Trying to Conceive (The highs and lows)

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ur friend conceived the very first night. MashAllah...
i've never heard anyone conceiving the very first night.

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^ my couson also concieved the first night..

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everythings possible if it has the will of allah

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very true!

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Hi guys. Has any1 dne clomid? Wat was the experience like?

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i take 3 rounds with no success. and no side effects as well.

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^^ did u do follicular tracking?

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yes i did that as well there were three mature follicles. but it didn't work for me. lowering my prolactin level works and i conceived after 1 month without clomid that ended up in m/c at almost 10 weeks.

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After for 1.5 years, I am 6 weeks pregnant. I have prayed for every one who is TTC in Ramandan, including my cousin who is TTC for few years. I can understand how hard things can get when u are TTC and stress you cant avoid.

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I have heard higher dosage of it creates Cysts in ovaries!!

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i also conceived the very first night :)

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me and my sister got married on same day.she conceived very first night and i’m still trying .:confused:

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hello everyone.
MY STORY

I"M married for almost 4 years and trying to have a baby since then .i’m praying a lot and taking folic acid and trying my best to stay positive and active.we have done all our fertility testsand they are fine so far.The problem is my hubby works in spain and comes only for two months in a year.i know its really a short time to conceive.but i’m facing too much pressure from my inlaws as my hubby is only son of his parents.MIL keeps critcising me for not been able to conceive yet.:teary1:
i have talked to my doctor .she has prescribed me clomid to boost my chances.but i tried it last time and it just gave me worst acne and nothing else.so i’m looking for some natural help.
some one told me about taking a herb known as"khavi" .easily available in pakistan.has anyone else heard of it or anything else like that?your opinions would be appreciated.:slight_smile:

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MA SHA ALLAH

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2 months very short period i think, No?
well some people i know are lucky enough but for some it takes a few months to years of trying. And as u said u’ve been trying for 4 years, but if u count it im sure its less than four years. lots of duas with u. IN SHA ALLAH hope u have a baby very soon!

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But why wouldn't conceiving on the first night be possible? In some cases it only takes one time to get pregnant, it's not shocking or surprising at all.

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Alright, might be distressing for you but painful for me accepting the reality!! Sometimes we joke around things but think deep about that!
I am also suffering this situation as TTC, and I have been trying very hard too. When I was back in pakistan, I got pregnant twice but miscarried and then he came back to UK. Then I shifted here and its been almost 3 to 4 months and I am trying to conceive but no results. Not only this, I have recently gone through a chemical pregnancy.. my previous pregnancies were missed initially, too. My reports are all positive and there is not cysts or ovaries problems, mashAllah. Hubby’s reports are fine too.
I am very depressed and disappointed these days and too eager to get prego and lately was thinking, that yeah when a girl gets in a worst situation like god forbid being raped or even the couple before getting married fails to control their emotions and really dont will to get a baby.. conceives the very first time… and where we, the ones who are married, and lot of us really want to conceive are going through several problems, some have genuine probs and some like me with no probs but still getting no positive results :frowning:

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Hun, I know how you must be feeling. It's very hard! A lot of women go through the heartbreak of miscarriage and this whole journey of TTC. BUT none of these ladies on here who've said that they conceived on the first night are unmarried or anything like that. Please, do not judge them because they had it easier to conceive. You should be happy for them!!!

Trying to conceive can be very hard emotionally, a lot of our fellow guppans are living it everyday, but having negative feelings for those who conceived fairly quickly is very wrong.

What threw me off was the comment about rape. There was for no need for it.

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Queenie I am sorry for your loss. It must be very hard. Have u considered counselling?

Everyone has different sort of problems. I read somewhere that every1 is in their own kind of hell which I truly believe.

Having a pregnancy which is unplanned and unwanted is also very very hard and is a situation I won't wish on anyone. Do consider how other people would feel before posting on such a sensitive topic. Even if some1 wasn't married we are in no place to judge.

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U are right but I never intended to hurt anyone here.. I was being sarcastic to my own.. I just felt it the same day I read the thread and when I saw there such posts just wrote it randomly.. I understand you anyways and I hope you understand my situation too :hugz: