IVF. Part of me thinks that after 3 attempts IUI, most likely a 4th attempt Won't work but then again there's no harm in trying. If anything we can do IVF in the new year...

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Had a pregnancy right away after trying, which ended up in a miscarriage. Hospitals scare me and only hubby was there throughout the miscarriage phase. It was extremely stressful and emotional. After taking the pill, doctor did an ultrasound and other tests to make sure everything was gone. It was.

It has been more than six months now and I have still not been able to conceive. Aunt Flo had always been regular for me, the 28 days visit for six days straight. Never failed to show up. After m/c, the visits have been just random. I'm going through tests now. Hopefully, everything is fine.

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Thanx so much .. I’m much better now and so proud I’ve had it done .. now onto the next step IVF

InshaAllah you will have good news to share soon .. good luck to you :slight_smile:

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Thankyou! .. I’m sooo glad its over and done with .. now need to focus on IVF .. I will do :slight_smile:

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Hey Everyone .. I've been to my appointment and I've signed everything for the IVF .. the dr said I have to wait for his letter then I have to ring on my first day of period requesting IVF treatment .. I think this might be in Jan sometime

anyway Christmas holidays are coming and my husband is going Umrah InshaAllah .. he wanted me to go aswell but at first I said no with having so much going on .. but just today I've made the decision of going too InshaAllah :) .. so ladies hubby n I will be going to do Umrah 18th Dec for 2week .. this is a good sign right? it's just before I start my treatment .. thats really pushed me to go .. keep me in your duas

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@sonipari! Congratulations on your upcoming umrah and the upcoming IVF. You should go IA! Pray for us too as shall we! May Allah give you a healthy happy baby soon and take you smoothly through the IVF process, I know you are scared of that.

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Sonipari remember me in ur prayers :-)

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Kya ap mujhy btasakty hen k laproscopic surgery py kitna expense hoa tha?

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Hey Ladies, I’m back!! .. it’s been so long since I last posted .. well update with everything is ….
I went for Umrah in December .. It was absolutely AMAZING!!! I don’t think I can describe the whole experience in words .. It was beyond beautiful and special .. I loved every minute of it .. I left myself there :( … I realllllly realllllly want to go back .. this life that we’ve come back in seems so wrong I can’t stop thinking about it .. alhumdulilah for an amazing experience :)
About me ttc … well when I got back my letter still hadn’t come .. the letter to say I can request treatment so I called them up myself and told them .. they said to ring on day 1 of my next period .. so Feb 1[SUP]st[/SUP] 2016 I called them up requesting treatment .. they called me back and told me to come in for my teach on the 11[SUP]th[/SUP] which is today .. so I went in today for my teach .. they showed us how to do the injections .. what the plan is .. I’m on the short protocol .. my injections and medication still hasn’t been delivered to me I don’t know why .. nurse said she’ll chase it up ..vNow I have to wait for my next period and from then if they accept me that month InshaAllah my IVF journey will begin ..
I am soooooooooo scared soooooooo scared I can’t explain .. I still don’t fully understand .. I just want a baby .. never in my life ever did I think that I would have to go through this .. anyway let’s hope it’ll work .. if you know me you’ll know I’m soooo scared of needles/ any kind of pain discomfort .. I just don’t do it .. I’m so hard work .. I hope I have the strength to get through it .. my husband will be doing my injections I think I’ll pass out if I do it :( ..
Please everyone remember me in your duas pleaaase ….. also if anyone knows anything which would help please tell me I would really really appreciate it .. like I said I don’t really know much .. I’m having it at St Marys in Manchester England
InshaAllah Allah jee will bless you all ladies ttc :)

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All the best to you! Just think about the end goal and not the tiny minor pain of the needles.

thankyou .. my medication came today .. some medication was to be stored in the fridge .. I'm so scared

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@sonipari Congrats on your umrah! IA all will be well. You have to go through needles and all during delivery too. You were so brave during your operation and IA you will be great with the rest too!

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Congrats sonipari for umrah :-)

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Hi sonipari remember me? We talked almost a year ago and than I stopped using this website forgot the password lol. Congratulations on your umrah May Allah fulfill all your desires ameen

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Thankyou :slight_smile: … InshaAllah I will get through it .. please keep me in your prayers