Re: Trying to Conceive (The highs and lows)
was going through the thread again ... really seeking for prayers from everybody.... things are getting harder.... i dont want to lose faith... plz pray for me everybody!! may Allah swt bless us a with healthy and long living baby soon
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INSHALLAH helpseeker.
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I m married and father of two sons. I just read this thread and thought of sharing my views. After our marriage, my wife did not conceive for initial six months. Later on, a friend advised me to calculate the days to do intercourse at correct time. She conceived on the first month when we did so. In fact, it is simple. Start calculating the days from the first day of menstrual cycle, which mean count five days from start of your period, then wait for further four days after termination of periods. Days 9 to 13 from the first day of periods are the most important and intercourse must be done regularly in those days. Break from sex in those 9 days also improves the sperm count of man. Inshallah, if rest all is fine and there is no medical problem, conception should occur. For the second pregnancy also, this method worked for us very well, and my wife conceived on first attempt. All the affected couples must try this method and hopefully should benefit.
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it is almost two months now since i order a pregnancy spell cast on me from this plus,two,three,four,eight,one,six,five,zero,six,one,five,eight,three or oduwalegba at out look dot com, i saw in a website on how he help a couple to get pregnant and i contacted him which i started seeing changes on my body since the first week of last month and it two months and i am carrying my own baby in my womb i am so happy that i finally get pregnant after all i have been through. contact him for any problems you are having, he will surely provide you a solution, All thanks be to him
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asSALAM.o.alaikum .
I hope that everyone is happy and fine ..
I wanted to share this with everyone ,
recite "astagfirullah" fluently everyday . It will balance your h0rm0ne levels.
2nd. Dont be disappointed pray to Allah and be happy dont think about pregnancy it will happen itself believe me.
3rd.eat raw vegies and fruits plus a glass of milk everyday. When your body will be ready to bear a baby you will fall pregnant . If you will take tension you will imbalance your h0rm0nes and you wont get positive results.
I have tried this and now im alhumdulilah pregnant after a painful year, without any treatment(medical).
Please pray for my healthy pregnancy .
I pray to Allah that bless my all my sister who are in this pain .. Aameen
dont forget to take folic acid tablet daily . It will incease fertility .
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Congratulations saniya.
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Congrats sania... I will follow this INSHALLAH:) can we recite daily or any specific time.. And what if not in a state of wudhu?
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thanks hmna and cancerian.
Thanks alot ..
Cancerian you can recite it every time , but make wadu , be in wadu you ll feel comfortable and relax.
Everything happens by the
will of Allah.
Everything comes at the right
time, Allah is the Best Planner,
never lose hope, trust Allah,
do your best and leave the rest to Allah.
in sha Allah” he will listen to your dua's one day on right time.
Pray for my safe and healthy pregnancy . I pray for my all sisters .
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JAZAKALLAH..INSHALLAH u will have a healthy pregnancy. AMEEN. ..remmber me also in yur prayers
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:) thanks alot cancerian .. May Allah bless you with a pious, cute and healthy child with a long life as s0on as he ..wants : )
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can i eat biryani in my 1st trimester?
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^of course you can!!
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thanks raania. I have taken hpt twice it was possitive , should i visit dr? I am a bit confused to see a dr because i am living on 3rd fl0or and stairs are very dangerous with long steps . I had planned that i will go after 1st trimester so that there will be lesS chances of danger . What you people advice me?
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^^So you will stay in your house on the third floor for the whole first trimester...??!?!?!
Yes,you should go see a doctor so that the proper antenatal care can begin and whatever questions and concerns you have can be addressed.Stairs will not cause you any harm as I am sure you wont be running down them or doing anything else of the sorts!
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Saniya.. where do you live? seriously going to the doc is much more important than worrying about stairs. pregnancy is not a disability.. dont make it sound like one.. stay active unless bed rest advised by the doc and inshaAllah everything will go smooth.
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okay i'm going to see. Im in karachi nazimabad.
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INSHALLAH JAZAKALLAH saniya... Great my mom house is in nazimbad.. No I don't think stairs can harm.. I also live in 3 rd floor my cuzn advice me to avoid stairs as I'm ttc. But I don't think it's an issue... Don't worry all will be fine and good INSHALLAH:)
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INSHALLAH JAZAKALLAH saniya... Great my mom house is in nazimbad.. No I don't think stairs can harm.. I also live in 3 rd floor my cuzn advice me to avoid stairs as I'm ttc. But I don't think it's an issue... Don't worry all will be fine and good INSHALLAH:)
You're so kind , main zyada door nhi jana chahti dr ko dikhane. Main chahti hun k qareeb ho koi gher se takay monthly check ups b karwae ja sken , main dr.sethna se pehle c0nsult kar rhi thi but 3 talwar clift0n boht door hy, or stairs ka dar muje meri pehli gynae dr ne dia hy she had stricktly forbade me for that during early pregnancy .. She said you didnt take any rest thats why you're bleeding which was mild in the starting and ended in worst miscarriage at 3 a.m i reached hospital at 8.oo am in hyd aga khan, there was no experienced dr to treat me, i had to wait till 12 i was sitting and there was no bed no n0thing to take rest, staff was so horrible, at 6 p.m my husband did some badmashi and they settled me in op room. It was a worst experience for me thats why i am scared of stairs. Only ultrasound and beta hcg had done in my case.
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Agree with u...ab zaida tar log qareeb hospitals mein hii jatey hain checkup ke liye... U can go in zaiuddin north dr.jaha ara done my mom case very nicely becoz of twins.In imam clinic Dr qamar murtaza.. Hope it help u..And u just take rest for few weeks and if u want to go for ultrasound or test just take small steps in stairs then rest it takes time but good for u..read aytal kursi to make hisar for u and ur child. ALLAH will protect u and ur child Ameen..
Whoever that doctor was that told you your miscarriage was because you didn’t take rest and went up and down stairs should be stripped of their license to practice medicine. What an incompetent doctor.
In the first trimester, if you are going to bleed/miscarriage, no amount of bed rest or immobility will stop it. It is because the fetus is not viable to begin with. If you’re going to miscarry, it will happen regardless of stairs or not.
A request to all you ladies, please take some time to educate yourself on how pregnancy and conception works. Using stairs has NOTHING to do with TTC.
There is a wealth of information out there that will alleviate a lot of pareshani that you guys bring upon yourself for no reason. If you can log on to GS, you can use Google to search other forums and websites like babycenter etc.